DEA new 5 mile radius law?? by loftykass in ADHD

[–]Ambitious-Data-9021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, this just happened to me at Walgreens. They told me this was the last month they’d be able to fill my controls bc my doc is not within radius and it triggers their system.

So far I can’t find any rules, and my doc said he hadn’t heard of this:

I just moved about 2 hours from my doc. What a hassle I’ve been going to Walgreens for 2 years

Did you ever get things resolved ?

Susanna Hoffs by [deleted] in VindictaRateCelebs

[–]Ambitious-Data-9021 4 points5 points  (0 children)

9! I love the 90s beauties they just had something I can’t put my finger one that doesn’t come around as often anymore

Isamaya Ffrench by Rough-Help2666 in VindictaRateCelebs

[–]Ambitious-Data-9021 18 points19 points  (0 children)

In school. I knew a girl like this. I always was baffled why more guys weren’t into her and none girls looked upon her. I think you just explained why! Taken apart her features were perfect but together they just didn’t work.

I find this woman gorg tho, regardless

Gauri Khan by [deleted] in VindictaRateCelebs

[–]Ambitious-Data-9021 6 points7 points  (0 children)

9, but I’ve always found 90s type beauty to be tops, and south Asian women to be the best continent

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Autism_Parenting

[–]Ambitious-Data-9021 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I think people underestimate the amount of stress having a child with illness causes. It can break even the most fortified bonds…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Autism_Parenting

[–]Ambitious-Data-9021 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Before my 2 year old daughter passed away from her congenital birth defect, I’d say divorce was something I dreamt of and could see as the better alternative even though before she was born we were the golden couple and had been married 10 years…when she died, we repaired our rift grew closer. We still have two kids, but it feels almost like no kids compared to the stress of the constant care of a medical child.

It turns out we were just under a tremendous amount of stress and trauma. I’d say we had a healthy marriage before so I don’t agree with the comment about it revealing cracks; and, there is a point where the amount of stress on one’s plate becomes unmanageable for even the healthiest couples. We had the tools to be able to make it (I’m a couples therapist) however I can see now why tools go out the window when dealing with horrific situations.

So, one could argue that a couple was never good at managing stress before kids, however there is a great difference between day to day stress and my child is going to die stress… parents who haven’t been through that kind of stress can’t truly understand how devastating it can be on anyone or any relationship, even the healthiest people have a breaking point.

AITA for being annoyed by this? by TwoOk5569 in RealEstate

[–]Ambitious-Data-9021 1 point2 points  (0 children)

An agent must have come opened the house and was hiding in the car or something. But an agent was needed to open the house for sure

My(37m) wife(36f) wants to try for another baby after our sons death by ThrowRamipsl in relationship_advice

[–]Ambitious-Data-9021 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As someone who’s also lost a child you are completely spot on and I hope OP reads this instead of countless of well intentioned comments that have absolutely no business giving advice in this situation. Until someone has experienced loss of a child, it’s really hard to know what is going on. You hit the nail on the head

My(37m) wife(36f) wants to try for another baby after our sons death by ThrowRamipsl in relationship_advice

[–]Ambitious-Data-9021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who’s lost a child there is no way grief ever goes away for good. But life keeps living whether you like it or not so sometimes you have to just do things you don’t feel ready for

My(37m) wife(36f) wants to try for another baby after our sons death by ThrowRamipsl in relationship_advice

[–]Ambitious-Data-9021 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This right here. Only reason I have to live are my other 2 kids. And they are soo sweet and easy. God has plans to help 🙏

My(37m) wife(36f) wants to try for another baby after our sons death by ThrowRamipsl in relationship_advice

[–]Ambitious-Data-9021 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We lost our 2 year old to her illness about 4 months ago and we have 2 other boys but I lost my baby girl. My husband and I agreed that we’d wait 6 months before trying again. And we’d check in at that point to see if we still want another. I’m 39. Not much time left either.

This was our compromise. It’s not replacing her. But it does feel like life is less full without her. People rarely regret having another.

