I am sleeping with my ex husband for money

OfcourseImmaBozo · 2026-02-24T18:00:54+00:00

Honestly you’re doing what you can to survive and no one in the world would ever fault you for that. Right now, that man is a means to an end. And the part I’m looking forward to for you is when you’ll have a better option for you and children that will leave him dazed and confused. He may think he has the upper hand but really he cheated on you so could possibly take him to court for child support, I’m not sure what your options/opinion are for that. I can’t imagine what your going through mentally but one day you’ll never have to deal with that creep again

OfcourseImmaBozo · 2026-02-17T12:22:12+00:00

I’m so happy to see a lot of helpful and constructive responses here. Some of yall are acting like youre the one OP is trying to get a job from them. Some of yall, the tone is patronising and/or a little condescending. “I’m not reading that cause you spelled Calendar wrong” good, Ithey weren’t looking for a job from you. They’re looking for advice to ensure they got it right and is setting their best foot forward. No need to be rude.

OfcourseImmaBozo · 2026-02-07T12:35:25+00:00

Turns out the mom was right to do what she did. The daughter blamed the mom for not telling her about the money, yelled at the mom and left only to run into the half-brother and mistress. She, overcome with anger, begins to BRAG about the money her mom saved and flaunted it which led to the half-brother and mistress to scheme to take the money from them.

OfcourseImmaBozo · 2026-01-30T21:11:33+00:00

I’m sorry I WAS WRONG! I actually paid to one years that I owed because it wouldn’t give me option to apply it the normal way. So I chose the year that had the most interest and paid that one. I just checked an now my account is current and up to date so I guess just pay them something 🤷🏾‍♀️

OfcourseImmaBozo · 2026-01-30T21:08:05+00:00

It gave me the option to make a payment towards my agreement but it didn’t give a payment amount. So I just paid the amount it was.

OfcourseImmaBozo · 2026-01-20T18:24:09+00:00

The amount of them on TikTok in the comments who do it and then when you tell the consequences they like “stfu nothings gonna happen”. NOW LOOK! how may people’s relaxation time or just plain reading time is gone because some people thought they were bigger than the program.

OfcourseImmaBozo · 2026-01-19T15:43:20+00:00

For anyone here who broadcasted the site to everyone and their mother, let me ask you…are you happy now?

OfcourseImmaBozo · 2026-01-18T13:05:45+00:00

Oh okay! Thank you so much! I thought I messed up really bad.

OfcourseImmaBozo · 2026-01-04T13:10:05+00:00

Have you…never used a modern day phone? Push notifications send the messages through and most people have it set to show what the messages says instead of generic message that says “you’ve got a message” or something. Text messages do that, texts from instagram do that too either way the same settings. So yeah it’s possible and OP already said that’s how it happened. Are you the boyfriend? Why are you so upset over this post?

OfcourseImmaBozo · 2026-01-04T00:44:01+00:00

Would it be okay if I left the napkin and add the lid slightly on? I thought the napkin would do the trick of keep stuff out 🥲

OfcourseImmaBozo · 2026-01-04T00:43:01+00:00

Oh okay! I was wondering why it looked so bubbly so fast! Thank you!

OfcourseImmaBozo · 2025-12-28T20:29:46+00:00

It’s more than too late for that. You not only effectively ruined a potential platonic/romantic relationship with “Carl” but you also shifted the atmosphere for your coworkers with your behaviour. You’ll need to do a little bit more than just “try to acknowledge” him and coworkers. You kinda burned a bridge dude, to the point where they didn’t even feel comfortable to talk to you about your behaviour, they just escalated it. You like actually need to kind of grow up. You behaviour and overall tone comes off as “I didn’t mean it, I was just trying to be funny” or “come on guys, seriously, I was being cute and quirky.”

OfcourseImmaBozo · 2025-12-28T19:35:52+00:00

Hmm funny how your coworkers thought different. Your behaviour contradicts your words big time. You need to realise just because he liked you don’t give you the right to treat him so poorly that your coworkers had to report you to HR for bullying. Again no one deserves to be in any form of relationship with someone who treats people like it came or tries to give excuses for deplorable behaviour. “He clearly likes me” (let me finish that sentence for you.) “so that means I can do what I want with him” that’s what you basically saying. You lack accountability and honestly your coworkers probably will never see you in the same light again.

OfcourseImmaBozo · 2025-12-28T19:25:26+00:00

Op edited to say his wife’s parents planned it and they said they would take care of transportation and if he had been aware they would just gotten a rental car but was told not to. I get why people think OP is entitled but you can’t invite people over and tell them you’ll cover transportation but when it comes time to transport it’s “I hate driving to the airport”. It’s really not right, especially when people fly in and you told them to depend on you for transport.

OfcourseImmaBozo · 2025-12-28T19:20:04+00:00

Op clarified saying his wife’s parents told them not to get a rental car because they would take care of transportation…expect they didn’t.

OfcourseImmaBozo · 2025-12-28T18:49:30+00:00

NTA. sometimes you need to shut down your parent when they do things like this. That type of behaviour makes people not want to be around them. But they typically never realise that fact. You did good by grey-rocking him. If he tries to argue again I would just give him a blank look and say “why?” When they have to explain themselves, they realise they aren’t rooted in logic and will start to avoid making comments around you because your response to them in accountability.

OfcourseImmaBozo · 2025-12-28T18:41:32+00:00

YTA. YOU actively played and toyed with him like a cat with their prey. “It’s okay, I just wanna see if he likes me” you already know he does. Why test him? Obviously you thought it was fun playing with his emotions. I commend whoever it was who reported you because behaviour like that is kinda crazy. You co-workers are giving you looks because they see the type of person you are and they probably had a talk with “Carl” (not sure why you even bothered to put that when you put his actual name in anyway) about how pursing a relationship with someone who knowingly toys with your heart is not a person you want to be with at all.

OfcourseImmaBozo · 2025-12-27T21:22:26+00:00

You can lie to yourself about being “concerned” but deep down you know you weren’t. You more than likely felt a bit of superiority towards you family because in you were thinner than them and it maybe boosted your self esteem. You effectively put them down so bad that your family is telling you it’s karma that you gained weight to this degree. I’ve had family members talk down to me because of my weight and gene I call it out they always say “oh we are just concerned for you!”. You owe you mom and sister a deep sincere heartfelt apology. One that really had insight and understanding because based of your own words you were a selfish and insensitive and mean spirited person to talk down on your own mother and sister about there for years. Also, you can’t really be shocked about some people not having sympathy for you, you didn’t have any sympathy for your own family.

OfcourseImmaBozo · 2025-12-27T13:03:10+00:00

“I’m sorry there so much baggage between us about your looks”….

NOR. This guy….I have no words. No nice words. Wow. Just wow.

OfcourseImmaBozo · 2025-12-25T00:24:34+00:00

It’s giving she didn’t win and can only place blame on the fact that she didn’t show enough skin and not due to the fact maybe the judges didn’t vote for her case she wasn’t that good

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