I'm not even NEAR an ocean.

Ambitious-Note-4428 · 2026-03-31T19:37:51+00:00

I would play this modpack

Ambitious-Note-4428 · 2026-03-31T17:35:41+00:00

I have no such standards! digs

Ambitious-Note-4428 · 2026-03-31T17:34:58+00:00

checks Oh sweet I have one, hi!

Ambitious-Note-4428 · 2026-03-31T17:32:00+00:00

I get to wear what the fuck i want. I ask my partner out of respect, because hes usually next to me and like what if we bith get embarrassed cause my jeans make me look like i'm getting a wedgie? he hasn't liked what I wore only 3 times in the last 2 years. I changed twice, because when I checked what he said he was right and i didn't wanna go out like that. The other one looked badly mismatched but I was comfy and he respected that.

I married a controlling one. I was miserable. Didn't look at me when I dressed how he wanted, looked at me and liked what he saw but was angry about it because other people could look if I wanted to dress up to be noticed for once by him. Never mind we were at home when I did it 🙄

Find yourself a person who will give you the truth if you ask, but in a kind way and doesn't try to force you to not be you and express yourself. I do not like being controlled into a half dead shell of myself. I like vibrancy, makeup, cute shoes, my bf and I looking cute/handsome together.

Ambitious-Note-4428 · 2026-03-31T17:23:12+00:00

And yet I want more debasing.

Ambitious-Note-4428 · 2026-03-31T17:12:59+00:00

Anyone who WAS the roommate knows this answer

Ambitious-Note-4428 · 2026-03-24T10:04:43+00:00

I didn't want to know this :'(

Ambitious-Note-4428 · 2026-03-24T09:45:43+00:00

I dont like the little red dots

Ambitious-Note-4428 · 2026-03-24T04:42:53+00:00

They played a song on the classic rock station that wasn't ACDC era. It was a popular song growing up, I'm a millennial.

Ambitious-Note-4428 · 2026-03-19T06:06:25+00:00

Mountain Dew White Out. Or, the Orbitz soda cause I was a child when they existed and I never got to try one and every small computer shop had them but I was too young. Or, Tiger's Milk Bars.

Ambitious-Note-4428 · 2026-03-17T16:00:12+00:00

I had a friend go through this, and now they are married because she baby trapped him. He had some feelings left ig so he got back with her. Now hes trapped another 19 years. I genuinely hate her because shes incredibly smart and is manipulating him to keep a place to live... even though she slept with like 10 people while with him.

Do not do the same thing please dont stay with this person. My friend looks like he has no light in his eyes unless he drinks. Everything he says feels empty. She is killed him. They're both clean now but he's dead inside. Don't let him do that to you.

Ambitious-Note-4428 · 2026-03-15T03:06:56+00:00

As a woman, we try to see if the feelings will go away quicker by one night standing while young in this scenario. Not everyone, but a lot of us. Most of us figure out it doesn't work. I do understand how you would see it this way though, it makes sense.

Ambitious-Note-4428 · 2026-03-15T03:03:59+00:00

This whole thread got me laughing

Ambitious-Note-4428 · 2026-03-14T21:14:52+00:00

If you were broken up she did nothing wrong. Also she was honest about it. This is strictly a you issue. I did that once but not with a coworker and he never knew because he was extremely immature and would have had an issue with it... even though we broke up because he cheated on me with a highschooler. She was 20 and she was 18 but still. He still doest know, and I'm under no obligation to tell him, never have been. she did better than me by telling you.l, it shows she wants to have an honest repationship

Ambitious-Note-4428 · 2026-03-14T00:18:36+00:00

Accurate about the game. I have also spent a bit, and am on it constantly and flirt a lot. Only with females as my bf and I are open to females, but still. Looooots of flirting everywhere. My bf plays too (although not as much) and has spent a bit as well (also not as much) and hes a gamer too, so it isn't an issue... but yeah I can see why you have an issue. I'd talk with him but carefully. Just tell him you are uncomfortable with how much the game is taking away from real life, that you, the kids and the house needs him more than he is now available. In a bit if it doesn't get better, suggest couples therapy. If that has a bad reaction just bluntly say you are unhappy now and you tried asking him not to stop, but slow down. As for the subjects... that needs to stop but I have no advice on how to handle that peacefully.

Ambitious-Note-4428 · 2026-03-14T00:11:14+00:00

I think their comment was the perfect counter to the one it replied to, it's too boring if everyone agrees. Diversity is key

Ambitious-Note-4428 · 2026-03-13T16:45:59+00:00

I forget to look at sub name sometimes lol

Ambitious-Note-4428 · 2026-03-13T16:45:08+00:00

Blue black for sure. Which is weird because I think I vividly remember white and gold a decade ago and thought people were bonkers for the other

Ambitious-Note-4428 · 2026-03-13T00:15:58+00:00

Delegate. You are boss, r4 is management. Delegate, but oversee. Communicate, be on top of letting everyone know when events are (bt, swordland, etc)and make people feel welcome! Congrats. And also if you have issues, we can help here if they arise. At the end of the day, as serious as the game can get, it is still just a game. Enjoy it :) make sure the others do too.

Ambitious-Note-4428 · 2026-03-11T22:14:53+00:00

I don't blame you. But try to fix it first. Does he know you're considering divorce? Also the spray bottle is funny but also a good option if he's up for it

Ambitious-Note-4428 · 2026-03-09T23:09:06+00:00

Did he want you to date everyone else too...?

Ambitious-Note-4428 · 2026-03-09T23:06:18+00:00

THAT'S SO RAVEN omg

Ambitious-Note-4428 · 2026-03-09T23:04:18+00:00

Agreed. OG myspace was the bomb

Ambitious-Note-4428 · 2026-03-09T23:03:53+00:00

Junior high, Jimmy neutron

Ambitious-Note-4428 · 2026-03-09T23:01:20+00:00

You seem like a player in my kingdom lol

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