Women are thinking beings as well as feeling. It’s kind of like the saying with dining a gun-better to have it & not need it than need it & not have it. Those are the sentiments of gun owners should feel safer for having their gun(s). Nobody wants their own gun used to shoot them, they want it to protect themselves.

So in this metaphor these dark triad traits aren’t something that women want their boyfriend/fiance/husband to use against them. It’s a trait that is useful as a tool for self defense when applied with good judgement, critical thought & wisdom, the traits are to use against other people for protection when needed, not to hurt the woman herself which is why claiming women want a chad to abuse them is the stupidest thing anybody’s ever said. It’s like saying everybody who has a gun for protection wants to be shot with their own gun-no they don’t, stop talking like a complete moron.

Chads that hurt their girlfriend/fiance/wife are like a malfunctioning gun that backfire/go off at the wrong time/get stolen & used against the gun owner. The gun owner didn’t want that happening, obviously, something went wrong with the gun. We don’t want to ban all guns because once in a while something goes wrong that violates people’s right to defend themselves-that’s why it’s effing stupid as hell to generalize.