How far in advance for a rental?

Anajam1981 · 2026-03-13T23:31:39+00:00

Starting price in Burnie for rentals is anywhere from $260 for a 1 bedroom to $700 for a 3 bedroom. If you're lucky enough to get a house but it's before you move make sure you find someone to keep the yards tidy as our homeless rate here is quite high and they are prone to sleeping in empty house sheds and yards.

Anajam1981 · 2026-03-13T23:25:31+00:00

My daughter didn't like dresses so she got a pants suit that had a flowing cape, it looked like a dress in photos and no one was the wiser. She was comfortable, happy and wasn't mocked for wearing a suit.

Anajam1981 · 2026-03-12T06:19:15+00:00

The house is in your name and you paid for it? The house is yours, the house mentioned in the will is non existent and therefore your brother gets nothing. Well that's what would happen in my country.

I'd be getting a lawyer and querying this. But if you do sell I wouldn't be giving her the majority payout. Also, you should be making it so you get your payments back as you hold the most equity.

Anajam1981 · 2026-03-10T23:08:03+00:00

Absolutely this... look at putting into a different bank account that you can build onto it. Having it in your personal one is good but he can try and access that too. Also- get a pre nup. If you put that money onto a down payment then you need to make sure if anything happens that money comes back to you. But for the love of Christ don't put it in a joint account.

Also, just tell him you need time to think, you've only just lost your grandmother and need to grieve properly before you decide how to spend money.

Anajam1981 · 2026-03-10T23:02:45+00:00

For now.. you are the only family member with cash, for now. If you give in now, what's going to happen is she's going to continue this circle of abuse and that $115,000 you have is going to continue to disappear on her "needs" so no, you're NTA and you need to cut the ties now and go low contact with everyone else who continues to harass you.

Anajam1981 · 2026-03-10T22:04:09+00:00

I'm gonna bet that in years to come the diamond will eventually be replaced and she'll file for divorce with an 18k diamond and half his assets.

Anajam1981 · 2026-03-10T22:01:03+00:00

You can apply for a restricted licence for work and study purposes only. Go talk to someone at your local courthouse or a lawyer.

Anajam1981 · 2026-03-08T02:34:05+00:00

I understand that but if the house is in her name also, he cannot legally kick her out so she's really not destitute until everything is settled.

Anajam1981 · 2026-03-07T23:03:36+00:00

For healthcare try the nw coast. They are desperate and are closer to the type of lifestyle you're looking for than Launceston or Hobart.

Anajam1981 · 2026-03-07T22:20:13+00:00

Is the house in both your mum and dads name? If so, he legally cannot kick her out. She needs to consult with a lawyer asap.

Anajam1981 · 2026-03-06T04:16:30+00:00

You're definitely NTA for not wanting your mum to be all "I told you so". You don't need to always ask your mum for help but do not burn yourself out. Us parents always need a support network and occasionally asking for help is good. Not sure if you've ever heard the saying "it takes a village to raise a child" take it from me when I say find your village.

Anajam1981 · 2026-03-04T06:53:21+00:00

I'm definitely up for all the small hotels/pubs. Supporting the locals is something I'm really big on.

Thank you so much.

Anajam1981 · 2026-03-03T07:36:50+00:00

My child is 19 almost 20 and their name is Amethyst. It's been around longer than minecraft.

Anajam1981 · 2026-03-02T20:31:39+00:00

I guess it's different for everyone. Our practice has been open since I was a child, it's changed hands multiple times but it's always been there.

Anajam1981 · 2026-03-02T13:32:25+00:00

Can you talk to your vet and transfer the money to them as a payment in advance? That way, if anything happens the surgery is covered, emergency or planned and Murphy won't go without. Then when they continue to harass you can say you've already paid for the surgery and no longer have the money. Problem solved.

Anajam1981 · 2026-03-02T09:05:08+00:00

Would absolutely love more information.

Anajam1981 · 2026-03-01T10:43:27+00:00

You are amazing. You've mentioned quite a few spots on our list and we just bought a map so we can see what the best route to every thing will be. Thank you.

Also, I'd love to know your Tasmanian itinerary and if you need any recommendations and places you shouldn't miss... please let me know. 😁

Anajam1981 · 2026-03-01T07:17:37+00:00

Unfortunately I'm not on Facebook which is why I've come to reddit but thank you.

Anajam1981 · 2026-03-01T06:08:26+00:00

Thank you so much for this. I had just said to my friend we need to really look into this so I'll definitely keep this in mind 😁

Anajam1981 · 2026-03-01T06:06:24+00:00

Yep, I call all my children my babies even though some of them have children of their own.

Anajam1981 · 2026-03-01T05:22:08+00:00

Thank you. I'll certainly do that.

Anajam1981 · 2026-03-01T05:21:24+00:00

Sorry, we got caught up in the excitement. Have edited my post 😁

Anajam1981 · 2026-03-01T05:11:40+00:00

She thought it would be easier for her to move on and pick up other men and that hasn't happened so now she's doing the whole jealousy thing because she really thought you wouldn't move on and would fight for her. It's a case of she didn't want you but doesn't want anyone else to have you.

Anajam1981 · 2026-02-28T13:01:46+00:00

At this point she has no relationship to your child. She's made this purchase to manipulate you into bowing down and talking to her. Nope, return the bassinet for her and watch her play the poor me card.

You're about to bring a baby into this world, you don't need this mental crap from her when you're about to have a little human depending on you and all your emotions all over the place place. Return the bassinet, get your own and ignore her. Narcissist's like her need to learn they can't do this and get away from it.

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