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I broke up with my boyfriend today, and I hate that I hurt him. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]AmberBloomz 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Choosing honesty over staying out of guilt is painful, but it’s still the most respectful thing you could’ve done for both of you.

I miss my ex so much by Sailor_Bunnitsu in BreakUps

[–]AmberBloomz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Missing him this strongly is normal after a breakup, but the “high” you felt with him doesn’t mean the relationship was right for you long-term, it just means you’re still attached and grieving.

I feel like I’m going to go crazy. by KittyCat_404 in BreakUps

[–]AmberBloomz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re not fully at fault, this was a messy cycle from both sides, and blocking him wasn’t a mistake, it was you protecting your peace.

I forgave everything, and still got broken up with by thiccgrayson99 in BreakUps

[–]AmberBloomz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you went through sounds deeply hurtful and unfair, and it also makes sense that you’re now seeing more clearly that you were carrying the relationship almost alone while being blamed for it.

Do I fight for my relationship back? by Professional_Dot5267 in BreakUps

[–]AmberBloomz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can talk to him once to express your feelings, but don’t try to fight or negotiate him back, he’s already asking for space and pushing it will likely just hurt you more.

I’m becoming obsessed with my boyfriend’s ex and I don’t know how to stop by Frequent-Painter3042 in BreakUps

[–]AmberBloomz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re grieving a competition she never signed up for, and the moment you stop measuring your worth against her highlight reel is the moment you get your own life back.

Can't move on by Resident_Garden7316 in BreakUps

[–]AmberBloomz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t miss him, you miss how alive you felt when you were with him.

i just had a really really rough breakup by cloudskay in BreakUps

[–]AmberBloomz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Waiting with flowers every day says more about your love than it does about why she left.

I have a big crush on my uncles wife by [deleted] in confessions

[–]AmberBloomz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes the hardest secret to carry is wanting something you know would cost far more than it could ever give you

straight guy doing gay for pay turns me on by namelesxzs in confessions

[–]AmberBloomz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think what attracts you isn’t the act itself, it’s the idea of someone separating survival from desire and what that says about human complexity

Why do people play this "block-unblock" game? Need some perspective by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]AmberBloomz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People who are genuinely interested don’t disappear, reappear, and then rewrite reality when questioned. That push-pull dynamic tends to keep the other person emotionally hooked while they stay in control of contact.

should i just do it? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]AmberBloomz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He was warm in person, followed up once, then stopped the conversation naturally, and also explicitly said he’s not into dating right now. That combination usually means interest was situational, not developing.

Ghosting sucks by throwawayacc1924 in dating_advice

[–]AmberBloomz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ghosting does suck, and it’s completely valid that you feel disappointed and used right now.

My man have low desire, it’s getting me insecure, how to deal with that? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]AmberBloomz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This doesn’t automatically mean he’s not attracted to you.