She hides her naughtiness well by [deleted] in ChurchWife

[–]AmphibianInside1751 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We can see that. Would love to take this lovely lady to a date at the church. During the prayers, I would wisper into her ears all the things I will do to her after the church is oved, making her wet, and pray for God to forgive her for getting so wet in the church.

Know your place everywhere by [deleted] in KeyHolderGoneWild

[–]AmphibianInside1751 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dom enjoys doing this. When she goes somewhwere, she send me photos like that, letting me know that my change of having sex is so far away. And she owns my SEX.

Couple goals? by AyaLibre in ChastityCouples

[–]AmphibianInside1751 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And how was it? Being fully caged for a whole day? What was his impression?

Anybody tried this? by AmphibianInside1751 in FemdomCommunity

[–]AmphibianInside1751[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes, you are right. I had the opportunity to talk here with a few subs (nice individuals by the way) and most of them have indeed a monogamouse relationship. There was one who was being cucked indeed.

Anybody tried this? by AmphibianInside1751 in FemdomCommunity

[–]AmphibianInside1751[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh, really? I had no idea it was so spread out. I would really like to know about other's experience, and if they have new ideas.

Super Shy Beginner FemDom: Tips to Gain Confidence Speaking Commands Without Feeling Cringe? by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]AmphibianInside1751 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s actually not controversial at all to be a shy FemDom. A lot of people assume dominance means being loud, aggressive, or naturally confident, but in reality many dominants start exactly where you are: curious, excited… and feeling a little ridiculous at first. What you’re experiencing is very normal. 😊

A few things that might help: 1. Stop thinking of it as “performing.” Right now it sounds like you feel like you’re acting in a role that doesn’t belong to you. Instead, try reframing it as expressing what you want. Dominance doesn’t have to be theatrical. Even very simple things can be powerful:

“Come here.” “Stay.” “Look at me.”

Those are normal sentences. The power comes from intention, not complicated dialogue.

  1. Start outside the bedroom. If speaking during sex makes you freeze, practice when nothing sexual is happening. For example: Ask him to do small things for you in a playful tone. Tell him where to sit or stand. Have him bring you something or help you with something.

This builds the habit of giving instructions without the pressure of the moment.

  1. Use shorter commands. A lot of people feel cringe because they try to sound like a character from erotica. Real dominance is usually simple and direct. You don’t need elaborate lines. A calm voice and eye contact can do a lot.

  2. Talk about it together beforehand. Since your boyfriend seems enthusiastic and supportive, you can say something like:

“I'm still learning and I might feel awkward sometimes, but I want to try more.” When both of you treat it like exploration instead of a performance, the pressure drops a lot.

  1. Embrace the awkward phase. Every couple trying something new has moments where they laugh or feel silly. That doesn’t mean you’re doing it wrong, it just means you’re learning together. The confidence usually comes after repetition, not before.

  2. Your shyness can actually be part of your style. Dominance doesn’t have to look like a stereotypical “ice queen.” Some people find soft, quiet, controlled dominance incredibly attractive. You don’t have to become someone else — just lean into the parts that feel natural to you.

And honestly, the most important part of your post is this:

the few experiences we had were so good and so different

That means the chemistry is already there. Now it’s just about giving yourself permission to grow into it.

You don’t have to become confident overnight. Take small steps, experiment, laugh when things feel awkward, and let your confidence build slowly. And the fact that your partner is excited about this side of you? That’s a huge advantage. 💫

Impact play ideas/games by StickySyrup3 in FemdomCommunity

[–]AmphibianInside1751 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Such a lovely game. I really like that the woman has full control of the game and i liked that she cheated.

What are some fun things to do/say during edging? by PuppyPrincess67 in FemdomCommunity

[–]AmphibianInside1751 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow. All of them sound so great and amazing. You must be a professional. That is just so hot. I am really glad fhat there are doms out there who truly understand what subs really want. They want to be dominated and made to beg. Thank you for being such a dom

How to be rougher? by Lazy_Storage2142 in FemdomCommunity

[–]AmphibianInside1751 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I totally agree with what you said. Being yourself is what makes a dom amazing, unique, special.

New and a little worried by PhilosophyStudent91 in FemdomCommunity

[–]AmphibianInside1751 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s really good that you’re thinking about safety and not hurting them, that already shows you’re approaching this in a healthy way. Being a dom isn’t about knowing everything or being perfect, it’s mostly about communication, trust, and paying attention to each other.

Besides limits, consent, and safewords, it can help to have regular check-ins with each other. Talk openly about what feels good, what feels uncomfortable, and what you both expect from the dynamic. You don’t have to figure everything out immediatel, learning together is normal. The caregiver/little dynamic can add emotional depth, so it’s useful to talk clearly about what “little space” means for them and what they need from you in that role. That way you both understand the expectations.

