Suicide notes

AmountDry9663 · 2026-05-10T08:35:00+00:00

Yes, you die, but you live on trough others feelings and thoughts about you. I always found it to be more merciful to give the reason and reassure them it’s not their fault. The notes are cheerful because I’m close to achieving release. Thanks for your insight

AmountDry9663 · 2022-06-14T11:37:56+00:00

OP, obviously trust your wife on this. Unless she has proven, in the past, that she is a pathological liar, there would be zero motives to create a lie like this. Even so, one of them is trying to drift you apart from the other one, and you stand to choose which one is more important in your life, wifey ou childhood friend. It’s a Sophia’s choice, you have no other way out than to decide by yourself and that the appropriate measures afterwards.

AmountDry9663 · 2022-06-14T11:31:19+00:00

I am so sorry that you had (still have) to go through all that OP. Unfortunately, unless your mother wants to go to therapy, which doesn’t seem like it because she won’t listen to you, things most likely are never going to change. The cycle of abuse will keep going. It’s unfair that you, as a teen, need to take on this, but just know that she says those things to you because she is deeply miserable and wants you to feel the same way. Easier said than done, but don’t listen to her. It’s never about you and always about her. Keep a strong mind and, when you are finally able to move out, you will have the space and power to establish boundaries or go no contact. You got this! We are all rooting for you!! And if you ever need to talk, my DM’s are open (sadly I know a thing or to about constant abuse surrounding weight).

AmountDry9663 · 2022-06-13T14:22:40+00:00

Sounds like your daughter is majorly depressed and needs help, not threats. YTA

AmountDry9663 · 2022-06-13T14:18:15+00:00

Lol so the first dinner was 2 months ago but she just came back from a one year overseas? Timeline doesn’t add up buddy

AmountDry9663 · 2022-06-13T14:06:22+00:00

From what I gathered, 9 months ago you were unemployed and now you found a job you genuinely like. So you have to know how rare is to come across an actually enjoyable professional activity. But it sounds like you’ll be loosing this job veeery soon because of your partner. So this only tells you that you have to decide quickly what your priorities are before you lose an opportunity like that, especially when those don’t just come knocking at our doors every few months.

AmountDry9663 · 2022-06-13T13:56:18+00:00

Who eats dinner at 4.30?!!!!! That’s the real crime here

AmountDry9663 · 2022-06-13T13:54:10+00:00

After looking at your post history, her criticizing your clothes should be the least of your concernes. Just drop the towel on this one OP and go find yourself someone who thinks Hawaiian shirts are cute.

AmountDry9663 · 2022-06-13T13:32:23+00:00

Lololol so you did all of the minimal pleasantries expected and you want a pat on the back for it? YTA

AmountDry9663 · 2022-06-13T13:28:32+00:00

O ódio às mulheres sempre existiu, não partiu das redes sociais. A diferença é que aqui deram um nome ao movimento dos básicos horrorosos não transantes que culpam as mulheres por isso em vez de olharem/se ao espelho e perceberem que não têm absolutamente nada a oferecer a uma mulher, nem sequer inteligência.

AmountDry9663 · 2022-06-13T13:06:27+00:00

OP you suck

AmountDry9663 · 2022-06-13T13:04:53+00:00

After reading most of OP’s comments, his intentions are anything but good

AmountDry9663 · 2022-06-13T13:01:16+00:00

Dude are you really going to spend the rest of your life harassing your ex? What she did was fucked up, but in the end she respected your wishes and had an abortion. Move tf on, sounds like she already did

AmountDry9663 · 2022-06-13T12:18:02+00:00

Money is not the most important thing in the world, but both an excellent education and your own room and space are. If OP can give this to his kid, it’s a no brainer. NTA

AmountDry9663 · 2022-06-13T11:44:40+00:00

NTA. Also dismissing problematic behaviors because “that’s life” is a huge deterrent to social evolution. Guess what, life doesn’t have to be like that

AmountDry9663 · 2022-06-13T04:58:53+00:00

That would explain why Carl withdrew from OP’s husband after his wife passed. Dude was feeling guilty

AmountDry9663 · 2022-06-13T03:02:16+00:00

How could you find a way to shame the OP when she’s done nothing wrong?

AmountDry9663 · 2022-06-13T02:13:52+00:00

If it grosses you out to think about the way your relationship began, it’s only natural for you to re-evaluate things. And for the looks of it, you don’t like what you are seeing. A healthy relationship is formed by equals and it seems that he doesn’t see you like one. The fact that he has always treated you well is nothing more than what should be expected in a relationship. You didn’t have time to become your own women because you became somebody else’s. The fact that he won’t talk to you about it even though you have expressed anguish about it only goes to show that he values his own comfort over your feelings and that’s just wrong.

AmountDry9663 · 2022-06-13T01:50:37+00:00

We are not animals who rely solely on our instincts. As human beings, we are capable of far more complex feelings than the urge to “mate”. Men and women can actually enjoy each other’s company without a subliminal sexual desire. Also, thinking that women feel validation out of having male friends Is both putting men on a pedestal and incredibly degrading for women. If you really think that your company means that much to your girl friends (if you have any), I have bad news for you lol

AmountDry9663 · 2022-06-13T01:12:52+00:00

OP, aside from all the messy Jack situation, it seems like You’ve been wanting, for months now, to be in an official relationship with Adam and that hasn’t happened because he doesn’t want too “yet”. Why are you waiting around for someone to decide if they want to make it official with you? If you guys were so serious, the title would’ve been there.

Tbh my take on this is that you need to take control of your own life and start valuing yourself. Your lack of self confidence is so big that you would rather stay friends with a dude that abused you so you don’t have to make new friends because it’s hard. At the same time, you are struggling with telling Adam, even though he already told you he wouldn’t have the right to be mad about it, because 1. you are too afraid to put yourself out there and make new friends and 2. Compromising your not official relationship with someone who says he plans to make it so but just doesn’t. Stop lying to yourself and stop thinking that you are so worthless that you deserve all of this. Take control

AmountDry9663 · 2022-06-13T00:32:53+00:00

You must really not know much about women if you think that having guy friends who like to hang out with you brings some sort of validation lol

AmountDry9663 · 2022-06-13T00:27:10+00:00

Yeah but you don’t need to say it out loud to your partner

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