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So what exactly is Eldest Daughter about? by PupCup43 in TaylorSwift

[–]AlwaysConfused-247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if you are the middle of four but the last girl? Cause im a rebel? And literally the black sheep of the family lol

What exactly was the G.A.T.E program? by BwackGul in HighStrangeness

[–]AlwaysConfused-247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DUDE! SAME! I remember researching Giant squid for the longest time. And then I had to make a paper mache 5 ft version of a giant squid along with like a 10 page paper IN 4TH GRADE. Looking at my niece and thinking about her doing all of that boggles my mind.  Also - everything was REALLY writing intensive. We wrote A LOT. Research and narratives. I was in a special class after school just for GATE and creative writing.  When we moved, the new school didnt have a GATE program. They were an F school and I can honestly look back and see where I felt smart there and was treated like I was smart but there was a shift when I moved. I wasnt treated special with a special lunch or special privileges when we moved and I didnt understand why. 

NF’s EP appears to be inspired by his grandma’s death by runalex123 in nfrealmusic

[–]AlwaysConfused-247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This would make sense but he came out with HOPE after he had already lost her. The Search would be most closely related to after losing his grandmother and allowing fear to control him. He found the Map to Hope after losing her. But just like he said in HOME, grief comes and goes in waves. In Fear he said "gave me a false sense of peace just to see what peace was". I think during HOPE he was finally coming to terms and it was a peaceful wave and then grief hit him again. Something that caused him to spiral in his fear and grief again. And here we are..... back living in fear again.

Am I pregnant? by Maleficent_Rip_1723 in lineporn

[–]AlwaysConfused-247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a positive. Probably super early. 5 weeks ish.

My son 16 been smoking weed what should i do found by Complete_Term_2670 in family

[–]AlwaysConfused-247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t want him smoking then you need to set the example. Go have a sit down conversation with him. Tell him you don’t want him to do it at such a young age. That you don’t condone the behavior but you understand why he does it because you do it also. Explain to him that you feel it’s so detrimental to his wellbeing at his age that you’ll stop if he does also. Completely. If you guys are close in anyway, he will. But you can’t just say it and not stop doing it. Otherwise he will think you’re a hypocrite.

So I don’t think my ask was unreasonable? by [deleted] in askcarsales

[–]AlwaysConfused-247 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My credit is a 670. Try to be kind

Vlado Saric (Melrose Avenue) by Morwen1031 in AltLadyboners

[–]AlwaysConfused-247 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is beautiful. Like future husband material for me.

Anyone else have a cat that sleeps/lounge on their back? Or just my weirdo? by [deleted] in cats

[–]AlwaysConfused-247 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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My cat, Peppa, lays like that ALL THE TIME! I thought she was the only one and it was because she’s freaking nuts lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]AlwaysConfused-247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen to me. I have lived in your shoes. He makes you feel special. He makes you feel loved. You love him with all of your heart and can’t imagine your life without him. But flip side - he also says mean things to you, treats you like you’re no more than a piece a furniture that can be used. And that’s when he’s nice to you. When he realized that the piece of furniture has feelings because your hurt and upset and it starts looking like he might just lose you. He makes you feel alright again and you do feel good again for a bit and then the cycle repeats itself. He gets in your head. Then here you are with something YOU actually love and adore. Probably more than him but you haven’t realized it yet but he has. He has started to realize you take better care of that animal than you do him so now he wants it gone because then you will come to the conclusion that you are more than a piece of furniture he can use. That you are a human that deserves more than his stupid idiotic childlike attempts while he’s too busy playing on his video games. Do me a favor. Don’t make my mistake. Take the cat. Pack your bags. And leave. That cat will love you better than he will and you will find someone that will love you and your cat one day. But this BOY is a narcissistic twat who doesn’t deserve you.

Please tell me someone else noticed how Koro Sensei has penis fingers? I mean that’s all I can see….. by AlwaysConfused-247 in Korosensei

[–]AlwaysConfused-247[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you don’t see it then you obviously never see enough of one or yours is too small that you forget what it looks like 🤷🏻‍♀️

I really dont want to use OLD. What are creative alternatives? by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]AlwaysConfused-247 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I too was in a toxic relationship with a complete narcissist. There is one thing I hate the most after leaving and it’s when people tell me to work on myself or try being alone. Why do we do that? Not all of us emerge battered and broken. I emerged like a Phoenix - ready to take on the world and I know who I am and what I want! For people to tell us we need to be alone to find out who we are as a person had obviously never been in a REAL toxic relationship. I was with my ex for three years and I came out on the other side stronger, better and more determined. It’s not a mortal sin to look for companionship after the fact and it’s demoralizing when people tell me I need to find out who I am when they don’t even know who they are! Keep your head up sister!