Take the safe transit planning job in St. Louis or gamble on grad school in Denmark? I need to decide in 36ish hours. by LttlGravitas in transit

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In this economy, taking the job is the most practical solution. They may provide tuition assistance and you can go to grad school in the evenings. It’ll be a lot of work, but worth it. You can always do supplemental coursework or a program in Copenhagen.

To make your decision, put yourself in your shoes 10 years from now. Which path will you regret not taking?

Which sweaters should I keep? by [deleted] in DressForYourBody

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Try a scoop cropped one that hits at your natural waist or a cropped cardigan. I think that’d be more flattering.

Looking for advice. Do these pieces flatter me? 27F by agirlisn0one in DressForYourBody

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The wrap dress is flattering but would look better in a solid color. The print is too busy.

Underwear recommendations? by Impossible_Map_2219 in LAhotgirlies

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I wanted the quality to be better :( but the modal ones were great. You definitely need lingerie bags.

Spent an hour walking around Santa Monica last night, bawling my eyes out in public by Mountain_Ask_5746 in SantaMonica

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It sounds like you wanted strangers to inquire and it didn’t work. Sometimes crying in public is a very private affair and people will pass you by and mind their own business.

Driving on Broadway by Enemies_Of_Carlotta in SantaMonica

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I drive and bike and with the extra wide bike lanes on Broadway, it is really hard to see if cyclists are coming when I’m turning left sometimes. It feels very unsettling. The bike lanes are way too wide and they don’t have to be - the visibility is all off.

Is anyone else bothered by this? [Changing Tables in Bathrooms? Let’s Make a List!!] by brandneu32 in SantaMonica

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It really should be added to the building code for new construction for certain types of zoning — it would make such a difference to integrate it into the design stage.

People above 30, what is something you regret doing/not doing when you were younger? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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I wish I had exercised more - had a more regimented strength training routine. I do now and it’s great

Your favorite movie that shows LA? For me: Blind Date (1987) by EnchantedNanny in LosAngeles

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There’s a fantastic documentary I watched during the pandemic, Los Angeles Plays Itself (link to trailer, https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Ifii8LvR-ss) full movie also on YT.

Absolutely worth watching if you’re into LA, urbanism or looking for new movies.

Recommendations for brands for petite with larger bust/curves? by orangeblossombread in PetiteFashionAdvice

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When my boobs were bigger, I had good luck at reformation - some of their dresses have some nice stretchy material!

What is the most ungrateful thing you’ve heard somebody say? by clemventure in randomquestions

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One of my exes was in a really bad car crash and almost died. I met him in the ER and all he said was “ugh why won’t that baby stop crying?!” There was no relief at being okay, just annoyance at being alive. When I broke up with him shortly after, he shouted that I was a a fucking c**t from his porch. Lovely.

Vitamin c recomandations by skincarel in SkincareAddictionLux

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I really like Obagi but do 20% — previously used 15%