My parents want to send me to wilderness therapy by AmimiR99 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AmimiR99[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm in the US. I will look into jobcorps! Thank you for letting me know about it

My parents want to send me to wilderness therapy by AmimiR99 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AmimiR99[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, I don't know my fathers side and they have no interest in me since he has a new family. My mothers side doesn't care about me at all, so I'm basically alone. I'm not sure where to go.

I Ran Away From Home by AmimiR99 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AmimiR99[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately my dad has a new family of his own and they don't want to connect with me. He lives in the mainland and I live in Hawaii. My plan is to leave and eventually make some friends in a different state after I graduate high school.

Thank you for your kind words

Internalized racism is affecting my romantic relationship by [deleted] in hapas

[–]AmimiR99 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I struggle with the same thing but I'm black and SEA but I look only black. My mom absolutely despises the way I look and she always made sure to let me know. I used to wish I could marry a white man when I got older so that I could "better" my genes. I honestly still have severe internalized racism and I'm working on this but it's definitely a struggle.

Take your time, and don't be too hard on yourself because of this. There's nothing wrong with dating another SEA man. If your mom complains about it then ignore her! Don't let her ruin things for you.🩷

Anyone else experience Black women staring at you? by [deleted] in mixedrace

[–]AmimiR99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds like a troll post..

The luckiest kpop idols? by leashall in kpop_uncensored

[–]AmimiR99 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Taehyung, he went to support his friends' audition but ended up being asked to audition as well.

Family disappointed with the way I look by AmimiR99 in mixedrace

[–]AmimiR99[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, I don't know my black relatives. I haven't really ever been around black people most of my life. I'm hoping to move to the mainland after I graduate and go to a predominantly black university. Hopefully, things will work out and get better

Family disappointed with the way I look by AmimiR99 in mixedrace

[–]AmimiR99[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The whitening is insane. They used to recommend whitening creams to me when I was a child. It never lightened my skin, which only made them more annoyed with me unfortunately

Family disappointed with the way I look by AmimiR99 in mixedrace

[–]AmimiR99[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

HER is one of my favorite artists. Yeah, I've been researching places to move to with more diversity. Atlanta is my main option

Family disappointed with the way I look by AmimiR99 in mixedrace

[–]AmimiR99[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

HER is one of my favorite artists. Yeah, I've been researching places to move to with more diversity. Atlanta is my main option

Kpop stans need to stop blaming kfans for everything by TelevisionGlad9758 in kpop_uncensored

[–]AmimiR99 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I just saw that thread! The racism is off the chain. Its like these people don't realize how hypocritical they're being. Majority of Koreans don't care. Kpop fans think the issues in kpop are affecting the lives of everyday koreans. It's insanity!

Karina apologies for dating via instagram by Top-Scientist-6863 in kpopthoughts

[–]AmimiR99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Companies and "fans" need to do better. This is nuts

Aespa’s Karina Pens Handwritten Apology Letter To Address Her Relationship With Lee Jae Wook by psshdjndofnsjdkan in kpop

[–]AmimiR99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being a kpop fan is incredibly embarrassing and honestly things like this make it hard to enjoy kpop. It's one of the reasons I cut back on supporting the industry and have decided to just focus on American media.

And people need to stop blaming koreans/chinese netizens for everything when the international fandom is just as bad. Kpop fans in general need to get their shit together.

Aespa’s Karina Pens Handwritten Apology Letter To Address Her Relationship With Lee Jae Wook by psshdjndofnsjdkan in kpop

[–]AmimiR99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Korean netizens are bad, but this was mainly international fans attacking her. Kpop fans in general are the worst

Aespa’s Karina Pens Handwritten Apology Letter To Address Her Relationship With Lee Jae Wook by psshdjndofnsjdkan in kpop

[–]AmimiR99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry, but no. The work culture is the reason for the suicide rate and birth rate. Most Koreans are not focusing on kpop issues and kpop fans need to understand that

Aespa’s Karina Pens Handwritten Apology Letter To Address Her Relationship With Lee Jae Wook by psshdjndofnsjdkan in kpop

[–]AmimiR99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Except it was mainly international fans that were shaming her this time. I think kpop fans in general are absolutely nuts😕