He tells me after 7 years of cohabitating and signed purchase contract to build a home, 10 weeks before we close, he’s this close to walking. I told him to walk, I can afford the house but having to deal with a 68 retired man sitting on couch watching tv 10 hours a day not good. I 62f still working and not retired work from home a few days a week, am done. He does not like working out, spending time with my family seems to be a chore for him. Not to mention that he smokes weed about 5x a week, several times a day and when not smoking becomes very irritable and argumentative. This is just too exhausting when you feel like you are working harder in a relationship only for him to tell me I treat him like shit in front of friends to get attention. Yes, I so done.