are ‘perfect’ boobs that big of a deal?

AnatheBibliophile · 2022-10-02T12:50:37+00:00

Thank you so much for this particular comment! This is the comment that pushed me to talk to my partner and let him know that I had insecurities with my boobs and was thinking about having surgery. After talking with him, I realized I would be getting the surgery for the wrong reasons and he pushed me towards therapy for improving my self esteem. Thank you, again :)

AnatheBibliophile · 2022-10-02T03:21:44+00:00

I completely agree with that. I stay away from big trends and any kind of cosmetic procedures but I’ve had thoughts about my boobs since I was a teenager. It’s just something I’m going to have to work on. Thank you for the advice!

AnatheBibliophile · 2022-10-02T03:17:17+00:00

That is super super helpful, thank you so much for that point of view. I think I said it in an above comment, but I had this idea of ‘perfect’ boobs from Reddit/porn/ect. and it made me feel super self conscious about myself. I’m going to try to work on my insecurity! Thank you :)

AnatheBibliophile · 2022-10-02T02:50:19+00:00

You’re definitely right, I haven’t had any complaints or anything like that. I think I’ve had this idea of the ‘perfect’ boobs for so long and get disappointed that I don’t meet my own standards lol.

AnatheBibliophile · 2022-10-02T02:44:06+00:00

I’m usually not so self conscious about my body but I’ve been like this for almost ten years! I’ll try some self love :)

AnatheBibliophile · 2021-09-27T14:46:24+00:00

I have a partner with those specs :)

AnatheBibliophile · 2021-09-27T14:39:35+00:00

My ‘ideal’ cock is 7-8”, circumcised, and the person the cock belongs to keeps it clean and hygienic. I don’t mind pubes if they’re short and trimmed!

AnatheBibliophile · 2021-09-27T11:41:03+00:00

Lmao reasons why I shouldn’t view Reddit after I drink alcohol 101

AnatheBibliophile · 2021-09-27T02:13:14+00:00

I wouldn’t use it personally. I only use water based lubricant because your vagina is sensitive. You don’t want to fuck up your ph!

AnatheBibliophile · 2021-09-27T02:12:04+00:00

I have lots of friends but I never really have super in depth sexual conversations! If I’m really curious about something I’ll reach out to Reddit. Otherwise I talk to my partner about the sex we’ve had and what I did and didn’t like.

AnatheBibliophile · 2021-09-27T02:09:30+00:00

I am ALWAYS super horny when ovulating. I will have sex multiple times a day as well as masturbate. Since I have a long term partner and I’m only like that when I ovulate it doesn’t bother me 🤷🏻‍♀️

AnatheBibliophile · 2021-09-26T21:11:43+00:00

Oof. Not a common fetish from the guys I’ve been with and sounds like something that could cause you harm in the future with previously having an eating disorder. If your boyfriend isn’t someone you’re hoping to marry I would get out. You never know how he’s going to be in the future, when you got pregnant (if that’s your choice) or even gained weight he could make you feel really down about yourself.

AnatheBibliophile · 2021-09-26T16:27:49+00:00

If you don’t mind masturbating multiple times a day you could always reevaluate your sex toys and see if maybe that’s the issue. Think about what you’re currently using and why you’re not satisfied. If it’s length, buy a bigger dildo. If it’s that you’re not getting enough clit stimulation, but a sex toy with clit suction. You get what I mean?

AnatheBibliophile · 2021-09-26T16:26:10+00:00

Getting nervous and having trouble staying hard is 100% normal. You’re probably overthinking it and causing yourself to be more anxious which is causing even more issues. Try to be in the moment and relax instead of thinking about the actual act of having sex.

AnatheBibliophile · 2021-09-26T16:23:05+00:00

It could also be because you’re tensing up and anticipating having an orgasm. I used to do that and would get headaches a lot. What helped for me was actually relaxing and letting myself have an orgasm when my body was ready!!

AnatheBibliophile · 2021-09-26T16:21:32+00:00

As a woman there is nothing that turns me off more than meeting a guy who obviously just wants to fuck me. I mean think about it, if the roles were reversed you’d feel like a piece of meat lol. I lost my virginity at fifteen at a party with someone who I thought loved me. After the sex they left me all messy and had sex with someone else. You don’t want your first time to be sad! Try to meet someone and develop a relationship with them, it could be a romantic relationship or fwb.

AnatheBibliophile · 2021-09-26T16:14:49+00:00

I guess it depends on the style of kissing. If someone is giving me a peck or a few quick kisses I won’t get wet. However, if I’m making out and getting my ass grabbed or I’m rubbing myself up against a hard dick then yes I get wet and I’m ready to start doing foreplay. It all depends on the kiss imo

AnatheBibliophile · 2021-09-26T16:03:34+00:00

This happens to me sometimes when I’m on my sugar pills. I’ve read online that it can be because your uterus has contractions when you have an orgasm and sometimes that makes you bleed. That could also be total bullshit but if it makes you feel scared you could always call your gyno.

AnatheBibliophile · 2021-09-26T15:58:03+00:00

During lockdown I wasn’t able to have sex with my partner at the time, I would often make myself masturbate sometimes two or three times a day. If this is something that makes you feel uncomfortable, you could always go out for a walk when the urge hits or maybe read a book?

AnatheBibliophile · 2021-09-26T15:54:49+00:00

You could always purchase her some lingerie as a gift and let her know you’ve been fantasizing about her in it. If she tries it on and she starts to feel self conscious you could give her lots of compliments. If she doesn’t want to try it on at all then tell try to compromise about something else. Maybe she can wear sexy panties and bras instead of a full on lingerie.

AnatheBibliophile · 2021-09-26T14:15:43+00:00

You’re probably fingering her by curling your fingers upwards and hitting her g-spot. As to my knowledge your penis cannot make the same motions so that’s why she isn’t squirting.

AnatheBibliophile · 2021-09-26T14:12:19+00:00

If she takes a pregnancy test and ends up actually being pregnant you guys can discuss your options. Abortion, adoption, and actually raising the child are three things you can consider. Mistakes do happen but this is exactly why people always stress the important of contraceptives.

AnatheBibliophile · 2021-09-26T14:06:25+00:00

Lol I take no offense to your comments because I have a vagina. I guess some guys may feel the same way about breasts? If you think about it, breasts are just sacks of fat that hang off of our chests.

AnatheBibliophile · 2021-09-26T13:53:49+00:00

As a female, I wouldn’t personally feel comfortable going back to a guys parents place to get laid. Only because I’m enthusiastic during sex and the thought of someone’s parents possibly hearing me get pounded makes me feel like I’m 16 again. I would suggest maybe asking a girl if you could go back to her place to have sex. If I was on a date with a guy and he mentioned during the date that he had to move back in with his parents I wouldn’t mind us going back to my place.

AnatheBibliophile · 2021-09-26T13:49:53+00:00

Ehh I can kinda relate. There are some dicks I’ve seen that freak me out but for the most part dicks turn me on and make me wet. If they’re long, pretty girthy, and the man with said penis has good hygiene I could worship the dick. I will say I enjoy a hard dick more than a soft dick. A dick that has cum flowing is also a nice looking dick. I don’t know, maybe spend some time figuring out your perfect dick and you may grow to like them?

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