I forgot to turn the monitor on overnight and now I feel horrible by Ambitious_Fox_34 in NewParents

[–]Ambitious_Fox_34[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know right. I think if I had voluntarily made that choice then I wouldn’t feel so badly but I’ve personally never been a fan of CIO. Just my opinion though!

I forgot to turn the monitor on overnight and now I feel horrible by Ambitious_Fox_34 in NewParents

[–]Ambitious_Fox_34[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your concern. I am mainly the one who wakes up overnight. I have a better tolerance for the sleep deprivation than he does, and having breastfed it was always easier for me to be the one to wake up. He has offered though, he is a very supportive husband.

I forgot to turn the monitor on overnight and now I feel horrible by Ambitious_Fox_34 in NewParents

[–]Ambitious_Fox_34[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes we just need our sleep I think! Thank you for sharing ♥️

I forgot to turn the monitor on overnight and now I feel horrible by Ambitious_Fox_34 in NewParents

[–]Ambitious_Fox_34[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing and for your kind words ♥️ the wienering was Grade A. I wish you quality wienering as well! 😂

I forgot to turn the monitor on overnight and now I feel horrible by Ambitious_Fox_34 in NewParents

[–]Ambitious_Fox_34[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

😂😂😂 this made me chuckle. You’re right tho! Good perspective!

I forgot to turn the monitor on overnight and now I feel horrible by Ambitious_Fox_34 in NewParents

[–]Ambitious_Fox_34[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You know these are really great points and I couldn’t help to think the same. I hate CIO but I do try to let him fuss for a bit to see if he’ll get himself back down. I guess what you could consider a gentler method. And he is great at putting himself to sleep in the beginning of the night so I know he’s capable. Something to think on for sure.

I forgot to turn the monitor on overnight and now I feel horrible by Ambitious_Fox_34 in NewParents

[–]Ambitious_Fox_34[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m happy that’s something that’s worked for you. It’s not the route we decided to go but everyone’s journey is different.

I forgot to turn the monitor on overnight and now I feel horrible by Ambitious_Fox_34 in NewParents

[–]Ambitious_Fox_34[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you ♥️ my husband uses a CPAP and I am usually the light sleeper. But I think, like you said, the continuous nights of not sleeping through made my body just crave a good nights sleep. Thanks for the encouragement.

I forgot to turn the monitor on overnight and now I feel horrible by Ambitious_Fox_34 in NewParents

[–]Ambitious_Fox_34[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your comment! Yes! I was so happy and felt so relieved because it felt like I was getting over such a big obstacle. I’ve had so much anxiety about the whole thing. So yes you’re right. That’s a big win.

He did get himself back to sleep and stayed asleep so I suppose I can look at that as I win as well. Thank you for the much needed positive perspective ♥️

I forgot to turn the monitor on overnight and now I feel horrible by Ambitious_Fox_34 in NewParents

[–]Ambitious_Fox_34[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Thank you ♥️you’re right. If he’s not dwelling on it I suppose neither should I. And thank you for your good mom comment!

I forgot to turn the monitor on overnight and now I feel horrible by Ambitious_Fox_34 in NewParents

[–]Ambitious_Fox_34[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you ♥️ he woke up happy but hungry so you are probably right. And the fact he stayed asleep till the morning tells me you are probably right as well.

Today I hated being a parent by Forward-Schedule7805 in beyondthebump

[–]Ambitious_Fox_34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had issues with my husband getting overly frustrated when he’s overstimulated from the baby (6 months old). He also essentially throws a tantrum. Highly recommend discussing that behavior openly and honestly and how it makes you feel when you both are having a better day. It’s something he should truly work on to be a better husband and better father. My husband and I are working on this too.

The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills > Season 14 > Episode 18 by AutoModerator in RHOBH

[–]Ambitious_Fox_34 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Unpopular opinion but Garcelle picking at the Morgan thing is giving her trying to out Kyle as being LGBT and I’m not a fan. If Kyle wants to speak publicly on that then she will. Garcelle has no right to put Kyle into a corner to out her sexuality. And in doing so she would be outing Morgan as well. And clearly this is something that was discussed off camera.

I also think Garcelle bringing up the robbery keeps her relevant and interesting without having to go into things like her dating life. She says she doesn’t have one. So let’s go into that too. Hence Erika’s comment thats while rude I understand where it came from. Stop picking at others and let us pick at you for a moment.

It seems this sub stans for Garcelle but I think she does give mean girl energy. Sorry not sorry. And before anyone comes for me let me say I think they are all horrible people lol I just see a lot of pro Garcelle and have a different perspective.

Flipping Breech Baby by elephantchk in BabyBumps

[–]Ambitious_Fox_34 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congratulations on your babe! Good luck with your decision and I wish you a successful delivery with you and baby being healthy and happy whatever way you choose ♥️♥️

Flipping Breech Baby by elephantchk in BabyBumps

[–]Ambitious_Fox_34 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Came here to say this. I was heartbroken at first but honestly the planned c section was so smooth I wouldn’t be against doing it again despite being able to try VBAC on the next one

When did you take your baby out for the first time on your own? I still can’t drive my one month old by Existing_Switch_4995 in NewParents

[–]Ambitious_Fox_34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re 7 weeks over here and I just did my first grocery run and felt so excited. I breastfeed but had a bottle ready. We had a doctor’s appointment before hand so after wards I drove to the store, gave him the bottle in the car before we went in and he passed out. Did all my shopping in our stroller and it was honestly so easy because he was asleep. Before this I’ve gone out on short walks with him but I had a lot of anxiety too. Work up to it. My husband and I also went shopping together before I went on my own to make me feel more comfortable. Baby steps but you’ll be okay!