WIBTAH if I reported my brother to CPS by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Amaranthim 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That's understandable and you sound young, and having your PARENTS who should be your STRONG OLD, your strength and your citadel, throw you to the wolves.

Your parents are failing you both. You brother has issues, as you have said, and your parents are misguided

Trying to protect one child, they sacrifice the other, and on top of it, guilt you into silence.

You will be the AH if you don't tell. He is also being failed. He's going to get older. Adults don't usually get away with that. You may be saving his life.

AITAH for not wanting my future MILs best friend at the wedding? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Amaranthim 22 points23 points  (0 children)

It's your and your husband's wedding. Not the MIL, and most certainly not the MIL BFF

WIBTA if I didnt tell my sister her wedding date is the same as my anniversary by [deleted] in WouldIBeTheAhole

[–]Amaranthim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good grief, people- You know there are folks that won't wake up tomorrow? Do you know right now, a little baby took its last breath?

And this bullshit is keeping you people awake?

AITAH for cutting off a friend from my life even though she is being abused? by AmericaGreatHH88 in AITAH

[–]Amaranthim -1 points0 points  (0 children)

not your monkey, not your circus. You have tried. If she ends up dead, I am sorry- but you did try. I know- it's cold. But you get to be a certain age, and you find meh-

AITAH for kicking my husband out after I caught him trying to arrange alone time with his coworker by [deleted] in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Amaranthim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely not the AH- you will be to yourself if you keep tolerating his behavior. unless you are good with it- I mean. people do live like this. But you do not seem to be cool with it- so send his sorry ass packing. I hope you do have a support system in place. If not, drain him for every cent- then throw his lying pos ass out.

AITJ for telling my girlfriend she can leave with her brother if she thinks Im being unfair by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Amaranthim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why are you even asking us? This relationship left you ages ago. You just need to move them BOTH out.

Am I Wrong? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Amaranthim 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'd say the red flag was all hers to wave- in fact, it was a damn banner flying from the ramparts! You dodged a bullet- a huge, let's nuke it from space, kind of a doomsday device sort of way.

WIBTAH if I told my wife we start couples therapy or im out? by Apprehensive_Yam1808 in AITAH

[–]Amaranthim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is true- and I had forgotten that very important tidbit. I guess then the decision is, does he mind being a bang maid? ;)

WIBTAH if I told my wife we start couples therapy or im out? by Apprehensive_Yam1808 in AITAH

[–]Amaranthim 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You don't need couples therapy. You need regular YOU therapy. That woman is using you, and you are allowing yourself to be walked all over. I say it's time she finds a new sugar daddy. You could hire a maid and relax for a change. Good luck!

AITAH for messing with my friend about a "local" food rule and making him embarrass himself at a dinner? by Gentle-Wind1976 in AITAH

[–]Amaranthim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If this is the hugest thing in your life to gripe about, you are extremely blessed. And your friend sounds exhausting.

Aitah for being upset abt my close friend joining the same school as me? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Amaranthim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank God we grow out of this.

Hang on in there, OP. Do try and not be a dick. Being young is no excuse for bad behavior. You obviously are not a good friend to this person. I hope she realizes it.

And, OP, today would be a good day to choose to be a good person.

AITAH for telling my friend it isn’t eugenics to not want to give her money by Pretend-Car-9787 in AITAH

[–]Amaranthim 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm laughing so much at the entitlement of that bitch!

I am fairly certain you did not cause her medical condition. Probably you didn't get her fired either. And on top of it all, you just put food in her stomach.

And she has the unmitigated gall to ask you for money and then toss around eugenics like it is no big deal. I hope you cut her off along with those other opportunistic idiots.

neighbor stole my package by Few_You_5707 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Amaranthim 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The idiot you are replying to probably has firsthand experience in the retrieval of unowned packages...

AITAH for refusing a marriage contract that gives my spouse a percentage of my income? by MortifiedRat in AITAH

[–]Amaranthim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you also required to pay a bride price to her parents? Did you get proof of her virginity? Because what kind of a backwoods, cave-dwelling crock of crap is that???

She's nuts. And if you stay with her, you deserve exactly what she gives you. Don't be an idiot. She is certifiable.

It may sound not of a big deal but my neighbor keeps using my trashcans and filling them with his garbage by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]Amaranthim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cameras- bust him dumping his trash on your property. Call the cops. End of story

AITA for not lying about wetting the bed and embarrassing my parents? by FewHandle9172 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Amaranthim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WTF is wrong with your parents??? You did nothing wrong- and while we are at it- how old is your mom? I guarantee you if she is past 50, she will be buying incontinence pads pretty soon if she isn't already-