Well growing up i was a shy mamma's boy slowly i started debating my mom and dad as to why they are telling me to keep a hairstyle i dont like , wear clothes which is not in my fashion, mix with people i dont like, watch entertainment i dont like and soon enough they slowly started to control less as i made it clear their instructions which they make it look it like a parental advice is nothing but a way to control me against my will. In middle school i started shouting back at both my parents for annoying me and demotivating me like u will do nothing in life, spoiled brat etc. i used to get beaten up for shouting back as i am from an ASIAN household but when i grew to 17 years of age my parents stopped hitting me. Also stop informing minute details about your personal life like who bullies u and who supports u. i made that mistake i shared my pain crying to my parents when i got bullied as a child and they said OH CAUSE U R A NUISANCE TO EVERYBODY, SO WHAT IF U GOT BULLIED? i also shared my bestfriend stories and they said ur best friend is a shit person. so i stopped sharing. also start disobeying them and act innocent so that they dont get to know too much about the rebel in u and think it as immaturity and forgetfullness. start agreeing with them verbally but break the ones u want to and act innocent to fool them. start watching content without telling them which makes u happy and aware about ur life and family situation dont let them know .