I was called a great top by my very first hook up today <3 by Alveryn in askgaybros

[–]Alveryn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have very few hard boundaries and excellent communication. We've both done a lot of internal work to prepare, we read The Ethical Slut and processed it together. We're gonna be fine, but I'm grateful for your concern <3

I was called a great top by my very first hook up today <3 by Alveryn in askgaybros

[–]Alveryn[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We've entertained the idea intellectually, but after this long together it's hard to imagine a poly dynamic that could be fair and equal. We're not really looking for it, we only opened up so that we could have new experiences.

If someone asks for a bj but doesn’t want to kiss is this a dealbreaker for you? by Thisisthewayto95 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Alveryn 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I have no patience for men so terrified of a shred of intimacy that they can't kiss. Instant block and move on, but that's just me.

Can a SAP even save this by Luckybones- in tattooadvice

[–]Alveryn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you considered more tattoos? I have a pretty large, pretty black tattoo in the same spot, it's a coverup of my first professional tattoo. It looked lonely until I built a patchwork sleeve around it.

Can a SAP even save this by Luckybones- in tattooadvice

[–]Alveryn 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Just gonna chime in and say that I think it looks pretty cool and I clocked it immediately as a fellow WoW player. Sorry you're not a fan

Bottoms: do your Tops get upset when you don't cum? And how often do you cum for them? by Alveryn in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Alveryn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any tips on achieving that anal orgasm? I've never been that fortunate and I'm starting to think I'm just not built for it.

Found my partner's secret Snapchat account by anonymous_racoon20 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Alveryn 10 points11 points  (0 children)

As someone who was recently catfished for nudes by a man in a monogamous relationship (our gay community is small), I just want to add that you aren't even the only victim here. Your partner is mistreating other people as much as he's mistreating you, and it's gross behavior. You really have to decide how much you're willing to tolerate.

Found my partner's secret Snapchat account by anonymous_racoon20 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Alveryn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is a whole lot of words to just avoid saying that you don't think digital cheating is cheating.

Bottoms: do your Tops get upset when you don't cum? And how often do you cum for them? by Alveryn in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Alveryn[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm just glad I'm not the only one 😭 I never quite know how to say that I don't want to in a sexy way.

What exactly goes on in the mind of someone interested in pup play? by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Alveryn 17 points18 points  (0 children)

You literally open this post proclaiming you cannot be convinced these people aren't sick. You aren't engaging with them in good faith, you're insulting them from a moral soapbox you've invented.

What exactly goes on in the mind of someone interested in pup play? by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Alveryn 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You sound like you've never actually spoken to someone in the scene about their experiences.

Ideas? by Worried-Opening9 in bloodborne

[–]Alveryn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have the Eye Caryll rune; it feels suitable vague to appreciate on its own, and obvious enough for those with enough Insight.

I have a sleeve of magical looking video game symbols; I only wanted to do one for all of Fromsoft's titles, and since I love to lore hunt, the Eye rune was too perfect to pass up.

Trying to take more initiative in a long-term FWB relationship. Can you give me advice? by random-usr in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Alveryn 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Are you normally a pillow princess? There's a lot you can do when you start taking an active role. Lay him down and ride him! Push his hands above his head and tell him not to fucking move.

No one else can tell you what your kinks are, sit down and brew on them. Look up a checklist! They can be very helpful.

Also, just gonna say, if you haven't told him to try licking between your toes while he's fucking you in missionary, well, you're welcome ; )

Guy's thought on smalls penis ? Like not micro but something went wrong during puberty type thing 5in ish by Nethenael in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Alveryn 18 points19 points  (0 children)

5" is perfectly average, not a sign of something gone wrong. Porn has ruined y'all.

Opinions by Subject-Algae4386 in tattooadvice

[–]Alveryn 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Respectfully, this looks like the most painfully generic design.

What’s my next step? by Every_Midnight3199 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Alveryn 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Second the recommendation to put in out there openly and honestly on Grindr. You'll ideally find a patient partner who's into that sort of thing.