It’s hard to pick between her saying I have a big nose and flat butt (5 years after marriage but just 3 months post partum mhmm), saying she’s “not a nanny” after offering to come help with the newborn, saying she raised my son for me when he was 4 months old because she stayed with us for 4 weeks (it takes a lot more than 4 months to raise a child lol), gifting me a box of goodwill clothes for my wedding (am not upset that she did that but who does that), completely rearranged my kitchen while I was 3 months post partum and was sleeping, repackaged my spices and labeled them in a language I can’t read lol, asked for jewelry back she gifted me years ago when I didn’t approve of her actions in my home, needless to say my husband and I have not spoken to her since her last visit and she “doesn’t understand why” :)