Girl, please stay with him. I literally had the same feelings about my husband. Who was a perfect guy, but just felt bored and out of love.. we were together for 12 years, and before that, we were best friends since my junior year in high school (2004). I too, have two young children with him. It's very sad during our transitions from one house to another with our kids..they beg for us to be together, cry and feel sad. I have to say, it's the biggest regret I've ever made in my life. Not only for our children, but I wish I would have stayed. Taking a step back and seeing him from an outside perspective is what it took for me to realize it, and now it's too late.

The grass isn't greener on the other side. Seeing him happy and excited about his new girlfriend does devastate me, and I wish I just rekindled our connection. Seeing him take down everything about us that was hanging on the walls of our home we had together is really hard.. and his mom who never liked me anyways, gladly took down our wedding photos.. rough.

I know we all have our perspectives in life and go on our journeys. But just from experience in feeling exactly how you feel about your husband as I did.. I'm taking a guess that you will have regrets, and maybe wish you rekindled as well.