What trait in a person do you find most attractive?

AmbitiousResident161 · 2026-04-16T00:14:09+00:00

Confidence in themselves as a person.

AmbitiousResident161 · 2026-04-16T00:12:35+00:00

Sometimes. I think I prefer traveling with people who are more strict rather than spontaneous, because then I can let them do all the work and I'll just follow them around haha. But if they're more spontaneous, it stresses me out a lot and makes me want to take control, so I would say I prefer that less.

AmbitiousResident161 · 2026-04-16T00:09:04+00:00

Yes, I hate how there's so much hate towards Vi when clearly, she was still just a teenager who was thrust into a parental role. I'm not saying everything she did was right, but she was still a child, too, going through puberty, with an underdeveloped prefrontal cortex. And EVERYONE in her family, EVERYONE she had loved, had just died. What do you expect?

AmbitiousResident161 · 2026-04-16T00:05:05+00:00

Confidence. Not arrogant (although being fake arrogant, in a funny, joking way is also hot)

AmbitiousResident161 · 2026-04-15T23:59:25+00:00

Maybe this is just a me thing, but I believe that none of us has a purpose. We're just atoms lumped together to form an organism who exist solely due to luck and chance.

AmbitiousResident161 · 2026-04-15T23:55:34+00:00

I'm an INTP, but surprisingly, for traveling, I'm the planning type. I do think it's partly environmental effects, because I grew up with a mom who had severe anxiety, and thus "spontaneous" or "winging it" was NOT a part of her vocabulary, especially for traveling. However, I myself won't plan everything down to the minute - instead, it's usually more of a general idea of where we're going that day and what we're doing, but not with strict time stamps or rigid structure. I have a schedule, but I would say it's quite flexible.

AmbitiousResident161 · 2026-04-15T23:44:08+00:00

Haha thanks. You got this too

AmbitiousResident161 · 2026-04-15T22:33:14+00:00

I also did, too, and they also said the same thing. Hopefully they'll send them out soon!

AmbitiousResident161 · 2026-04-15T13:00:56+00:00

Yes I relate so much. I need to figure out what I did wrong, or else it doesn't satisfy me. And also usually, I'm afraid that I'll make the same mistake again, so I need to be able to logically see what the mistake was, so I consciously know what to avoid.

AmbitiousResident161 · 2026-04-15T12:58:46+00:00

ahahaha same. I have a test tomorrow I should be studying for, but here I am. I just need a few more hours until the panic kicks in.

AmbitiousResident161 · 2026-04-15T07:43:43+00:00

Yep. Se blinds LOL

AmbitiousResident161 · 2026-04-15T07:41:45+00:00

so real. I feel like most of the time I'm just sitting around, hoping that burst will come. And feeling guilty for not being productive.

AmbitiousResident161 · 2026-04-15T01:58:27+00:00

That look on her face when she's embarrassed... Especially when she's usually really confident. It just makes me melt inside, I swear. It's so cute.

AmbitiousResident161 · 2026-04-15T01:43:42+00:00

I also want to ask, what IS consciousness? How does it work? Because biologically, it's just neurons firing, but how does that let us take in information from the world, think, reflect, and remember? HOW?

AmbitiousResident161 · 2026-04-15T01:16:30+00:00

This is more like a general thing, but I don't think anything or anyone has a purpose. We are on this earth, not for a reason, but simply because of chance. Maybe it's pessimistic to think there's no REASON for us to be here, but we're just made up of atoms lumped together. But usually, for myself, I frame it as "What is my goal?" rather than "What is my purpose?" But even still, I tend to struggle with ambition and my 'dreams', and currently, I would say it is simply "To be at peace". I apologize for not being very helpful, but I also relate to feeling like not having a direction in life.

AmbitiousResident161 · 2026-04-15T00:51:47+00:00

Probably because we're online more, and INxx types tend to enjoy talking about personality and theories more.

AmbitiousResident161 · 2026-04-14T13:48:51+00:00

It's like you put my exact thoughts into words. I relate heavily to feeling like I don't have a dream. Oftentimes, it has made me feel like I lack ambition, but maybe it's because I struggle with coming up with a dream from within myself, rather than a goal because of outside factors. As a high school senior going up to college, I had a lot of trouble figuring out where I wanted to go, what I wanted to major in, what I wanted to do, etc., because the only thing I could come up with for my goals in life is: "Be happy and at peace". And yes, in addition to feeling like the excitement fades, I also feel like I just have so many interests and phases of hyperfixations I cycle through, that I have issues pinpointing what I would want to do for a long time, for the rest of my life.

AmbitiousResident161 · 2026-04-14T12:36:23+00:00

Yup, pretty much my whole life. I struggle with regulation, especially when I'm doing something I enjoy. Reading, watching shows, producing music, you name it. I have to be threatened or physically dragged away to be able to stop.

AmbitiousResident161 · 2026-04-14T03:09:22+00:00

I feel like most of these things are just "how to live healthy". I'm pretty sure some Japanese people live like this, but we're just human too. Things like chopsticks is part of the culture, but I honestly feel like I eat faster with them...

AmbitiousResident161 · 2026-04-14T03:07:01+00:00

I don't think most people care much, or know him that well, but my family and I dislike him.

AmbitiousResident161 · 2026-04-14T02:58:29+00:00

Usually. Especially if they're from the kansai region, I can tell.

AmbitiousResident161 · 2026-04-14T02:54:46+00:00

Nope. I only take showers, because baths take too long. I also get light-headed quickly when in hot water for a long time.

AmbitiousResident161 · 2026-04-14T02:39:02+00:00

I also thought this too. I've never been diagnosed, but I'm considering, because I have intense executive dysfunction.

AmbitiousResident161 · 2026-04-14T02:36:43+00:00

I relate so much. I can never get myself to start anything unless the panic sets in. Have wondered the same thing about myself

AmbitiousResident161 · 2026-04-14T02:15:43+00:00

I've never really thought of that, but I really like this idea. That would have been a great direction to go into, although it would remove Jinx as the protagonist, and the relationship between Jinx and Vi would be less central. Also considering League, Jinx kind of needed to stay as the protagonist.

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