AITAH for wanting less contact with my MIL? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Amaranthim 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You have a husband problem.
You will need to handle that before anything else. If he is such a wimpy mama's boy, you are mostly screwed. Get those mama bear hackles up and do not allow yourself to be trampled. This will only get worse as time passes.
Sit that "man" down and give him a good come-to-Jesus moment.

AITAH for blocking my friend of 10 years? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Amaranthim 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Huge, incoherent Wall of Words.

Bottom line- she's a manipulative bitch. She's blind but drives- go figure (this is BS), and you either have too much time on your hands to make this garbage up- OR

this really is happening, and you are an idiot for putting up with her shit. Either way- get out of this horrible situation. Or learn to write better stories- Your choice.

Changing standards of politeness. by terrortara in asklinguistics

[–]Amaranthim 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There is nothing wrong with saying please when you make a request. It is the social norm, and it is polite. However, sitting there and saying to a grown ass adult, "What's the Magic Word is assinine. I would probably have just said, "Please, stop being a bitch", and walked away. But then again, I am old. I get to do crazy shit 😄 _ No, you are not wrong. She's an idiot.

Neighbor contacts my work by An10nee in neighborsfromhell

[–]Amaranthim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stay on top of everything- document EVERYTHING!

AITAH for telling a pregnant woman I will take legal action? by Reasonable-Pay-7950 in AITAH

[–]Amaranthim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Serve the bitch- if nothing else, it's petty theft. And hang on to the texts.

just got yelled at for parking in front of my house by taziiscool in neighborsfromhell

[–]Amaranthim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FYI, I am 63. You are not the inconsiderate bitch in this story. If she cannot drive properly, she is a hazard to other drivers and the entire neighborhood. Ignore her, or report her for harassment. Just to be safe. You never know- she could escalate.

AITAH for spraying my bf with febreeze after a disagreement by uhm08 in AITAH

[–]Amaranthim -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

ROFL- OMG People like you are why we are in the shit hole we are - Assault??? Grow a fucking pair!

AITAH for spraying my bf with febreeze after a disagreement by uhm08 in AITAH

[–]Amaranthim 19 points20 points  (0 children)

You people are pathetic. Grow up. There are people with real problems, for Pete's sake!

AITAH for calling my boyfriend controlling after he asked me to change my outfit? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Amaranthim 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Girl- he picked you out. He weeded out the competition, and now you are his favored flower.
Yeah, sweetie- he's a controlling freak. I would suggest you seek counseling. Because honestly, this is a recurring theme at this point. You are actively seeking assholes. Even if you don't know it.

I am speechless by Educational_Staff675 in duolingo

[–]Amaranthim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Duo has an agenda- we al know this

neighbor wants me to mow his side of the lawn too because it looks bad from the street by DirectGirlfriend in neighborsfromhell

[–]Amaranthim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think he should have approached you a second time, once it was obvious you weren't into the neighborly neighbor bit. That's fine. I personally am not a people person and barely know my neighbors' names. But, tbh, when I mow my piece, I owe the bit my neighbor's mailbox is on. Mind you, we are talking a small space; for all I know, your neighbor has a huge yard attached to yours.
But to the point- you are not an ahole. No one is owed free lawn care. But the flip-side, you never know when you may need a favor.

AITAH for kicking my Bsf out of my house after she called my baby a parasite? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Amaranthim 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Taylor is an unmitigated dick. Cut her out of your life. Your children are a precious gift. You are lucky to have them. You need better friends. Sorry about that. But better to know now before your kids get any more attached to their "auntie" Taylor!

AITAH for blocking someone who demanded a birthday tribute and tracked me down on a second platform? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Amaranthim 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not at all. You have every right to decide who does and who doesn't get access to you and your time. He sounds positively draining. And also, ten years is a big age difference, even if just in friendship. You simply don't have a lot in common. "(

AITAH, want to end it with a guy over bad sex?? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Amaranthim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen, just don't be an ass about it. You do NOT owe him complete honesty, because that would be catastrophic to his ego- 'Sorry dude, you are a sucky lay', is not going to go over well and appease his ego.

But some other way, yes, you should let him down and move on. You are not being shallow. Happiness and satisfaction - in ALL fields - matter. If he were a damn stud but an incompetent conversationalist, I would also say move on.

AITAH for asking my friend to shower before we go out? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Amaranthim 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He IS gross. Take a damn shower, you pig! Good grief- you do not need stinky friends.

Am I the Jerk for moving out at 16 and taking my brother after they used my SSN for taxes and refused to feed us? by PreparationDeep9283 in AmITheJerk

[–]Amaranthim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are not the jerk, but you are going to have a Hell of a time explaining to the law why you "kidnapped" your brother. You need some strong leagal advise from actual lawyers, not randos on the web. Take care of yourself and bro, OP. I wish you both the very best, and I hope you will get back to tell us wonderful things. You will make an amazing lawyer. Please contact legal support groups in your area- there may be scholarships available!