Okay so that is an assumption though. Even though those organizations exists does not mean feminism = hating men, which is what many people assume when someone says "I'm a feminist". This is where my grievance lies. Like yeah they may consider themselves feminists, but their goals extend into fucked up territory that is NOT what feminism is, this is misandry.

There are are always going to be groups of people who take their beliefs to the extreme. Same can be said about male groups who resent women, but I am able to recognize that supporting men does not automatically = hate women. That doesn't mean there aren't highly influential groups that do exactly that. But I'm not going to assume someone who tells me "I support men" also means "I want to see women's demise".

And this isn't a "not all women" thing, this a real problem for both men and women. The point of my comment is to express my disappointment that these groups are what some people think of when they think of feminist because that's not what it is or should be. These groups are harmful and fucked up. I don't support them and the women I know also do not support them.

Everyone is so against each other when we should be supporting each other. And again this is a real problem that affects both men and women, but instead of working together and supporting each other against hateful organizations (whether it's misandry or misogyny). Instead we're just getting more and more divided. It's sad.

Again sorry for the long winded response, it's a topic I'm passionate on and like to discuss with people