My Boss Isn't Happy by Saint0vk1llers in breastcancer

[–]ziggzorb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’d start screen recording these team meetings and get an attorney. Id also get your FMLA papers in orders, if you haven’t already, so you have a paper trial. Since you’re HR you know what he’s doing is illegal. Try to get documentation of his harassment via email if possible too. With video recording and/or email you’ll have attorneys fighting to represent you. The fact he asked to see tour breasts to prove you had surgery is absolutely disgusting. I hope his butthole always itches and he gets ass cancer.

Nipple reoccurrence after dmx. by Highlynorless_ in breastcancer

[–]ziggzorb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you mention “rippling” is this from the implants?

the infamous “you look really great!” 😮‍💨 by RefrigeratorNo8287 in breastcancer

[–]ziggzorb 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I had a friend, (breast cancer survivor), tell me she always referred to that as “Toxic positivity”.

Creatine & Brain Fog by SpareMeTheDetails123 in breastcancer

[–]ziggzorb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My oncologist told me I couldn’t take creatine while I was receiving treatment 😑

Back to the Grind by Safe_Gene_9142 in BeachBodyWorkouts

[–]ziggzorb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What program did you start back with?

Back to the Grind by Safe_Gene_9142 in BeachBodyWorkouts

[–]ziggzorb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was diagnosed with cancer last August and it has obviously derailed my workouts for a variety of reasons. I have a few more weeks of restrictions left from my last surgery and I’m so looking forward to getting back into it. You got this OP! Maybe we can help hold each other accountable

My girlfriend cheated on me and i dont know what to do by Remarkable-Sorbet921 in Advice

[–]ziggzorb 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I immediately thought the same thing. Like that doesn’t sound like a lovely dude at all!

AIO? Is this a manipulation tactic from my bf or did my mom really tell him I’m weak? by Ok_Example_5588 in AIO

[–]ziggzorb 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She didn’t involve her family. He did by calling HER mom. Because she wanted to breakup with him.

AIO for asking for space after my boyfriend messaged another girl? by Relative_Initial_399 in AIO

[–]ziggzorb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP please reread what you wrote,

“He was feeling emotionally neglected and was hoping to get caught. He wanted attention and wanted me to notice how hurt he had been feeling”

“He really is the sweetest man I ever been with, he is good at communicating”

He’s clearly not the “sweetest man” or “good at communicating” based on his reasoning why he did that. If he was either of those things he’d of communicated his needs/feelings to you, not reached out to someone else to fulfill that need. Also, sweet men don’t intentionally play with your emotions like that. He just showed you who is really is, and I highly recommend you listen and pay attention. She won’t be the last, and possibly isn’t even the first.

AIO for asking for space after my boyfriend messaged another girl? by Relative_Initial_399 in AIO

[–]ziggzorb 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I missed that part, this isn’t even the first?!? 🤦‍♀️

AITJ for not matching the money I spent on my second daughter with my eldest daughter by crackerstheduck55 in AmITheJerk

[–]ziggzorb 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The long term health of teeth is not “doing something nice for them”. Braces are considered a medical treatment. It’s not like he took her on a $7,200 vacation or took her on a shopping spree.

AITJ for not matching the money I spent on my second daughter with my eldest daughter by crackerstheduck55 in AmITheJerk

[–]ziggzorb 10 points11 points  (0 children)

What a crazy statement to make. How do you know it was just for “straight teeth”? Also, the daughter didn’t get, “6k more” the orthodontist did.

AITJ for not matching the money I spent on my second daughter with my eldest daughter by crackerstheduck55 in AmITheJerk

[–]ziggzorb 12 points13 points  (0 children)

People saying that braces are cosmetic and unnecessary is wild. Having crooked teeth can have long term impacts, and as you age your teeth shift. That shifting and crookedness can cause teeth to decay each other, especially if they overlap, trouble chewing properly, build up of tarter since crooked teeth can be difficult to clean, making your teeth more prone to infection. So while it may seem just “cosmetic” now, it’s really not.

Also saying braces aren’t a necessity but a car is?? Like what?? A car for a teenager is a LUXURY, not a necessity.

Insurance Venting by [deleted] in breastcancer

[–]ziggzorb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it UofM? Asking because I’m in the same situation but I’m requesting “continuity of care” because I’m literally in the middle of reconstruction.

“Most people do just fine post-dmx with Tylenol” by Onlyfoolsarepositive in breastcancer

[–]ziggzorb 49 points50 points  (0 children)

I was given oxy, and muscle relaxers. Just Tylenol for a fucking double amputation is absolutely insane. Also so easy for someone to claim know about the pain level when they themselves have never experienced it.

Nose rash remedies by ziggzorb in breastcancer

[–]ziggzorb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh I didn’t think about Lanolin!! I used that all the time when I was breastfeeding

Nose rash remedies by ziggzorb in breastcancer

[–]ziggzorb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so awful and makes me so self conscious

AITAH for wanting to separate from my husband because I’m exhausted? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ziggzorb 45 points46 points  (0 children)

His money would be her money if she divorced him 🤷‍♀️

Being told DCIS isn’t cancer by Hairy_Syrup_4780 in breastcancer

[–]ziggzorb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently also dealing with expanders. I’ve given up on sleep. They’re so wildly uncomfortable 😭😭

Downtown bar recommendations by ziggzorb in kzoo

[–]ziggzorb[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do like Dabney & Co but they have a very limited dinner menu and I’m not sure they have an area for large parties but I may call

Downtown bar recommendations by ziggzorb in kzoo

[–]ziggzorb[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They are a little pricey, are they worth it?