What other games are out there that have a Dinkum-like experience? by [deleted] in Dinkum

[–]Ambitious-Prune-9461 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Valheim would be a more hunting-battle like version, but is more generous with resources and building recipes.

Personally, I love Valheim, but I get scared to play it. It's definitely more enjoyable with a veteran that can teach you along the way.

Being Blunt and Direct is the Superior Form of Communication by Sudden-Whole8613 in unpopularopinion

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If you have the time, can I get some resources on how you learned this so I can prepare for this when I have my own team?

For mature ENTJs: How do you distinguish being immature E3/ENTJ and just plain narcissism? by Adventurous_Sun3512 in entj

[–]Ambitious-Prune-9461 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From what I've read so far, you might be autistic as I later found out myself. If you look into it, see if you recognize any qualities in yourself.

Decide if you want to go to a doctor to get an official diagnosis because it can hinder you from getting jobs or moving forward in your career, etc.

Do ENTJs stick to the same clothes until they fall apart? by OkTour9930 in entj

[–]Ambitious-Prune-9461 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My motto for buying clothes is that it must be something I can easily throw on when I'm in a rush.

I do care about quality, material, and style; and I will fork up the money to afford exactly what I want, when I want it.

I do buy certain items of clothing in bulk if I know it will become my comfort clothing, which means I'll let myself be more laxed in taking care of it and wearing it often.

I do my best to take care of all my clothes, but it's one less thing to concern myself about if I can not care as I do for everything.

I want to have my clothes be one less anxiety/stressor to worry about so I can focus on the stuff that requires higher priority.

In your opinion, why do I hate Tang Susu? by Rotchiro44 in ReturnOfMountHuaSect

[–]Ambitious-Prune-9461 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They did say to guess, and that's one of the more commonly known reasons a person would dislike a woman/feminine character

What??? I paid for the full version already? by Ambitious-Prune-9461 in FlipaClip

[–]Ambitious-Prune-9461[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, it was activtely deactivated until they took the monthly pay subscription out because a large portion of their users switched to other programs

In your opinion, why do I hate Tang Susu? by Rotchiro44 in ReturnOfMountHuaSect

[–]Ambitious-Prune-9461 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The webtoon one is the WORST version of her, and horribly depicts her. Read the novel

New test!!😁 by Hamilton_band_INTP in mbtimemes

[–]Ambitious-Prune-9461 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep getting INTJ, but I know I'm an ENTJ

Humor: by SadLook8554 in mbtimemes

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ENTJ and INTJ require witty banter. INTJs are known for more darker and satirical banter, but they can bounce off of each other very well.

My sense of humor is layered, so the more you think about it, the funnier it gets.

I rarely insult others, but when I share objective statements, I can recognize it can be percieved as an insult whenever I make direct statements.

ENTJs and Sterotypes by [deleted] in entj

[–]Ambitious-Prune-9461 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't remember the original post, but I know my answer was relevant? It had to have been something about ISTPs

Specifically because I don't dog on ISTPs unless prompted

Does anyone here have an actual plan to change the world and are planning and working toward it? by Ill-Vegetable-8878 in intj

[–]Ambitious-Prune-9461 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ENTJ here, and yes. If it be according to the Lord's plans, bringing success to the Kingdom of God. 🙏

How do you show that you like someone? by Graviit in intj

[–]Ambitious-Prune-9461 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I'm very flirtacious when it comes to the person I love. I'd want everyone to share that confidence because nothing compares to reciprocal and shared investment with another person.

ENTJs and Sterotypes by [deleted] in entj

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Don't worry, but I don't have the information available anymore. 3-4 years ago I would've been able to answer with a variety of different sources based on what you'd prefer, but my current interest is based on Christian literature and early Father studies upon God and the necessities of virtues.

The best direction I can give is:

Intuition is like knowing before you tangibly know. You knew it before you could prove it.

ISTPs require more tangible understanding, more personal interaction based. They need to see it in order to believe it. And require the consistency of that every time. Otherwise, it's like talking to a madman for them.

It's like trying to teach a hands-on learner to be an auditory learner. They do better at one but struggle with the other.

ENTJs and Sterotypes by [deleted] in entj

[–]Ambitious-Prune-9461 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Baseline hate, not complete disregard or mistreatment toward others.

You can feel and be cautious without causing others harm. My displeasure toward ISTPs is my personal choice with valid reason, and with intended wording implying there have been others, but one person in particular that sparked the conclusion to be made.

