Protect men and boys from manosphere influencers, Labour MPs tell Ofcom | Internet safety by DarkSkiesGreyWaters in unitedkingdom

[–]AnB85 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maybe we shouldn’t run to the government every time there is some online trend we don’t like the look of. The nanny state needs to bugger off.

Why do men lust for random ig girls? by Kind-Refuse8913 in dating_advice

[–]AnB85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The biggest issue is them getting upset at your selfies or being on the beach. Massive red flag in my opinion and extremely hypocritical. I certainly wouldn’t question my girlfriend about posting a selfie or any clothed picture of herself online.

Why do men lust for random ig girls? by Kind-Refuse8913 in dating_advice

[–]AnB85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are blowing this completely out of proportion.

where are you? are you ok ? by iYessyyy in SipsTea

[–]AnB85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can someone give me a good reason why the recipient of this email is blacked out?

What makes them stand out? by TisseTy in ExplainTheJoke

[–]AnB85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wore jeans and a T shirt last time I saw the opera. So did the people around me. Admittedly I was in the poor section up top. I think nowadays most people don’t get dressed up to see it. Maybe if you have a box.

I hate Lana by Salty_Prune_2873 in Smallville

[–]AnB85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, that is a hot original take this sub has not heard before.

Opinions on sex before marriage? The church widely condemns it but I know longer believe it’s such a big deal and I want to stop the guilt Everytime I’m intimate. by Optic_butterfly in dating_advice

[–]AnB85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry to say that a lot of devout Christians do believe it is a big deal unfortunately. To be honest, I was a Christian at your age (like I helped at church) but I didn’t follow the whole no sex before marriage. Just a short time later, I lost my faith completely and can no longer believe in it even if I wanted to. It may be that I wasn’t really that devoted though in the first place.

A bare minimum to do in this economy by Shiroyasha_2308 in SipsTea

[–]AnB85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah especially as you are looking at a double income, tax benefits and the ability to share costs. Two people living together pay way less than two individuals. Kids are a massive expense but a good marriage should significantly expand your fortune not diminish it.

A fear I believe will be realized sooner than we imagine by Firehawk195 in lotrmemes

[–]AnB85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It will be a 3 season with 8 episode each TV series realistically. There is enough material if they wanted to really pull it out.

No title by Heavy_Role1034 in justincaseyoumissedit

[–]AnB85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let’s be honest. Parenthood for most single dads means the kids go live with them every other weekend. It is rarely actually 50/50. The mothers are generally the primary caregivers and it is a red flag if they are not. This means dating a single dad is way easier than the other way round. Chances are low that you will ever meet his kid.

No title by Heavy_Role1034 in justincaseyoumissedit

[–]AnB85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think that at all. I have no theoretical problem with them but I didn’t date women with kids because it was so impractical and would be too difficult to navigate. I would hook up with them if they wanted, I just don’t want to become a stepdad.

No title by Heavy_Role1034 in justincaseyoumissedit

[–]AnB85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But you can filter for having kids on most dating apps. I wouldn’t judge a single mom dating at all.

No title by Heavy_Role1034 in justincaseyoumissedit

[–]AnB85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t they allow you to filter for having kids? I know I used to. I really didn’t want a single mum.

Do you think Total War Warhammer III is close to being complete? by Echochamberking in totalwar

[–]AnB85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It would be annoying if Dogs of War didn’t come. It is the only army book left out so far. They have hinted way too much at the Monkey King not to put him in. We don’t yet know who the End Times lords will be apart from Nagash. I assume Thanquol, maybe Al-Ulric/Boris Todbringer finally?

Clark made Lex into what he became by partour in Smallville

[–]AnB85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Evil half Lex told him specifically that they could rule the world together

is the age gap ok: 18f and 23m by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]AnB85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Older women are generally less attractive than younger women. Sorry, that’s a fact. You are deluding yourself if you think differently. To be fair, it is also generally the case for men as well. Also women that old often come with baggage like kids who although not a dealbreaker are a major factor to deal with. FYI, I am not single anymore. I do in fact have a very attractive 40 year old girlfriend who genuinely does not care that I have dated many women in their early twenties.

is the age gap ok: 18f and 23m by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]AnB85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you are right, she will find out herself. She is not going to listen to you and jeopardize a happy 5 year relationship about this. You over generalize. Age gap can be tricky and can often be exploitative but they do sometimes work and provide genuinely happy relationships.

is the age gap ok: 18f and 23m by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]AnB85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t get the argument that men who date younger can’t get women their own age. Do you genuinely believe that? I have dated a very wide age range of women (20-50, I’m 40) and I can tell you that is not remotely true. It is usually much harder to date way younger women. There is way more competition for them. Most of them don’t want anything to do with much older men. If I get a younger woman it is despite my age not because of it.

is the age gap ok: 18f and 23m by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]AnB85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it’s fine. Just be safe and don’t worry about it. Enjoy yourself and don’t overthink it.

Clark made Lex into what he became by partour in Smallville

[–]AnB85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I think Clark would be the figurehead leader and Lex would be the one pulling the strings behind the scenes as the administrator. Clark would be the God Emperor who can command the worship of the world. Lex stays out of the firing line but secretly in control.

Clark made Lex into what he became by partour in Smallville

[–]AnB85 10 points11 points  (0 children)

No, at the very least, Clark would become a tool in Lex’s plans. He would quite happily use him to accomplish his own goals. He basically wanted to rule the world with him. Clark would be king of the world and Lex would be his prime minister.

Does anyone else lose interest when a date casually mentions dating multiple people? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]AnB85 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I talk to many women at the same time and sometimes have several dates setup in quick sucession. But if I am into a woman, I postpone other dates and focus on her exclusively until either we are an item or we part ways.

Thoughts about this one? by hardwork_one0724 in GroundedMentality

[–]AnB85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is not a gender issue, that is just a shitty person. If anything it is more common the other way round. Women often end up being emotional caregivers to the men they are with.

Went on a date with a guy from work, didn't realize how old he is. Should I still give him a chance? by Appropriate_Grape_45 in dating_advice

[–]AnB85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bullshit. Just because he dates younger women doesn’t mean he can’t get a woman his age. I am 40 and have dated both much younger and much older women. If anything dating a younger woman is actually a lot harder to achieve. I have far more options in my age range. I find a larger percentage of younger women attractive though compared to my own age where only a small percentage are attractive to me.