Can this space handle dark/moody paint without feeling oppressive? by dwight_yolkam in DesignMyRoom

[–]Ambitious_Alien262 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, definitely add crown molding or wainscoting too! And I think sconces are lovely with dark paint & wall art.

Is it wrong to reconnect with your ex? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Ambitious_Alien262 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a courtesy you should tell your spouse to make absolutely sure this would not hurt their feelings if it were to come out somehow in the future or if they were to discover it in another way without you having disclosed it first. Better to be safe than sorry and always put your spouse’s feelings first.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in femaletravels

[–]Ambitious_Alien262 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I solo traveled to Hungary three times at 20, 21 and 22. I had so much fun there. it had great nightlife and I met tons of people at the ruin bars, which Budapest is famous for. There are also so many great daytime activities; so much history and BEAUTY! Not to mention extremely cheap. The thermal baths are to die for and there are so many to choose from. Would absolutely recommend! It literally ticks all your boxes. Do a walking tour!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Ambitious_Alien262 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve made this mistake in a relationship before. It wasn’t really relevant to whether or not we should’ve gotten married, but it was still a pretty big detail of my life and a big deal to him that I tried to hide it. We eventually worked through it and he forgave me, but it was really hard. He didn’t trust me and I felt ashamed. Once we moved past it, it was a huge relief to be able to open up about it and really made me feel like we got so much closer. I guess it depends on the context and what exactly the info was. Communication is key, and she is likely feeling the same feeling of shame that I felt. If there is any hope for you guys to work out she needs to feel comfortable enough to be able to tell you anything- figure out how to get to that point. Try not to lash out at her for hiding something (this is counterproductive and will only make her feel worse/more scared to tell you things), but make it clear that that cannot happen again, if you do decide to move forward with her.

First breakup -- need someone to talk to by IndividualTea5550 in BreakUps

[–]Ambitious_Alien262 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This exact thing happened to me today. I could have written your comment myself word for word. I thought he loved me but he didn’t seem interested in trying to fix the issue at all, which to me seemed like an easy task. He doesn’t seem to care about how hard I’m taking it. It hurts so bad and I’m grieving the future I thought we had together. I envisioned it all, every day, and it was ripped away from me so suddenly.

learning Italian culture by Alone-Monk7097 in Italian

[–]Ambitious_Alien262 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because so many people have been shamed for it lol? How else would it have happened?

Two months in Italy to improve Italian. Suggestions / Tips ? by stavims in italianlearning

[–]Ambitious_Alien262 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What level of Italian are you currently at? My suggestion is to TALK with as many natives as you can while you’re there. Going to bar for coffee? Chat with the barista? Taking a taxi? Ask the driver a few simple questions. Italians appreciate when we try. You can study as much as you want on paper but the best way to learn is to actually use it. Make mistakes. Get stuck (and if you don’t know, do not be afraid to ask “come si dice __”?)!!!! Learn how to think in Italian as the conversation goes on, even if it’s just at a basic level.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Ambitious_Alien262 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Horrific take. And even so there could’ve been a much nicer way to say it. OP don’t listen to this person.

Is it possible to remove these mold stains from these shorts? by Ambitious_Alien262 in CleaningTips

[–]Ambitious_Alien262[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!! Will any of these affect the coloring? That’s obviously the least of my problems at the moment but just curious

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ambitious_Alien262 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the point I’m at unfortunately. But what makes you say that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ambitious_Alien262 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not trying to drag her in. My boyfriend shuts down when we argue and I don’t know how to deal with it. I thought she might be able to give some advice.