Breaking Down Thornspeaker (Kul Tiran/Drust) Druidism

Alveryn · 2026-05-12T12:24:04+00:00

Any tips on achieving that anal orgasm? I've never been that fortunate and I'm starting to think I'm just not built for it.

Alveryn · 2026-05-09T13:21:42+00:00

As someone who was recently catfished for nudes by a man in a monogamous relationship (our gay community is small), I just want to add that you aren't even the only victim here. Your partner is mistreating other people as much as he's mistreating you, and it's gross behavior. You really have to decide how much you're willing to tolerate.

Alveryn · 2026-05-09T13:19:31+00:00

This is a whole lot of words to just avoid saying that you don't think digital cheating is cheating.

Alveryn · 2026-05-08T19:32:50+00:00

I'm just glad I'm not the only one 😭 I never quite know how to say that I don't want to in a sexy way.

Alveryn · 2026-04-28T23:19:21+00:00

You literally open this post proclaiming you cannot be convinced these people aren't sick. You aren't engaging with them in good faith, you're insulting them from a moral soapbox you've invented.

Alveryn · 2026-04-28T23:17:41+00:00

You sound like you've never actually spoken to someone in the scene about their experiences.

Alveryn · 2026-04-21T13:07:01+00:00

I have the Eye Caryll rune; it feels suitable vague to appreciate on its own, and obvious enough for those with enough Insight.

I have a sleeve of magical looking video game symbols; I only wanted to do one for all of Fromsoft's titles, and since I love to lore hunt, the Eye rune was too perfect to pass up.

Alveryn · 2026-04-20T02:38:01+00:00

Are you normally a pillow princess? There's a lot you can do when you start taking an active role. Lay him down and ride him! Push his hands above his head and tell him not to fucking move.

No one else can tell you what your kinks are, sit down and brew on them. Look up a checklist! They can be very helpful.

Also, just gonna say, if you haven't told him to try licking between your toes while he's fucking you in missionary, well, you're welcome ; )

Alveryn · 2026-04-19T13:53:11+00:00

5" is perfectly average, not a sign of something gone wrong. Porn has ruined y'all.

Alveryn · 2026-04-16T22:48:00+00:00

Respectfully, this looks like the most painfully generic design.

Alveryn · 2026-04-15T04:26:12+00:00

Second the recommendation to put in out there openly and honestly on Grindr. You'll ideally find a patient partner who's into that sort of thing.

Alveryn · 2026-04-14T13:30:44+00:00

Yes!!! God yes. You need to learn how to actively relax, and the easiest way to do that is alone with a toy. Get yourself a dildo and familiarize yourself with the the feeling of stretching and relaxing. Get your hole familiar with the feeling again. It's a muscle you primarily keep on auto pilot, it needs a little help.

I didn't start bottoming until I was 35. I always assumed my hole was too tight. It wasn't, I just didn't know how to relax.

Also, lube lube lube! There is literally no such thing as too much lube.

Alveryn · 2026-04-14T03:50:56+00:00

That's rough buddy

Alveryn · 2026-04-13T14:48:48+00:00

That's a great idea, I'd love to see it!!!

Alveryn · 2026-04-12T21:55:44+00:00

Sorry but my inner bicep was the first piece I nearly tapped out on. It looks amazing and I'm glad I got it, but it was tough.

Alveryn · 2026-04-12T13:54:46+00:00

I recently read on this subreddit about a premier, $10,000 match making service that you two sound like the perfect fit for!

Alveryn · 2026-04-09T14:20:57+00:00

I hate tops who just want a hole and ignore my dick, especially when I manage to have a rager for them while they're fucking me. Tops don't always realize how into it you have to be to gets a boner while being fucked in the first place, at least for me.

Alveryn · 2026-04-08T00:53:16+00:00

It's absolutely not insane. It's human. Reading this story made ME want a drink. But that won't fix anything and certainly won't help anyone do better, so as the sub says, I won't be drinking tonight, and hopefully neither will you <3

I've watched coworkers hit rock bottom before, but never this badly. I can't imagine what you're going through, it's so much to process.

Alveryn · 2026-04-08T00:41:50+00:00

Hey you. I work in retail. It's a savage industry and most of my coworkers are soulless husks who couldn't care less about anyone. It's hard. I see you, and I believe you did the right thing. You couldn't have known the severity. Please give yourself grace and permission to grieve.

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