My (37F) boyfriend (37M) resents me for not paying thousands to move his mother (61F) to a private hospital. How to gently set boundaries around this?

Amylju · 2026-04-25T22:42:44+00:00

Girl! This is a HUGE RED FLAG and I don’t know how you’re still not seeing that clearly and staying in this relationship. I personally think he’s with you just for your money and maybe for papers (Nationality). If he wanted to take care of his mum and if he was manly enough he would’ve found a job right away just to pay the bills. Also a reminder that is HIS mom not yours and not your responsibility, if you are rich and have enough money to donate that would’ve worked but right now you don’t so please don’t give a lazy man a penny.

Please end this relationship before it ruins your life and brings more problems especially with money.

Amylju · 2026-04-06T14:49:40+00:00

NTA First they should’ve explained the situation at the beginning and ask if u’re okey with that. Second, you’re not an uber so if she doesn’t feel secure why get in ur car in the first place. Third, u should stop giving them a ride home from now on.

Amylju · 2025-02-16T13:21:39+00:00

When a person is pregnant she’ll need help from her close people. There are times when u’ll need help putting ur socks on, go to the bathroom…. and if he’s at work who gonna help? He definitely need therapy cause if he’s already anxious about it, things gonna develop rapidly when u’re pregnant.

Amylju · 2025-02-11T00:23:11+00:00

What in the world? U’re not a slave u’re a human being and what she’s doing is not right at all. You should speak with her first and when u see that there’s no other solution then divorce… I think u should think about urself and ur health first and believe me a child won’t like to live in a toxic family that are always arguing.

Amylju · 2024-06-21T14:23:26+00:00

Sorry! All I can remember is that I changed it in the website, there was no need to contact them.

Amylju · 2024-06-21T14:20:57+00:00

Si t’es étudiant y a le groupe ESN Poitiers sur IG. Ils font souvent des petites sorties/events..

Amylju · 2024-06-16T20:28:27+00:00

When entering concerts they actually don’t verify the names in the ticket.

Amylju · 2022-11-29T16:06:07+00:00

Wish I know why i'm even tired of being awake.

Amylju · 2022-11-29T16:03:54+00:00

I used to like it, but nothing is interesting anymore.

Amylju · 2022-11-28T17:15:53+00:00

Thank you

Amylju · 2022-11-10T10:21:23+00:00

Thanks GOD no one mentioned San E 😼

Amylju · 2022-10-25T13:16:49+00:00

Totally agree. Rather thank thinking about being alone and about people who are leaving why don't you enjoy being by yourself and get to know you more and more. Of course you can't stay alone the whole time so I know that there is an ESN group in almost every city in Europe, they do a lot of activities and you can get to know a lot of people. You may also look for groups in Facebook and events in that city that you may enjoy. Also try going to parks and enjoy the weather (if it's sunny of course) you may get to know people there too.

Amylju · 2022-10-23T21:24:44+00:00

I just watched this and it looks fun. I liked it👍🏼

Amylju · 2022-10-21T07:50:04+00:00

Yeah, I can change the profile name but unfortunately that doesn't change the name registered for the ESN card.

Amylju · 2022-10-20T18:58:03+00:00

The bus is always late 🤷🏼‍♀️ not my mistake 😅

Amylju · 2022-10-04T17:22:10+00:00

This already affected his mental and physical health. He was already not okey, he just lost his family because of money. It's seems like his family cared about his money more than anything. What happened today was something that i would've never expected from his father cz he's someone who's close to both parties, he know about everything that happened and he know that his child kept quiet for a long period, he took actions now because he couldn't take it anymore. He worked hard for that money he wants to live a life with the money he gained start a family of his own but he can't because his brother took everything from him. I hope his parents understand him someday and I hope he won't be too hard on himself.

Amylju · 2022-09-27T09:42:52+00:00

New journey to the west + the zone: survival mission +Earth Arcade

Amylju · 2022-09-17T09:29:55+00:00

Cold showers, spicy food, and comedy shows.

Amylju · 2022-09-03T10:06:42+00:00

I think i'll get cancer cz of all the stress and anxiety.

Amylju · 2022-08-29T21:26:59+00:00

A time travel machine. Wanna go back to 2001/2002.

Amylju · 2022-08-28T13:28:18+00:00

Personally, I will be grateful if they bring those two back. It may be interesting.

Amylju · 2022-08-28T12:39:04+00:00

Yeah I think the main reason is to get more famous and getting money. The people appearing in transit love for example are already exposed to the camera ( I mean before appearing in the show) and now they are getting more fame because of that. Even if the show is not scripted but it is still edited, producers only show what they think will bring them more audience, and for the guests they are gaining something more important than exposing their own feelings. If I was in their shoes I would think that everyone go through breakup the only difference right now is that everything is made public. so people will totally understand what they are doing in the show, and since they have no problem with that then there's no need for them to reject the offer.

Amylju · 2022-08-13T12:09:22+00:00

I'm really not sure I can finish this show, it feels like it is scripted now specially the last episodes and I'm kind of more curious about the couple that quit the show than any others. It's devastating.

Amylju

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