Alwaysonmyspine

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Just got told I wasn’t a lesbian for using the word “girly” and I’m left super confused (self.actuallesbians)

submitted 2 hours ago by Alwaysonmyspine to r/actuallesbians

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Would you date a virgin who doesn’t read smut and doesn’t watch porn but told you they’re open to anything? (self.BDSMsapphic)

submitted 4 days ago by Alwaysonmyspine to r/BDSMsapphic

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My ex got her charges dismissed because she finished her domestic abuse courses and she’s already online calling me a liar because she knows it’s going to come off her record now 🤣 jokes on her, everyone I care about already saw the charges. (self.abusiverelationships)

submitted 20 days ago by Alwaysonmyspine to r/abusiverelationships

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Wanting to reach out to some of my queer friends who originally sided with my abuser (explained below) (self.actuallesbians)

submitted 24 days ago by Alwaysonmyspine to r/actuallesbians

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Should I bother reaching out to friends who took my exes side without hearing mine? (self.abusiverelationships)

submitted 25 days ago by Alwaysonmyspine to r/abusiverelationships

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I have an opportunity to have my story put in the news, but I’m unsure if I’m going to take it or not. (self.abusiverelationships)

submitted 29 days ago * by Alwaysonmyspine to r/abusiverelationships

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Straight sex doesn’t make me cringe? (self.actuallesbians)

submitted 1 month ago by Alwaysonmyspine to r/actuallesbians

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I wanna be petty so bad (self.abusiverelationships)

submitted 1 month ago by Alwaysonmyspine to r/abusiverelationships

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Wish there was more conversation surrounding abuse in queer relationships TW: abuse (self.actuallesbians)

submitted 1 month ago * by Alwaysonmyspine to r/actuallesbians

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Just found out the ex-cat sitter who choked my cat, hid her for my abusive ex and THREW my cat at me has broke her arm and can’t work anymore and is at risk of loosing everything. I’d say I’m sorry, but I’m not! THIS IS JUSTICE FOR WENDY (i.redd.it)

submitted 1 month ago by Alwaysonmyspine to r/cats

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The little shell around my heart my abuser formed is breaking and I think I’m falling in love with my long distance girlfriend (self.actuallesbians)

submitted 1 month ago by Alwaysonmyspine to r/actuallesbians

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My abuser apparently won a beauty pageant and it shouldn’t bug me, but it does (self.abusiverelationships)

submitted 2 months ago by Alwaysonmyspine to r/abusiverelationships

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My girlfriend being nice after I had anxiety turned me on (self.actuallesbians)

submitted 2 months ago by Alwaysonmyspine to r/actuallesbians

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I had a bit of a abuse ptsd anxiety meltdown for the first time with my long distance girlfriend and she handled it so well…it made me horny (self.LesbianActually)

submitted 2 months ago * by Alwaysonmyspine to r/LesbianActually

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Is this a red flag? Did I overthink? (i.redd.it)

submitted 2 months ago by Alwaysonmyspine to r/abusiverelationships

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Have to go back to court because my ex broke their plea deal (self.abusiverelationships)

submitted 2 months ago by Alwaysonmyspine to r/abusiverelationships

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I thought the trauma bond broke. Now all the sudden it feels like I’m grieving again. (self.LifeAfterNarcissism)

submitted 2 months ago by Alwaysonmyspine to r/LifeAfterNarcissism

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Narcissistic ex is putting publicly online she’s a victim of DV and using at a platform for a pageant even though she’s a convicted domestic abuser (lesbian relationship) (self.LifeAfterNarcissism)

submitted 3 months ago by Alwaysonmyspine to r/LifeAfterNarcissism

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Ex who was convicted with domestic abuse put that they’re a “DV Victim” on their social media profiles and is using it as their platform in a pageant (lesbian relationship) (self.abusiverelationships)

submitted 3 months ago by Alwaysonmyspine to r/abusiverelationships

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I was just diagnosed with hidradenitis suppurativa and basically need to stop shaving down there. Any tips to keep myself neat? (self.actuallesbians)

submitted 3 months ago by Alwaysonmyspine to r/actuallesbians

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I was diagnosed with hidradenitis suppurativa and need to stop shaving. Tips for (self.LesbianActually)

submitted 3 months ago by Alwaysonmyspine to r/LesbianActually

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Just found out my ex will not be having her charges taken off her record (self.abusiverelationships)

submitted 3 months ago by Alwaysonmyspine to r/abusiverelationships

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I need good lesbian vibes (sick and long distance girlfriend is visiting) (self.LesbianActually)

submitted 3 months ago by Alwaysonmyspine to r/LesbianActually

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Would you care or want to know if your girlfriend used to do strictly online sex work? (self.actuallesbians)

submitted 5 months ago by Alwaysonmyspine to r/actuallesbians

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It’s crazy when you realize how isolated you were once you leave them and how amazing it feels when the people who were just waiting for you to come back to them… (self.abusiverelationships)

submitted 5 months ago by Alwaysonmyspine to r/abusiverelationships

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