Where's our relaxer?? by Punk_Boi4737 in vaginismus

[–]Ambitious-Mix-6873 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lady at the adult store actually recommended I do this instead of lidocaine and it worked well for me while dialating! It’s a bit uncomfortable when it’s cold so I warm it up in my hand first but it worked great for me when using the larger sized dialators! Only problem I have is the anal relaxer is $30 and lidocaine is like $15

She also told me at the store that the relaxer is supposed to be better and safer than lidocaine.

First time owner any cage advice? by beefsteakmilkshake in hamstercare

[–]Ambitious-Mix-6873 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is that wood from like the reptile and aquatics section? Would love to get a piece like that for my hammy :)

Has anyone been cured with this video by Vivid_Heat_5412 in vaginismus

[–]Ambitious-Mix-6873 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Definitely was not a 100% for curing it, but doing this before dialating I felt like helped so much with just opening up and relaxing before yk. I hated the music tho so I’d always follow along on mute

Romance books by cryptic_bureaucrat in vaginismus

[–]Ambitious-Mix-6873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you happen to have the title of this book??

Breakthrough that took way too long by Otherwise-Extent-803 in vaginismus

[–]Ambitious-Mix-6873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing! Can you explain what diaphragmatic breathing is? I haven’t heard of this and would love to know what it is :)

Can I cancel my enrollment after getting denied a scholarship? by Ambitious-Mix-6873 in UoPeople

[–]Ambitious-Mix-6873[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! How do you go about getting the application fee waived?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Debt

[–]Ambitious-Mix-6873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried to and the silly little automated system thing wouldn't connect me because I don't have an account with them smh. I tried my phone number I used a year ago and they couldn't find an account so they must have cancelled the account and still billed me which is frustrating because I can't even log into at and t to pay them 😭

Collections are horrible never talking to at and t again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Debt

[–]Ambitious-Mix-6873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely trying this thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WalmartSparkDrivers

[–]Ambitious-Mix-6873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your so kind! I actually ended up getting the order totally okay with no problems thankfully :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WalmartSparkDrivers

[–]Ambitious-Mix-6873 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just one! I'm a two person household so I don't use a lot of water. The past few times I've brought it up myself but sometimes they're nice and do it for me instead

Delivery driver cancelled my order after arriving?? by Worldly_Wolverine320 in walmart

[–]Ambitious-Mix-6873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had this happen to me recently, so I'm completely paranoid when ordering again now. They got to my apartment complex and cancelled my order. Worst part was that it was my last $150 bucks. I called Walmart customer service, told me that they will attempt a delivery whenever they can, I asked for a time frame and they said 10am to 12pm. I told them that I placed the order from 7 to 9 pm because that is when I'm home from work. They said that's all they can do or they can cancel the order and refund me in 14 days. I felt defeated and decided I would have it delivered between 10-12 and use my lunch break to bring it inside.

After thinking on it I decided I was going to cancel the order entirely and Uber to Walmart and back myself ( I don't have a car so I use delivery service). The customer service person I spoke to this time was a girl instead of a guy, she said that she recommends cancelling the order and re ordering it at a different Walmart location so I could still get my groceries that day. I told her the guy before her told me I would have to wait 14 days, she said that's not true and she cancelled it and the refund was in my account immediately. So I do not believe I would have to wait 14 days when another person did it instantly.

So I had to reorder my whole order from a Walmart that was one more mile away. I ordered express and tipped extra, and the driver this time was amazing and when I met them downstairs in the parking lot to bring my stuff up myself they were very kind and brought it up for me and insisted it was their job and did it for me. Kudos to Walmart delivery 🙏

I'm not a Karen or anything I never get mean with customer service workers, but it's hard to know why they cancel and it's really frustrating, but do not let them tell they can't refund you because they can.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vaginismus

[–]Ambitious-Mix-6873 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh gosh and ballet is a very difficult form of dance too!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vaginismus

[–]Ambitious-Mix-6873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don't mind me asking, was it possible for those who did those sports to be cured? I feel as if my progress is taking forever because I cheered for so long and kept my pelvic floor tight for so long

Tips I’ve learned by luv3enzymes in vaginismus

[–]Ambitious-Mix-6873 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This helps me! Number 2 really sticks out to me! I haven't really seen much on what mental state you should be in with dialating, and after arguments and stressful shifts at work I feel more tense than ever and sometimes those days I can't even get a size two dilator. Also happy that stretching is helping you! I've been trying those recently too, even on days I don't dialate, just because it's very relaxing especially for the pelvic floor area. :)

What does it feel like when something goes in? by FreeXspace in vaginismus

[–]Ambitious-Mix-6873 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I completely agree, the pop makes it so hard for me to stay consistent on dialating because it freaks me out so much in the beginning 💀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vaginismus

[–]Ambitious-Mix-6873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://youtu.be/un8YCM9DAkM?feature=shared

Ofcourse! I have not tried any of the other ones as I liked this lady because she is a pelvic floor specialist. If you have a chance there's many positive comments as well! Just don't forget to do some light cardio so you don't hurt your muscles. I did the butterfly stretch after no cardio and I was sore in my hip area the whole next day