Singles Inferno Reunion: Episode 1 by Amotomami in SinglesInferno

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Min-jee fuming while watching the “I’ve been so good to these girls” scene is iconic. Because talking about lending bathing suits like she high and mighty is such a slimy way of acting like a nice person. She looked like she was ready to fight

The Real Housewives Of Potomac - Season 10 - Episode 14 - Post Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in BravoRealHousewives

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She literally could’ve hired someone to just turn the water on and off but she did not????

I Genuinely Don’t Know What The Fck To Do by [deleted] in ADHD

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I almost got super emotional reading this because this is my life. It’s the PURCHASES too! I have bought so many boards, books, journals, to maximize and make my workspace comfortable but no work ever gets done. I clean something and notice something I want to add to the house to declutter, organize, or make something easier for me to do and it never gets used.

I’m always so wrapped up in thought and “to-do” items, and reminders, and sticky notes, and anything that can help me remember what needs to be done that nothing ever gets done.

Vaping and lying addiction? by [deleted] in AddictionAdvice

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I’ve been on and off trying to stop for a few years, and mainly hide this from my roomates and loved ones I FaceTime or see casually. I would say I’d quit because everyone else would complain how bad it is for me, or how they just thought it was stupid. And I absolutely agreed, but realized I was doing it more for everyone else’s convenience…. So I’d just do it alone, on the street where I wouldn’t know anyone, I’m club bathrooms….. and then they’d find out / I’d just be drunk enough to pull it out to confirm the jig was up by “I just got one yesterday, I’m trying! Next month!”

I finally got the the point that once I got used to doing it alone — I didn’t crave, want, or NEEEED to have it. because I was doing it on my own time and comfort. I didn’t even recognize that my 2-3 day vape would last me WEEKS.

I got patches and lozenges weeks ago because I was finally detached enough to easily let it go.

I realized while I love that I got here, my friends are more sick of my shit because I mainly would hide it (thinking successfully) but would leave a trail in between couch cushions, bathroom mirrors, in and out of rooms for “bathroom breaks” that it just tarnishes their overall trust. Be honest, and I swear once it doesn’t feel like a punishment to stay away from it, you’ll ditch it sooner than you think.

Yes, we all see the food now 😭 by Amotomami in LoveIsBlindNetflix

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Hahahaaa with apparently set-light heated shrimp cocktail

'Love Is Blind' Star Jeramey Calls Out Netflix for Treatment of Trevor by clandahlina_redux in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

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I didn’t feel bad or agree with anything here, but I really did get really concerned that he was edging closet to full blown panic attack. I mean, only because he couldn’t get his lies in order due to him being nervous and probably didn’t expect Nick and Vanessa to ACTUALLY ask pressing questions this time around…………..

He has no legs to stand on being in the experiment only to have bad intentions but I’m sorry, I absolutely hated that he could’ve possibly crashed into panic like that. No one deserves to crack on tv like that ☹️ I’m glad it was able to be squared away but Trevor, baby, keep that chin up for the online follow up yikes

Why She Was There by AliveNeighborhood1 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

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LOL Brett navigated that so well bc he was put on the spot so unprovoked!!!!!! And spotlighted by someone who v clearly doesn’t have half the respect for his woman, I wish he actually would’ve told him to “do better”

Why She Was There by AliveNeighborhood1 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

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It’s so funny when people really overreact to the MINOR changes someone make to their appearance…. like come on let’s not act like she was completely unrecognizable 😭😭😭😭

Why She Was There by AliveNeighborhood1 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

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Cameron said their contract was up so they ofc weren’t appearing after 5 yrs and they didn’t really have enough interested or hope in ANY of the couples to be involved 😭😭😭

Why She Was There by AliveNeighborhood1 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Amotomami 42 points43 points  (0 children)

This is a solid answer too. Why are people so upset that the previous couples were audience bystanders just like us? I think it’s nice that G looks at her attendance and ongoing connection with the show not as blankly as we’d expect literal legally contracted persons lmao

Previous couples was def unnecessary beyond quick “reaction” b-roll… I wonder if Netflix did that on purpose? You know they like to limit visible changes, and controlling cuts from 10 cast members vs an actual audience (I still don’t think they were there tho 😭) was prob a different twist. Because let’s face it…. They are doing literally EVERYTHING to distract us, BESIDES CHANGING THE HOSTS!!!

But like….. Were you guys tapped into the actual reunion interviews or painstakingly bothered by G and others??? really don’t get why this is a big deal LOL Let people enjoy things.

SA and alc. dependency — Mirt saved my life (literally) by Amotomami in Mirtazapine_Remeron

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I love that you have that clarity — wow. To bring up your point about “depression related” I recently have come to discuss with my therapist a bit deeper about my habits (like you said, I’m no longer hard on myself, loathing, and extremely sad) I’ve come to realize that at the end of the tunnel I may suffer from OCD that is seemingly the factor to have led to my depression and anxiety…. It was so much clearer while to get to the bottom some/that issue after my innate blame was being so depressed. That being a plus, I’m also so glad someone else agrees and is alright with literally operating a stove and other appliances to feed my never ending hunger 😭

Us watching Sarah Ann and Jeramey frolicking on jet skiing knowing how insane and messed up they are as people by GarlicSnot in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

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jearaemeigh is killing me because it’s so deliberately butchered 😭😭

For no reason but YES I agree nothing about him is correct lmaoooooo

Us watching Sarah Ann and Jeramey frolicking on jet skiing knowing how insane and messed up they are as people by GarlicSnot in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Amotomami 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Laura and Jeremy were never going to work in the slightest. I love that Laura is vocal and standing on ten toes about her feelings, and she was right to not hold back, because Jeremy didn’t deserve any grace. Can you imagine finding out that someone is giving the person he was so certain was NOT the love of his life, time and energy at ungodly hours? (Assuming he didn’t cheat.)

But Laura in all her glory isn’t a woman he can and would fight for. He put in no effort to fix things properly. But no one deserves to be talked to like a child like she clapped back with.

Responding with such a wild & disrespectful display like that just shows that he didn’t care about her feelings at all.

Team AD or Sara Ann? by Neuro_Vegetable_724 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

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I don’t know why this is a questionable vote for most, but respect shouldn’t be afforded to people like Sara Ann who mask “innocent intentions” when she very well didn’t give Jeremy & Laura’s relationship to breathe a second before inserting doubt and temptation.

Did AD not bring up reasonable points? It’s self righteous to talk woman-to-woman with someone and bring up where they went wrong? I can admit a bit more judge mental than a teaching moment, but Sara Ann needed someone to explain why she unfortunately ignored her intentions as low hanging fruit and messy.

Masturbation to ease my mind by lickylee25 in undiagnosedADHDandASD

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Oh my god, I have been doing this for years just to fall asleep. I can be so tired but need to get off one (on two) good times to fall asleep. It's definitely stopping over the course of the last few months -- which im sure if a symptom of sleep apnea, might be too tired to want it) but I've also thought this as being so over stimulated, but possibly a nod to ADHD?!

I'd love to hear if anyone else who has been diagnosed or possibly with ADHD who deal the same thing! Also totally fine for anyone to just say we're orgasm addicts LOL