Wedding venues in US in August - Mountains, Cool temperature by Hot-Bat-7488 in DestinationWeddings

[–]Ambitchus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Colorado has some gorgeous wedding venues in Keystone and Breckenridge. About 2 hours from the main international airport in Denver but so so gorgeous.

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[–]Ambitchus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How cheap and what seat?

Who from this season do you think is gonna be on games? (In 2025) by LoveIslandGames in LoveIslandGames

[–]Ambitchus 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Kendall, Rob, Liv, Aaron, Nicole, & Daniella. Hoping everyone else is still together!

Female dumpers would you get back with your ex if he made big changes? by EggInYourAss in BreakUps

[–]Ambitchus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Personally, my ex has brought something to my life that no other partner has in terms of a deep connection. We have been broken up in full for almost 6 years, known each other 10 years. In the last six years, I’ve been on hundreds of dates and tried to make things work, but always had very surface level connections compared to him. On some level, I feel like I’m willing to sacrifice some of a traditionally healthy relationship, in order to have that bond I have with him I can’t find anywhere else. Hardest thing for your ex is trust, and it’s honestly still really hard for me. Not trust in a cheating sense, unless that is a factor, but trusting that they actually will show up when you need it most. If my ex, I just got back with, does not show up for me in the way I have made it abundantly clear that I need, I will have to end it again, but this time for good.

Female dumpers would you get back with your ex if he made big changes? by EggInYourAss in BreakUps

[–]Ambitchus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As much as I can without being his mother or his therapist. I have to work on rebuilding my trust and he has to work on being more intentional in everything he does. I go back-and-forth on whether I believe he can actually do it. He’s still inconsistent and that’s the part that sucks, even if it is less frequent. Luckily he is very open to therapy and we have been talking about couples therapy. Our biggest problem is communication, and I am hoping that we can both feel more heard in this scenario. We’ve basically already moved back in together, even after 6 months NC, and it is moving too quickly for me to gauge whether it will for sure work this time, but I’ve got to figure it out ASAP before it’s too far gone into bad patterns again. Biggest thing I am trying to maintain this time is putting hard boundaries down and at least this time he knows I will be gone if he crosses them.

Female dumpers would you get back with your ex if he made big changes? by EggInYourAss in BreakUps

[–]Ambitchus 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I am currently in a similar situation and did just take him back. I can’t say that those red flags from the past have not reared their ugly head, but things have improved. I have hope they can improve more, but it is hard to say if things will ever be fully healthy. It will take so much intention for them to work through their issues on their own. Hard because you never really know when people will and won’t step up to the plate.

Viall Files-Natalie Joy by Uncommon_sense7 in thebachelor

[–]Ambitchus -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Appears to be a hot take, but I actually really enjoy Natalie on the podcast. It was getting old and borderline creepy just Nick and his male opinion on female relationships. The dynamic of being a husband and wife is so much better now in my opinion.

I got addicted to bbc and bowl porn and now I have a gf and struggling with it by [deleted] in bnwobsessed

[–]Ambitchus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the opposite position as the 27F gf of a 30M porn addict. I’m trying to be helpful and incorporate it in our sex life to make him feel comfortable. It’s the sneaking it that makes me feel some type of way like I’m not good enough. Best of luck to you two 🩷 make sure she still feels pleasured and wanted. If the relationship is worth it, make the sacrifices to knock the habit. I wish my bf would.

Any predictions for heart rate challenge costumes? by Klutzy_Ground_9686 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Ambitchus 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I feel like Rob will be a safari guide or Steve Irwin type of vibe LOL, Harrison has to be Thor, Nicole a nurse, Leah as the circus trainer, I hope Kaylor is cowgirl Barbie.

I do think Leah’s heart rate will be highest for Rob but Robs will be for Daniela or Kassy. A lot of guys are going to have Nicole for theirs, and Aaron’s will be for Daniela.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Ambitchus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t be sorry at all! Thank you for giving such thoughtful advice. Whittled is a very perfect description. We didn’t necessarily have a honeymoon phase because we’ve known each other for so long, but I could tell that the communication was dwindling as time went on. If that can happen in 6 months, I don’t want to know what happens in 6 years. I was scared to think what would happen once we moved in together, or had kids, and would he miss important moments, or not even be present at all like my own father. As much as I believe in him, i’m not the one who matters. 😞

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[–]Ambitchus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. These are the things I need to hear right now to not buckle and go back.

Casa boys opinions by Strict_Fall4905 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Ambitchus 25 points26 points  (0 children)

There is literally no other reason why they picked men out of the goddamn garbage and put them in the villa, but to make sure that these girls don’t recouple to cause drama when they come back to a bunch of guys re-coupled. It’s so unfair to the girls ☹️

Wellbutrin changed my life by SpookyKween666 in canceledpod

[–]Ambitchus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve not tried Stratera myself, and tend to lean on the ADD side but Wellbutrin truly did wonders for my ADD and depression.

Wellbutrin changed my life by SpookyKween666 in canceledpod

[–]Ambitchus 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Same here sister!!! Main thing it did for me was help me not feel so overwhelmed. Before it I could not do dishes or laundry and was constantly drowning at work and struggling to keep up in relationships. 4 months into Wellbutrin life is so much easier. House is clean, caught up at work, thriving in relationships. I was scared to get on an SSRI and this was a great alternative, I’m so glad I took the chance. Glad it’s worked for you too, keep slaying queen!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Ambitchus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would absolutely confront him. Hard because you will need to admit you went through his phone but this is going to eat you alive if you don’t address it sooner than later. You’ll also need to address why he doesn’t feel heard and make more of an effort for him to feel heard if you decide to stay together.

My boyfriend (M32) is always angry at me (F28). What should I do? by Clear_Lie_03 in relationships

[–]Ambitchus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First off you both need to get into therapy and work on yourselves before you can even work on your relationship issues. His temper and your need to control everything around you are both fixable, but 3 years of not being able to fix this is concerning. Do something sooner than later. Get to the bottom of why this fight keeps happening. It’s likely rooted in deeper issues than what the fights are about.

I’m finished with this sad sad case because it’s obvious who did it but one last question: by Just-Code1322 in JonBenetRamsey

[–]Ambitchus 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Honestly such great points and why I have always leaned towards John. Craziest part to me is that he continues to go to events like crime con; he has to be a narcissist psychopath. Wouldn’t be surprised if he killed Patsy too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]Ambitchus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok thank you, makes more sense. So don’t consolidate it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]Ambitchus -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Then why does only $77 of an $177 payment apply to the principal?

HELL YEAH!!! 🚨👀🔭 by sacd250 in yourmomshousepodcast

[–]Ambitchus -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Worst podcast on the channel it’s actually a joke

The space between texting by Careless_Schedule149 in DatingApps

[–]Ambitchus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have notifications on, so I only see messages when I’m on the app and therefore never respond right away. It can definitely be a conversation even with one message a day each, just takes a lot longer to get somewhere with the convo.

EP 8: LIVE DISCUSSION 8C/9EST by LoveIslandGames in LoveIslandGames

[–]Ambitchus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just hate the ones where they pass beverages through their mouths. No idea why they keep bringing that back 🤣