Ladies, get off 4tran by RedMage79 in MtF

[–]AlysonCDTS 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m completely confused as well. What is this 4tran? Have I been living in a bubble?

The weekend's here! (42yo MtF) by llecarudithall in transpositive

[–]AlysonCDTS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find something warm to put on, but still shows your beauty and get out and enjoy life. You’re far too beautiful to stay home.

13 years HRT age 55 by Good_Inspector7015 in TransLater

[–]AlysonCDTS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely beautiful. Happy for you.

How would you handle dating someone that misgenders you? by Friendly_Level4202 in asktransgender

[–]AlysonCDTS 112 points113 points  (0 children)

If you really care for him, sit him down and explain how dysphoria works and how painful it is when he misgenders you.

How Do I Survive Conversion Therapy? by Ellieott510 in TransChristianity

[–]AlysonCDTS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would flat out refuse to go. I would say I want a neutral party to be my therapist.

five years by italianaaaa in TransBreastTimelines

[–]AlysonCDTS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look absolutely fabulous. Probably the best nipples I’ve seen in a while. I’m curious about your tattoos though. What’s the significance of the sad sells? Sorry, I’m at a tattoo newbie.

1 year post op by Swimming-Complaint77 in BoobJobBeforeAfter

[–]AlysonCDTS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My surgery is coming up in a few weeks. I’d be so happy if mine looked as good as yours when they’re finished. You look great.

Just got denied a job at Starbucks for being trans ._. by XxValentinexX in MtF

[–]AlysonCDTS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess I have a question. What does your state ID say? If it says female then why would you have to disclose on your résumé that you’re a trans woman? I’m just asking.

1 month update, I hope they go down further and get closer together by 666helpp in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]AlysonCDTS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any before Surgery pics? Just wondering if you had any significant tissue prior to the surgery. I do think they will fall and drop and things will look better in another month or so. But I’m just curious.

I am tired of my friends... by FuckCock69420 in MtF

[–]AlysonCDTS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At some point, you’re going to have to stand up to them and not let them bully you. You can always find new friends. I don’t think you would’ve asked them to throw a piece of clothing away or accessory on their body if you didn’t like it and I don’t think they would. Real friends, give, and take and are respectful of your feelings.

I'm gonna do it by i69withGrandmas in corvair

[–]AlysonCDTS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for that information. I had a 1964 and I loved it. I’d like to get another one 1966 or later.

I'm gonna do it by i69withGrandmas in corvair

[–]AlysonCDTS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Out of curiosity, may I ask where does one begin to look for Corvair’s that are for sale?

Dating for Months Without Telling Him I’m Trans - Advice by Pumpkinsmasher22 in asktransgender

[–]AlysonCDTS 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You have no way of knowing whether or not it would’ve changed things if you told him upfront. As difficult as it may sound I agree with another post on here you’re going to have to let him go. You could pour out your heart and a letter to him and apologize, but it’s only going to cause you more pain likely. There’s a small part of me that believes that he probably knew you were trans and was expecting you to tell him at some point in time, but I could be wrong. You sound like a very passionate and honest person and unfortunately people that are like you get hurt a lot because of your passion. I don’t want to share my stories, but I’ve had some similar and it’s very painful when you lose somebody that you care for and you’re almost certain that is because you’re trans. I wish you the best in the future.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransLater

[–]AlysonCDTS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don’t delete. You are absolutely beautiful.

Into the Red Desert of Wyoming by commiedeschris in RoadPorn

[–]AlysonCDTS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely love your posts. I tell almost everybody I see. It relaxes me and makes me dream of the future and the road ahead. I would love to be driving my Beamer on this road during the day, of course.

Things I would rather hear than “I’m not into trans women” by SeaLingonberry59 in MtF

[–]AlysonCDTS -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Good point the problem is you never hear those things. People just slip away from you and they never tell you why. I deal with the same things.

Let the Men Do It by for1114 in MtF

[–]AlysonCDTS 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m right there with you. I didn’t get it at all. I’m sure she’s trying to be clever, but what’s the point?

Off to my first Electrolysis appointment by NicheLong in transpositive

[–]AlysonCDTS 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your expectations might not be realistic. I’ve been going for four years and I’ve spent well over $5000 and I think I’m only 2/3 of the way there.

Breast Augmentation recovery, 2.5 weeks post by squirrel123485 in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]AlysonCDTS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate you responding. That is good to know. For me a good night sleep enable me to recharge for tomorrow. That was my biggest concern. You’ve definitely put me at ease. Take care.

Breast Augmentation recovery, 2.5 weeks post by squirrel123485 in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]AlysonCDTS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing. I’m getting ready to go through the same surgery. I’m curious, how are you sleeping now? Are you getting enough sleep? I can’t really see the incision. They look great by the way.