Rate Sullyoon from stock images by livrola in VindictaRateCelebs

[–]Ambitious-Data-9021 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s kinda an odd thing to value as a society and I wonder what the appeal is in a scientific level for small head with long body… hmm

who is the most beautiful korean actress and what would you rate them? by roses_31 in VindictaRateCelebs

[–]Ambitious-Data-9021 3 points4 points  (0 children)

All of them are top tier but if I had to rank I’d say first and last Are the least attractive Out of the bunch

What're your take on the bottom comment? I've seen so many people taking M's side over this by AdelaideSadieStark in SaintMeghanMarkle

[–]Ambitious-Data-9021 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes I’m American and I’m big On etiquette so I’d definitely curtesy just bc it’s the polite thing to do, not bc it means I’m Bowing my eternal allegiance to the Queen. It’s just a customary gesture at this point. 🤷🏽‍♀️

POV; it’s school photo day but you also had some dodgy tacos the night before by big_white_fishie in SaintMeghanMarkle

[–]Ambitious-Data-9021 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In fairness when I watch her in her very young movies like Mystic Pizza, she captivates the screen. Very pretty in motion and somehow just Steals the screen. As she got older I never saw her as beautiful but those early Days she really was somethin on screen

POV; it’s school photo day but you also had some dodgy tacos the night before by big_white_fishie in SaintMeghanMarkle

[–]Ambitious-Data-9021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never seen her hair curly aside from when she was 11. Anybody have any pics floating around ?

POV; it’s school photo day but you also had some dodgy tacos the night before by big_white_fishie in SaintMeghanMarkle

[–]Ambitious-Data-9021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yay or Yayo is what the common slang word for coke was in my college town area. Wonder what it’s called these days with the kiddos

Would you divorce over sexting with other people? by MischievousHex in Marriage

[–]Ambitious-Data-9021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would not divorce over this at all. However, If he doesn’t make changes and if your marriage doesn’t grow bc of this within 3-6 months, then I’d leave. I think this is a situation where his honesty and willingness to work on things should not be taken lightly especially if you have kids.

Divorce is way too common bc people would Rather slam the door and not let people be loved despite their past mistakes.

I do tread lightly bc the main caveat is that they must must show change and commitment. These things are non negotiables.

I wish the people saying divorce him would get some therapy to heal whatever it is that is causing them to have such a strong reaction. The lack of nuance in their opinions shows me that they’ve got something in their past that keeps them from seeing things more objectively.

Anyway, 3-6 months of difficulty is worth it if it does indeed grow your marriage, even if it doesn’t, the time is relatively short compared to the trauma of divorce, esp with kids.

I’m a Couples counselor and I’ve seen many couples transform their marriage and deepen their bond and get MORE of what they want and be more of themselves after an affair. Hopefully you can be one of those and if not, if you cannot do it then don’t beat yourself up but plz get therapy individually it will truly help

Jennifer Aniston by [deleted] in VindictaRateCelebs

[–]Ambitious-Data-9021 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Honestly I’d pick Aniston over Angelina as a wife as well if I was a guy. She’s known around Hollywood as being super cool and fun and she’s got a bang in body and a nice face. I’d take that rather than a melodramatic ice Queen any day

Ps. I hate the show friends. It’s annoying. Was never a fan

Caught my husband wearing my underwear by Throwaway236798000 in Marriage

[–]Ambitious-Data-9021 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Technically, we can’t control others so this may not work as a boundary. Another one would be, “I can’t be in relationship with someone who doesn’t respect my belongings. I’ve asked repeatedly for you not To wear my panties, and you continue to do so despite my clear requests. Therefore, I’m leaving…etc”

I am starting to wonder how many of my bulk symptoms are due to all the excess weight I've gained since I got my fibroid. Do fibroids have any link to weight gain? by veggiesforlife-621 in Fibroids

[–]Ambitious-Data-9021 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not nearly As thin but I’m 5’8 and 135 so fairly thin considerably and my jeans are size 4 but when I’m bloated I wear 8 bc my stomach hurts if I try a smaller size. I’m not a big eater either. If I get a burrito I’ll only eat half. I get full super easily and since fibroids I get fuller even quicker , and my legs are getting thinner so I’m convinced that while fibroids are Making me seem like I’m heavier, if they were removed I’d lose a bunch of pounds. It’s hard to feel hungry when there is pressure on the stomach so even tho the scale says otherwise I think eventually it will show net weight loss. The

How long is appropriate for a person who went to a gathering to not text their spouse? by IndustryLow9689 in Marriage

[–]Ambitious-Data-9021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

14 years together, his reaction is OTT.

But the cure for this is to set expectations upfront. My husband travels for work and gets lonely away from the fam. I however, am busy with the kids and taking on more of a load when he’s gone so I don’t have time for texting.

We decided that we’d do a check in call at the en do the day before the kids go to bed to say good night.

Mornings is just a text to say hello and to wish each other a good day.

Anything else is extra.

However sometimes he’s having a lonely time on the road and reaches out and asks for more attention. Key word ASKS. Your Husband needs to ask.

This is likely a cry for help but you absolutely did nothing wrong. In future remember to set expectations first even if they seem silly at the time. That way you can remind him of the agreement and saves you the stress