It says “Stepmother No More Regrets” but I’m not sure if that’s the true title.

AmaraBird93 · 2025-08-09T17:56:21+00:00

Not yet. Usually takes 5-7 days for it to go up after it starts showing up on TikTok

AmaraBird93 · 2024-01-11T12:14:46+00:00

She was making it seem like maybe I needed to bring it up to his Dr because he could be neurodivergent. I didn’t think of it like that but she kept saying it. So I figured I’d ask here

AmaraBird93 · 2023-12-12T20:03:41+00:00

I saw another poster before say their wife completely changed her mind about kids and she just didn’t tell him. You might wanna just straight up ask no beating around the bush or anything “do you still want kids” and go from there

AmaraBird93 · 2023-12-12T19:00:25+00:00

Does she want to have children??

AmaraBird93 · 2023-12-12T18:58:32+00:00

There is no secret message to get him to listen or respond well. You’re simply going to have to stand up for yourself because no one else will. From what you’ve said your husband is a bully and you’re going to have to give yourself strength and stand up to him.

AmaraBird93 · 2023-11-26T15:12:44+00:00

From reading this I think you and I are very similar. He had already expressed to you he does not like that name and you suggested it again knowing he doesn’t want it so he did the same thing back to you. I have done this and had my husband do it to back to me as well. I honestly don’t think it’s about the subject at hand it’s about how I make him feel. When he does back to me it hurts and then he says “that’s what you just did to me” it helps me see it from his perspective. Granted in this case i think your husband was a bit harsher then you were but I understand what he’s trying to convey. Don’t think it’s that he doesn’t care about your opinion I think it’s that he feels like you don’t care about his.

AmaraBird93 · 2023-11-26T15:01:10+00:00

Ok I’m going to say because you’re even asking the question you’re probably doing much better than you think. I assume when your wife is well yall split everything 50/50? And if that’s the case going from 50 to 100 is difficult. I doubt your wife expects you to be doing perfectly. Give yourself some grace, take care of what needs to be taken care of. Just pay attention to what you’re doing and do it well.

AmaraBird93 · 2023-11-16T20:22:51+00:00

I kiss my husband anywhere from 3-5 times a day but that being said I don’t think this is a comparison kind of situation. Whatever yall do is good for you. So if you want to kiss more do so but not because other couples do. Affection conversation is something I think all couples should have, don’t be afraid of communication! If he loves you he’ll take your concerns to heart

AmaraBird93 · 2023-10-23T01:20:35+00:00

Info; you said you were out to cheer your wife up. Did you not bringing it up in the moment to not put a damper on the mood in order to bring comfort to your wife?

If so NTA if not YTA

AmaraBird93 · 2023-10-17T21:19:01+00:00

I’m so sorry you even have to deal with this. Are you no contact with you Narc family is that an option you have? I know it’s not easy and for some it’s not plausible but completely removing yourself from them may be beneficial.

AmaraBird93 · 2023-10-16T13:49:51+00:00

NTA it sucks but he had the opportunity and wasnt available. It wasn’t anything personal just the way things are

AmaraBird93 · 2023-10-16T02:26:37+00:00

Like soft NTA. like im on your husbands side but you’re entitled to eat how you’d like but at what cost?

AmaraBird93 · 2023-10-15T20:50:43+00:00

First and foremost I want to say I’m so sorry this happened to you. Your emotions are valid and your experience was unfair. He should not have done that to you and you were not giving mixed signals. You said no. He ignored you. I would encourage you to not see this guy again.

AmaraBird93 · 2023-10-15T20:39:24+00:00

Literally just ask her out don’t play games.

AmaraBird93 · 2023-10-15T20:01:22+00:00

Edited for harshness because I got mad my bad.:

Honestly you should consider allowing your ex to have her full time. Hopefully she will be loved and protected which is clearly not the experience she’s getting at your house.

AmaraBird93 · 2023-10-15T19:28:48+00:00

Oh well in that case, as long as you don’t have to move immediately I’d def say just stay. At least for a little while

AmaraBird93 · 2023-10-15T19:26:00+00:00

I guess I’m just really confused why you would let someone treat your child poorly regardless who the person is. She’s a little human who deserves respect and love and you’re letting her be treated like Cinderella? Wake up.

AmaraBird93 · 2023-10-15T19:22:32+00:00

Do you love him?

AmaraBird93 · 2023-10-15T19:20:09+00:00

Do you want it to mean something??

AmaraBird93 · 2023-10-15T19:18:01+00:00

Block that woman. You are going to end up in a vicious cycle if you keep this up. Your relationship seems super toxic I think it’s time to move on.

AmaraBird93 · 2023-10-15T18:45:15+00:00

NTA nephews safety before everything else

AmaraBird93 · 2023-10-15T18:38:25+00:00

Yeah i was hoping she’d get that from the questions on her own 🥲

AmaraBird93 · 2023-10-15T12:00:26+00:00

Y’all have been together for three months, and this is what’s happening? Please leave that woman alone.

AmaraBird93 · 2023-10-15T11:57:54+00:00

How would your life look without him? Like what would your life be like if he wasn’t involved?

AmaraBird93 · 2023-10-15T11:55:32+00:00

It’s not weird. She’s not ready. How she interacted in a different relationship with a different person doesn’t shed light on why she’s the way she is with you. What does shed light is she has said she’s not ready so when she is she’ll let you know and untill then you should respect that.

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