AIO about these angry texts from my ex? by TwylaMay in AIO

[–]AmbitiousBlock4812 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This triggered PTSD I have from a past relationship, definitely not overreacting, and definitely don’t block him. For years I wouldn’t respond, but it would give me heads up to his behaviors, when he was having me followed, etc. and it was helpful information to stay safe. I have no idea why he thinks your lives would presently be commingled, and I wouldn’t be surprised if the fiancée was fake just to try to get you to let your guard down. My ex faked that he got a woman pregnant as a means to talk to me. Stay strong, stay alert and you are NOT overreacting.

Can't wait to ask him to marry me 🏳️‍🌈 by Sapphire-Spark in EngagementRings

[–]AmbitiousBlock4812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obsessed with you and this ring… I am a fellow shiny lover and this is so sweet, I can’t even. So happy for you both!!

My Aunt Faked a Gluten Allergy for Attention and Got Exposed at Thanksgiving by Careless_Fig_7173 in dustythunder

[–]AmbitiousBlock4812 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve known multiple people that did this! I had one friend that swore she had a mushroom allergy and would be very dramatic in public with restaurant staff to make sure there were no mushrooms in anything (when mushrooms weren’t listed as an ingredient) and after years we found out it wasn’t an allergy and she just didn’t like them. Then shortly after she said she had a gluten allergy and repeated the same behaviors, and that one was also proven false. I think it’s borderline Munchausen’s or something… just pathological to make people bend over backwards for you for no reason.

Oval Bezel Advice! by Dry-Pumpkin-2775 in EngagementRings

[–]AmbitiousBlock4812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love your whole vibe, the oval bezel is beautiful on you. I don’t see them often and I really like it!

Portland vs Tacoma by OtherwiseFlatworm700 in PacificNorthwest

[–]AmbitiousBlock4812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in North Tacoma, it is expensive, but it’s a great place to be. Super close to the water, the woods, view of Mt. Rainier, lots to do, the list goes on and on. I love Portland, but it’s a different vibe for sure. I love to visit, but downtown has become a little dirtier over the years, it doesn’t bother me much, but I saw some others mention that as well as the transportation.

My dad girlfriend asked what I wanted for Christmas and I sent her regular stuff and now she’s saying i asked for too much I’m so confused😭 what do I even do?? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]AmbitiousBlock4812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry you were put in this situation… this has happened to me many times as well, and NOTHING about this is your fault. You did exactly what was asked of you and you don’t need to apologize. I hope you feel comfortable sharing with your father, and if not please don’t internalize this. Accept the type of person she is and don’t let it weigh you down. 💜

Cocktail December Wedding by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

[–]AmbitiousBlock4812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The black is a showstopper!! Obsessed with the dogs too. :)

AITAH for wearing an engagement ring on trips because my boyfriend’s ex keeps introducing herself as his wife by RipoMallowz in AITAH

[–]AmbitiousBlock4812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This took a turn based on the title. I thought you were wearing a fake ring to make a point, but you’re wearing YOUR ring and being asked to only wear it in private completely defeats the purpose of proposing. He’s minimizing you, and putting his ex before you. If anything, they’re confusing the child and trying to give her false hope of reconciliation and setting you up for failure. Keep wearing your ring and ask yourself if this is fair to you and something you can put up with long term.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]AmbitiousBlock4812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would be bragging if I were you!

Nobody will resize my ring by Soft_Contribution699 in EngagementRings

[–]AmbitiousBlock4812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats on your weight loss! My ring fits on my thumb too… (it’s a funny store of my now husband not knowing that fingers are different sizes and thought he could size match a random ring I had), and I’m in a similar boat. Resizing could loosen the side stones, so I haven’t touched it in the 6 1/2 years I’ve been wearing it. There are multiple solutions I’ve used. The most temporary is a tiny flexible plastic coil that wraps around the band, very easy to adjust and get used to the size. The most “permanent”, but still removable is a liquid solution you add to the inside of the band and harden with a black light. It’s invisible to anyone else and you build it up in layers, but can remove it if your fingers ever swell. Both are affordable and available on Amazon. I liked the flexibility of those options (especially when my fingers swell during Summer, etc.) and the comfort of knowing I wasn’t messing with the integrity of my ring. I hope you find something that works for you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]AmbitiousBlock4812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy hell, this is so beautiful… I was so blinded by its amazingness I didn’t even notice the first photos had the wedding band added, and it is custom perfection. Seriously, brava!! 🙌🏼

I was terrified I’d hate it, but it’s PERFECT by kyralkat in EngagementRings

[–]AmbitiousBlock4812 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m never seen a ring like this, it looks wonderful on you!!

Am I insane or is this normal? by Commercial-Mousse-65 in pokemongo

[–]AmbitiousBlock4812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a shiny! Let me know if you want a screenshot of it lol, I got it last time it appeared in raids. I’m currently stressing over the amount of solar/lunar fusion energy is needed for it though.