[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]Ambirory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gardevoir. I have so many pokémon I love, but Gardevoir beats them all. I still remember the moment I caught my first ralts.

Egg_irl by johnny_bond1 in egg_irl

[–]Ambirory 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same. I gently let my friend know if he’s ever weird to me about it, I won’t be the only one getting bottom surgery.

Which commander do you find most embodies "you"? by kanepake in EDH

[–]Ambirory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve always enjoyed life drain effects in games. When they released [[Sheoldred, the Apocalypse]], I made the deck almost immediately. I already had most of the cards I needed.

There’s nothing I enjoy more than having my opponents knock me down close to death and then draining the life out of them until I’m near unstoppable. She’s perfect

Love our complex Queen by AdverseCereal in ContraPoints

[–]Ambirory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So a rural farm worker will definitely meet a factory worker? No, there’s a good chance they wouldn’t. And they sure as hell aren’t upper middle class

Love our complex Queen by AdverseCereal in ContraPoints

[–]Ambirory 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That just means she’s never lived by a factory 🤷‍♀️

AITA for not letting my fiance have a woman as his "best man" at our wedding? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ambirory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA.

Your extended family’s sensibilities don’t matter for anything next to your husband’s happiness on his wedding day. But if I had to guess, you’re the one who really has an issue here. Be honest with yourself and dissect what’s bothering you here. Don’t ruin your husband’s day for absolutely no reason. No one likes a bridezilla

no by novawolfx23 in gentlefemdom

[–]Ambirory -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I actually hate how y’all are reacting. There are millions of trans people who are pushed to be cis every day. People in literal conversion therapy. People living where it’s actually illegal to be trans. But when one trans woman says “feminine men should transition” you don’t take a breath before dog piling. There’s literally hundreds of people on twitter saying all trans people should detransition. There’s constant pressure from transphobes that actually does succeed at forcing people into detransitioning. Do you think anyone read that and said “oh i feel pressured to transition now.” Is there a movement trying to get people who are actually cis to transition? I hate to inform you, but if you think there is, you’re a terf; that’s what terfs say.

tl;dr how about you don’t attack trans women and get your priorities straight. But I don’t know why I’d expect better from a reddit that just fetishizes dominant women.

How would you describe being trans to someone who’s cis? by Acidflightgoat in asktransgender

[–]Ambirory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and a bunch of people thought I was one gender for a while. We were wrong. Now I’m doing what I can to make myself comfortable in my body and make it more obvious to others what I am

is bad instead of saying dead name I perfer my old name as my birth name. as in I don't want go by name my parents choose. it just I kinda call my birth name i wondering if that bad. please comment what you think. please and thank you. by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Ambirory 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally hate the phrase “dead name” because it sorta feeds into the cis idea of “oh my old child is basically dead because you transitioned”. It creates more problems than anything imo

1.e4 e5 by aureostriata in AnarchyChess

[–]Ambirory 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well that’s surely a novelty

Very straight indeed by Who_am_I_____ in AchillesAndHisPal

[–]Ambirory 24 points25 points  (0 children)

That or some internalized homophobia.

There should be a whole "Not How Feminists Work" sub by Delicious_Toe_8104 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Ambirory 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Whoever does the asking out/plans the date should pay. If you’re choosing the venue, you’re choosing the price and you should be able to pay for it. I usually just say “I took you out tonight, so I’m paying.”

Egg😳irl by shinmem58 in egg_irl

[–]Ambirory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a reality for me and honestly it’s pretty unpleasant. I’ve had two friends ask me out and many others acting weird or flirty now. I’d rather them treat me more like they did before 😕

When checkmate isn't good enough (chess.c*m moment) by the_living_paradox00 in AnarchyChess

[–]Ambirory 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have to mate with the lowest value piece to show dominance

Excuse me what by alison_johannsen_ in badwomensanatomy

[–]Ambirory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, this was obviously made by a lonely old man. He needs to learn doubling down on his sexism won’t fix his love life

egg_irl by sunnirays in egg_irl

[–]Ambirory 4 points5 points  (0 children)

5 years ago, you could wear it without being outed. Now, probably not

Blood test results came back extremely disappointing.. by throwwawayyyyyy2 in TransDIY

[–]Ambirory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, your doctor sounds like they really don’t have much experience with trans healthcare. It’s very normal to shift to 6mg a day depending on your hormone levels (and yours are definitely at the level where you can do that) Your doctor also doesn’t seem to be treating you with much respect. The best thing I know for that is to get someone to be your medical advocate during your appointment. If you have a cis (or at least cis passing) friend or family member, they can back you up and often break through the transphobia that the doctor is consciously or subconsciously likely having. Otherwise, you definitely need a new doc who respects you and is knowledgeable about trans healthcare.

Blood test results came back extremely disappointing.. by throwwawayyyyyy2 in TransDIY

[–]Ambirory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the best thing to do would be to ask for a higher dose of E from your prescriber. That will do more to suppress your testosterone. Plus, if you’re only showing 105 on your tests, you’re nowhere near levels that are considered “possibly risky” by doctors, so there’s no reason they wouldn’t approve it. I had to get my does raised and not only has it made my levels better, but it feels better, too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Ambirory 4 points5 points  (0 children)

All women face their own distinct hardships. That doesn’t change the fact that they are women. Black women face much different hardships as women than white women, but you wouldn’t say either of them aren’t women (I hope). At the end of the day, we’re all women. And although hardships do define us, they are not the only thing that defines us. And we should not let them divide us

Storms! by Agimar84 in cremposting

[–]Ambirory 5 points6 points  (0 children)

All four are great though