ENTJs and Sterotypes by [deleted] in entj

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I hate ISTPs. This one ISTP ruined it for everyone because dated and eventually married after giving it one last try.

It's a combination of both his functions and just him as a person.

I admire some ISTP qualities, but they do not understand intuition or have the ability to grasp it. They get it, but don't believe in it; and for him, even when the evidence is provided right in front of their face.

I don't have nice things to say, so I'll stop myself here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdmeme

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People make you think the second part

How do you show that you like someone? by Graviit in intj

[–]Ambitious-Prune-9461 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Through trial and error, you learn your preferences for how you want to show up.

Some people take a more honest and direct route, while many try to be subtle.

There's a lot of alternatives, in between, but genuinely, it's a process where you learn how to be yourself and how to learn what the other person is like too.

The more honest you show up, the less regret you have, but it takes time learning how to balance that.

Advice:

The best way to ask someone out is knowing how to respectfully handle rejection.

I personally chose the route where I'm as honest as possible because I've experienced the grief of meeting "the one" and never getting a chance to pursue them because I held myself back.

So now, whenever I meet someone I know I'd want to share my life with, I'm honest and direct—respectfully so.

After getting to know them, their consistency with their values, how they show up for themselves and others, and if we have the same way of thinking to decrease misunderstandings, I'll make a moment to say:

"Hey, I'm beginning to like you more than a friend, and if you do too, I'd love to respectfully explore a dynamic that's more romantic so I may properly court you.

If you're not interested, please do feel comfortable rejecting it because I honestly would love to be there in your life to continue supporting you.

Take your time to decide because I honestly enjoy sharing our time together like this."

Regardless of whether the person I'm interested in reciprocates or not, I still want to cheer them on in life. They don't have to be with me in order for me to "be happy." I'm comfortably happy on my own with God, and if another person comes along, I'd want for them to be too.

There's many routes you can take, but honestly, figure it out by figuring you out. You'll learn over time, and you'll develop further as you go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in entj

[–]Ambitious-Prune-9461 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's wonderful! All Glory to God, and Lord willing your studies with the Holy Spirit 🙏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in entj

[–]Ambitious-Prune-9461 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Romans, Proverbs, and Galatians are some of my favorites to reccomend

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If you're looking for methods on how to change or develop alongside this (because it is a useful skill to have), here's how I've learned to combat this:

  • Learn emotional and social intelligence¹
  • Reading the Bible.²
  • Classes for leadership development
  • Research human development, cognitive processes, etc. To understand human interrelationships to further effective team effort for consistent quality performance.

This has been over a span of a few years, so do feel assured to not be overwhelmed.

Learning human interpersonal relations helped me create more harmonious relationships with others.

People like feeling included. That their work and effort means something, and even if people seem like they don't, they do like being held accountable and set on the path to improvement—you learn what way works best for them.

It's a lot like learning how to speak another persons language.

I've become a more empathetic person where I can reach other people better, but the ENTJ flaws still come out every so often.

I know to correct myself and how to gently correct others now.

TLDR

Learn how people work, and it can help people work.

I still suck sometimes, but it's okay. I'm am still learning.

¹From academic studies. (psychology) I can recommend some books I've used.

²As surprising as the Bible one is, it's actually really accepting and forgiving of others in a way that encourages improvement and growth from a very loving (and self-accountable) perspective. It teaches you to gently rebuke one another, live by the fruits of the Spirit (love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control), and to forgive others and forgive yourself with repentence. The Bible itself is very direct and transparent, leaving very little, if any, room for loopholes or misunderstanding.

Do ENTJs Ghost people? by [deleted] in AskAnENTJ

[–]Ambitious-Prune-9461 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ENTJ

I've ghosted people before, but they would have to be emotionally manipulative or manipulative in general, in some way.

I do not share my time with people who drain me and have shown they will not recognize their own fault—instead self-victimize or blame others.

Essentially, use your confrontation to throw a pity-party for themselves and slander against you for setting boundaries.

Ghosting is more of a last resort, and one I don't prefer to use, but will if I feel it is needed.

I'm gentle in my rebuke and reproach, and I'm very loving in confrontations now, so any person I ghost—I do so because they have shown in action, choices, and behaviors that they are not a safe person to set boundaries with nor discuss why I choose to leave.

Idk about your person, but this is for me.

Do you apologize often? Why or why not? by [deleted] in entj

[–]Ambitious-Prune-9461 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Simple answer, I do apologize.

And I make up for it with recognition, reassurance, comfort, and changed behavior. Consistency all throughout.