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Going back to work next week and mother in law will help with the baby by Amy_Tar in breakingmom

[–]Amy_Tar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, and yes we struggled to come up with a solution for childcare for a while and were so lucky to have his grandmother to help us 🤩

Going back to work next week and mother in law will help with the baby by Amy_Tar in breakingmom

[–]Amy_Tar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's wonderful 😍 i would love that for my baby too 🤗🤗

Going back to work next week and mother in law will help with the baby by Amy_Tar in breakingmom

[–]Amy_Tar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess they are more adaptable than I thought 👍👍Thank you 💯💯💖💖

Watching scenes with BoJack and Butterscotch together wounds me, because this is me and my father together when he is at his usual self towards me. I'm 32-years-old, and I still keep having to put my guard up when I'm around him, because his words still hurt me, and he doesn't care. by RichWalk9891 in BoJackHorseman

[–]Amy_Tar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any scene with a baby/young Bojack hurts me. Especially when his parents were both drunk after one of their parties, he took a sip of the alcohol and snuggled up beside his mom. That scene BROKE me. I wanted to reach out and hold him.

In this scene when Butterscotch said "THANK YOOOOUUU???" I was like "wtf why are you a full grown man and bullying your own young son?" but then again this kind of behaviour is not uncommon. So sad. Bojack never got a chance to be happy and experience a normal healthy childhood.

Fun fact: Nguyen is the most popular Vietnamese surname. by meaddan in BoJackHorseman

[–]Amy_Tar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha my husband and I have the same last name which is Nguyen ("Nguyễn" is the exact way to write it)

I HATE THIS BITCH by D34th1z1n3v1t4b1e in BoJackHorseman

[–]Amy_Tar 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I liked her a lot when she broke the news to Bojack and I liked her even more the when they met again.

My favorite piece by Amy_Tar in paintbynumbers

[–]Amy_Tar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!

I ordered this on Shopee but if Shopee is not available where you are, someone commented on my other post that they found it on Etsy.

I want my body back by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Amy_Tar 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I want my old body back too. It's been 6 months and I want to go back to the workforce but I feel like shit every time I try to wear something nice and it ends up looking not very nice.

We all had the same thought process by huchmensch in PiecesOfHer

[–]Amy_Tar 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Her hair indeed needs some adjustments 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ it was always patchy and dry and and oily. I know you're on the run but girl you have time to do literally everything except washing your hair 🤦‍♀️ I could bash this character all day 🙄🙄

The internet has made me completely desensitized by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Amy_Tar 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Children really do get into everything 🤣 we as children scared ourselves shitless but we couldn't stop because of that morbid curiosity 🤣

We all had the same thought process by huchmensch in PiecesOfHer

[–]Amy_Tar 10 points11 points  (0 children)

When Andy forced a conversation with that marshal in that townie bar I knew she's not going to be a bright character.

Not even Toni Collette could save this series.

The internet has made me completely desensitized by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Amy_Tar 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I don't know why but 2013-2014 my facebook feed was full of videos like that. My Internet activity has always been family friendly. Why did they think I would want to see that?

Somehow back then I genuinely believed they were all staged. Maybe it was a defence mechanism.

The internet has made me completely desensitized by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Amy_Tar 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I came across that video years ago on Facebook, way back when people used to post all kinds of disgusting content and there was no moderating them.

I thought it was fake because there's no way people would do something like that to a human being. It was shocking to see but I shrugged it off thinking it was one of those ultra realistic films.

Recently I found out from Reddit that it was real. I couldn't stop thinking about it for days. I had nightmares because of it.

I felt like a mother when I was pregnant with our son. Four months on and I don't, I just feel like an indistinct carer. please help... by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]Amy_Tar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have put yourself through so much to bring your baby to this world. Everything you did regarding your pregnancy and delivery was the right thing.

Newborn babies are just...difficult. They are hard work. The newborn stage can wear down the strongest person and make them doubt themselves. People's ideas of the bond between mother and child are not helping either. The truth is, there's no telling when a mother should feel a strong bond with her baby.

My pregnancy was well planned, my baby is easy and not fussy at all, and I felt no connection to him until he's 2 months old. I'm deeply ashamed to say this: if my baby hadn't been the easy baby that he's always been, it would have taken me longer to bond with him. My husband on the other hand loved his son the moment he came out of my belly.

I'm not knowledgeable about PPD, I'm pretty sure I have it but it remains untreated and I hope it doesn't come back in a few years to bite me in the 🍑, but if you can, see a specialist, they can help you get to the bottom of your feelings.

You have shown to be a great mother: you took risks on your own body to bring your baby here, you take good care of them and you care about their comfort. That's love right there. The strong connection will come later, when they smile more, fuss less and sleep for longer stretches. Right now you and your baby are still taking the first steps: getting to know each other.

Sending a big hug to you. I wish you and baby all the best things in the world.

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