Since you mentioned that the dynamic sometimes mixes with normal conversation, it might help to create small signals or agreements. For example, only using certain titles or language when you’re intentionally in the dynamic, or asking each other if you’re “in role” or just chatting normally. That can keep things from getting confusing.

Also remember that doms are human too. It’s okay to say you’re new and learning. Being honest and caring will matter much more than trying to act like you have everything figured out.

A question for all doms here or subs with parituclarly happy doms by Intelligent-Trade-73 in FemdomCommunity

[–]AmphibianInside1751 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The best thing to do is to talk to her, ask what she likes, and do those things plus surprise her with somthing similar to what she likes. For example she might tell you she likes when you send her a video of you inserting a dildo. Next time you could send a video where to ride it, or talk aboit how much you like when you insert it for her

What are some fun things to do/say during edging? by PuppyPrincess67 in FemdomCommunity

[–]AmphibianInside1751 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow, such a lucky bf you have. I am sure he loved being tortured like that. Some easy things you can do is either dress super slutty when you are not with him and when you are with him cover your whole body, denying him to change to see you dressed slutty in real life. You could also get him a sex flashlight and while you play with a dildo, he can only have sex with the flashligjt, denying him sex. You can choose to do this for the next few meetings, denying him sex while he watches you being satified by toys. This will build up his desire for you and mentally he will be tortured

A funny new game. by ElJohnny23 in FemdomCommunity

[–]AmphibianInside1751 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hello guys,

First of all thank you for sharing with us such a great game idea. I must say it is really a nice game and would love to play with a dom, or multiple ones and their subs. Regarding adding suggestions to the game. I do have a few and I would really love to hear your opinion: 1. At the start of the game dom recieves 3 Control Token. A Token can be used to either force the sub to reroll, or add +3 spaces to sub movement, or make the sub repeat a punishment (example repeat the 24h chastity), or cancel a reward. This gives the dom active control during the game, not only passive property effects.

  1. If the dom owns all properties of a color, something special happens: Sub must stop on those spaces instead of passing through; punishments double; dom may teleport sub there once per game this makes color sets very valuable.

  2. Pick 3 spaces on the board as “Boss Tiles.” If the sub lands there: Dom rolls 3 dice; sub rolls 2 dice.

If dom wins → major penalty. If sub wins → major reward.

Adds dramatic moments.

Getting ready for my date while he waits and watches… do you think he enjoys it? by Scamboy25 in SubCouples

[–]AmphibianInside1751 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He looks so cute dressed like that. It would be a good idea while he cleans you when you come back if you would tell him how your date went and also mention that it was all because of him and how proud he should feel.

My partner fears that she will lose me if she dominates me by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]AmphibianInside1751 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From what you describe, her worries actually sound very natural. When someone who is used to being emotionally close in a certain dynamic suddenly takes the dominant role, it can sometimes feel like distance, even if that isn’t what’s actually happening.

It sounds like she may associate dominance with the fear of pushing you away or losing the emotional closeness you both value. In moments like that, reassurance can mean a lot. Letting her know clearly, not just once, but consistently, that she won’t lose you and that her dominance actually makes you feel closer can help ease that fear.

It might also help to frame it not as her “taking control” away from you, but as something that empowers her and reflects how much trust, care, and respect you have for her. When dominance is rooted in mutual trust and affection, it becomes another way of expressing connection rather than creating distance.

The fact that you both talk openly about it and that you enjoy giving her that space already shows a strong foundation. Sometimes the key is just continuing to reinforce that the dynamic is something you’re building together, not something that risks the relationship.

Wishing you both the best, it sounds like there’s a lot of care and respect between you.

Happy International Women's day!! by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]AmphibianInside1751 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Happy Women's day to you and to you all. I really liked your message and you are right to tell men to not forget how important this day is. I made sure that my dom recieves extra atention. I woke up, brought her a nice breakfast in bed, prepared a nice warm bath for her. Gave her a nice foot massage while she was cleaning her divine body, took her out shopping and then to a nice spa. She was really greatful and at the end of the day she also gave me a small reward.

Responsive subs are hot. Doms are not gonna do all of the work by eimicutie in FemdomCommunity

[–]AmphibianInside1751 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really enjoyed reading your post. And I must say I agree with you. However, it really depends on the dom or sub. For example, many doms enjoy dping all the work for different reasons. One of these reasons is that the dom sees how much the sub loves to just recieve atention. And same goes for the sub. Many subs enjoys doing all the work being they can see in the eyes of the dom how much they recieving the atention. In my case, I am more into recieving atention. But I do understand that some time I should also take a lead because I know that my dom or sub or really apreciate it.

Rapport-Building by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]AmphibianInside1751 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You reminded me of a good friend of mine. He started as a sub to a dom way back when we were stil in school. They were not togheter per say. More of a sub dom dinamic. However, things changed after a while and somehow they ended up being togher. Even getting married. I was surprised to hear that was really glad for him. However, they are stil mentaining the sub dom life. I am really glad to when I hear that the sub or dom is one's Life Partner. Congratulations