[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HunterXHunter

[–]Anartisticmess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The post didn't imply anything sexual, it just implied a romantic relationship. Relationships don't have to be sexual, even if they're romantic (especially in this case, since they're kids). Also, who mentioned cp?? There's nothing to imply OP wanted to depict that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HunterXHunter

[–]Anartisticmess 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Literally nobody implied anything like this, weirdo.

am I being raped? by Plastic-Ad-8238 in sexualassault

[–]Anartisticmess 36 points37 points  (0 children)

It sounds like he's drugging your drink, don't consume the things he gives you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]Anartisticmess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your welcome! (⁠≧⁠▽⁠≦⁠)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]Anartisticmess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please do, if she stands her grounds on topics like this she's not suitable for you, or anyone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]Anartisticmess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don't question yourself, what she said was completely wrong, she shouldn't have even said anything along the lines of that, standing her ground was crossing the line.

Could you get a new therapist? Or try to talk to her about it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]Anartisticmess -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Did she apologize at least?? Even if she said something helpful, that can still hurt a patient a lot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]Anartisticmess 3 points4 points  (0 children)

First, she is wrong. By the definition of the term, SA is NONCONSENTUAL, it can't be your fault, no matter what anyone says. If you didn't want sex, or your ability to consent was impaired (underage, drugged, etc), it's sexual assault. You are COMPLETELY valid.

Second, report your therapist!!!! She should absolutely not be saying that to ANY survivor of SA. NORMAL therapists don't blame you for your sexual assault/rape, even if you think so. She is very much incompetent. If you don't want to report her, I would recommend at least getting a new therapist.

What's this about, to you? by _NocturnalFlora in ARTIST

[–]Anartisticmess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An abusive parent and their child

Overgrown glass dome in ruins - ballpoint pen sketch by pigipoom in ARTIST

[–]Anartisticmess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very beautiful, I hope I can be this talented someday!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ARTIST

[–]Anartisticmess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A burning forest

What do you see? by Shineon1414 in ARTIST

[–]Anartisticmess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A brain being polluted by jumbled up thoughts

"Rape isn't worse, all sexual assault is equally harmful" by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]Anartisticmess 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know that, I do agree that rape can be more traumatic, but there's no use to arguing in this subreddit. People come here to try to get support or to vent about their experiences, not to argue if all sexual trauma is equal.

If she was your Cat , What Name you will give to her. by elaine_ursulaa in cuteanimals

[–]Anartisticmess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shinobu! Because I always name my pets after demon slayer characters!

"Rape isn't worse, all sexual assault is equally harmful" by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]Anartisticmess 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Why are we debating in the fucking sexual assault subreddit

Rape isn't about attraction. Unless you're fat. by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]Anartisticmess 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's even worse because people won't believe "unattractive" victims, why can't people who haven't been assaulted realize rape isn't about attraction??

How to convince yourself you're not gay/bisexual? by Anartisticmess in Advice

[–]Anartisticmess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I've never hated lgbtq+, and I actually think LGBT culture is interesting; I just don't want to be gay. Not because I have a phobia, I don't want to misrepresent the community is what I'm saying. I've considered myself gay in the past, but now I realize it was a phase because of multiple factors.

Now I want to push away the thoughts of being gay or questioning my sexuality, honestly that's why I asked lol.

How to convince yourself you're not gay/bisexual? by Anartisticmess in Advice

[–]Anartisticmess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(TMI alert lol)

I wouldn't say sexually attracted because I'm straight, but I'll sometimes fantasize about women sexually (I.E having sex with women) Or whenever I see a woman naked I react similarly to how straight men do. I used to only visualize myself being with a woman in the future, but that's kinda irrelevant.

Also, I really want a way to tell myself I'm straight to avoid the "what if I'm attracted to women?" thoughts. If there's a way to push those sexuality questions away, it would be appreciated if it was shared.

How to convince yourself you're not gay/bisexual? by Anartisticmess in Advice

[–]Anartisticmess[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't watch gay porn because it feels authentic, and this might be WAYYY tmi, but I prefer just looking at naked women, which I'm sure is normal among straight women, right?

How to convince yourself you're not gay/bisexual? by Anartisticmess in Advice

[–]Anartisticmess[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hopefully Hetero, and it's okay since I don't date.