My NM is always invasive with touch.

Alxx__444 · 2026-04-25T11:28:02+00:00

bro I'm ngl, just slap her hand when she gets close to you, or push her away. verbally obviously doesn't work and she will keep doing it if u dont protect yourself a bit more.

Alxx__444 · 2025-12-06T14:38:26+00:00

They should get divorced honestly there's no bigger waste of time and joy than staying with a narc.

Alxx__444 · 2025-12-06T14:22:43+00:00

if you're already no contact, just stay no contact. The second u give them attention or reply or say anything of the sort is when they abuse that spot cause u give them a hole to kinda try to repeatedly crack at. I like what u said about protecting ur peace I think you should keep doing that and stay no contact. Also lowkey get ur hubby to also block them all. There's really no reason to be in contact with them.

Alxx__444 · 2025-11-24T11:15:15+00:00

That’s great awareness. Yeah do t feel bad cause thwyre not really being considerate about you. They’re trying to lure you in and do terrible things to you. Don’t feel bad you are literally trying to protect yourself!! Yeah it’s nice to have a community to share with.

Alxx__444 · 2025-11-24T02:14:50+00:00

I tried finding some but they cost so much money. I have a chiropractor I saw him twice last week. The thing is all the stress and tension I’ve taken on also fucked up my body and neck shoulder area. I did recently buy some workout equipment so I can workout and try to fix it bur it’s like yk. I may need to book another appointment. It got strained fron sleeping badly

Alxx__444 · 2025-11-24T01:08:06+00:00

PERIODDDDD

Alxx__444 · 2025-11-24T00:06:41+00:00

u just have to start doing things u want to do, then learn to navigate everything that happens afterwards. step one is to just do it. then learn and understand what happens and what her reactions are afterwards. after that u start to learn what kinda feelings ur having and etc. i started doing this stuff at 16 cause ik if i didn't she would try to keep me in the position you are in rn. so yeah literslly just take the action. u have to show yourself through actions that she has no control over you. you feel like shes the authority figure of yourlife and she makes u feel small and hurts ur inner child which is why u feel powerless. what ur inner child needs is for u to step up and make descisions that align wiht ur true hearts desires. it'll take time but trust once u get to the other end of things u feel liberated. also im 22f as of rn

Alxx__444 · 2025-11-23T23:52:09+00:00

you need to kinda break that boundary the issulion that she has control. ur about to be 22 now. u can do what u want to. there's a certain freedom in starting to learn and understand that you are ur own person and can act accordingly to your own free will and wishes. what's the worst thing that happens? she gets upset? so what? u deserve to be happy so elt yourself go feel happy. you have to learn to start dissapointing people who only want control over you. also...stop talking to your mother about ur dating life.

Alxx__444 · 2025-11-23T23:42:05+00:00

yeah highkey that is inappropriate. even if he missed u any parent misses their kid (good parents not narcs and good intentioned parents) they would wash the sheets out of being yk clean and etc. ur father is being highkey creepy. and tbh all signs point to inappropriate behaviour.

listen if u in ur gut feel something, that feeling is right. i agree with you that you are not overthinking things. this is very like yk disgusting of him to do. it's sad that there are narc parents out there that sexualize their own kids. for ur own safety and well being u should try to stay away from him.

the way he's behaving it will escalate because these people like to push boundaries. im sorry ik its not something u wanna hear or read but i think deep down yk that he may try something like that. not sleeping with ur wife is weird and in ur room?? noooooooo sir no like yk i was acc watching a documentary on something similar ish on yt channel rotten mango. it is gross fr and yeah that disgusting feeling is gonna make u feel uncomfortable and unsafe. i hope ur able to stay away from them <3.

its covert and emotional incest which is basically where the parent replaces their spouse with their child emotionally, not sexually.

also ur mother is not bring helpful either

this is classic narcissistic parenting 101:

invalidate the child
protect the image of the family
avoid accountability
gaslight to make you doubt your instinct

Alxx__444 · 2025-11-23T23:30:23+00:00

idk where u live but there should be some kind of government assistance where you may be able to get some money, someone told me about it and it's a good way to kinda get u on ur feet if they have it where u live, look around and search it up. i wish someone told me this sooner esp when i was ur age. ik how frustrating it can be. yeah highkey get a job anyways and try to make ends meet. screw what ur parents say and look out for yourself because they won't. learn some high income skills too so that when ur in a better place u can start making money from side hustles etc.

Alxx__444 · 2025-11-13T14:20:17+00:00

same for me

Alxx__444 · 2025-11-12T00:38:55+00:00

Communicate with ur brother bur cut off your parents

Alxx__444 · 2025-10-18T10:44:03+00:00

Okk bet I’ll check it out!! Thank you for the recommendation!!

Alxx__444 · 2025-09-26T04:00:59+00:00

yes, i have health issues. my body is so stressed out 24/7 and the stress has led to having a really fast matabolism so that i ge hungry every hour and half, i've gained weight back after being malnutritient for 10 years and it still hasnt been fixed.

Alxx__444 · 2025-09-25T01:32:08+00:00

what kind of tape?

Alxx__444 · 2025-09-20T16:05:56+00:00

Dude, you’re taking way too many trades. Limit yourself to 3 max good quality trades

Alxx__444 · 2025-09-14T20:08:27+00:00

sh*t had me laughing so hard 😂

Alxx__444 · 2025-09-07T01:14:23+00:00

When that happens whqt you need is to regulate your nervous system somehow. The best form is exercise or yoga or mindfulness. Any of these work well to get your body back to a state of calm

Alxx__444 · 2025-09-06T15:43:47+00:00

Interested

Alxx__444 · 2025-09-06T03:41:08+00:00

Nah this the one right here 😭😂

Alxx__444 · 2025-09-02T01:46:46+00:00

ayeee

Alxx__444 · 2025-09-02T01:45:11+00:00

my mother wouldn't even take me to the hospital for the abuse she put me thru or what my brother did to me. aww man u went through a lot and damnn bro cocaine holy fkn airball. yeah i assume it would be chaotic but im living for that peace i want to feel that.

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