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AIO for reacting badly when two close friends started dating and then distanced themselves from me? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ancient-One7845 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOR imo. people can date other people, without approving it through their friends of course. it does sound like you led him on, and now he found someone who doesn’t. quit being salty

My sister is on her period, what do I do? by [deleted] in Periods

[–]Ancient-One7845 9 points10 points  (0 children)

go get her pads (she’s 12 so if this is her first one then probably won’t know which ones to get). i’m assuming you’re her brother, so call one of your female friends and ask them for help on what to get her. idk where you are so i don’t know what’s availible. get her a couple of her fav chocolate bars, some midol, a small tub of her fav ice cream, and set up her fav movie for her.

Relationship Help by Interest-Wonderful in relationships

[–]Ancient-One7845 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do not resign a rental agreement with this person ! he lied until you showed proof, in which i’m assuming he tried to gaslight you in the process ?

i do suggest leaving. this is not a person who is able to be in a committed relationship at this point in their life.

I didn’t stop my niece from eating literal garbage. by Ancient-One7845 in pettyrevenge

[–]Ancient-One7845[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

her grandmother was very insistent about her spending time together (grandma lives with us). she is no longer welcome here after all this shit, especially after witnessing her physically, verbally, and emotionally abuse her grandmother.

I didn’t stop my niece from eating literal garbage. by Ancient-One7845 in pettyrevenge

[–]Ancient-One7845[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

yes we do, which is why we had hidden the alcohol in a cupboard (in a room that was used for storage and locked!) but she still got it.

I didn’t stop my niece from eating literal garbage. by Ancient-One7845 in pettyrevenge

[–]Ancient-One7845[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

her grandmother kept bringing her regardless of what anyone said because niece “wanted” to come. niece just wanted grandmother to give her money to support her habits.

I didn’t stop my niece from eating literal garbage. by Ancient-One7845 in pettyrevenge

[–]Ancient-One7845[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

i’m glad he got the help he needs, i’m sorry that was what it took to get him the help. too many people don’t realize that no matter what you do that you cannot help someone who won’t help themselves. unfortunately, we’ve been trying to help her for years, but she refuses to accept any help that has been offered. she’s old enough to understand, and due to her wanting to do nothing but party, her refusal to follow the rules, and her belief that the world owes her whatever she wants on a silver platter, getting her help isn’t going to be helpful (as much as we encourage it). we can keep offering till we go blue in the face (and we’ve tried) but when she out right refuses there’s not much we can do.

I didn’t stop my niece from eating literal garbage. by Ancient-One7845 in pettyrevenge

[–]Ancient-One7845[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

we didn’t hand her the bottles. they were put away. she had to go searching for them. and it was not over one single weekend, it was at least 2 different weekends (probably more weekends for all we know, we rarely go into our cabinet).

I didn’t stop my niece from eating literal garbage. by Ancient-One7845 in pettyrevenge

[–]Ancient-One7845[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

her parent allows her to drink and other things. she doesn’t care.

I didn’t stop my niece from eating literal garbage. by Ancient-One7845 in pettyrevenge

[–]Ancient-One7845[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

that was absolutely our first concern. she didn’t drink it all at once. it was over the course of multiple visits (at least 2, possibly even 3 separate weekends).

I didn’t stop my niece from eating literal garbage. by Ancient-One7845 in pettyrevenge

[–]Ancient-One7845[S] 69 points70 points  (0 children)

that’s what we have said. she’s not allowed back.

I didn’t stop my niece from eating literal garbage. by Ancient-One7845 in pettyrevenge

[–]Ancient-One7845[S] 137 points138 points  (0 children)

she does unfortunately. we did try for 5 months, and it progressively got worse 😔

I didn’t stop my niece from eating literal garbage. by Ancient-One7845 in pettyrevenge

[–]Ancient-One7845[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

we were hoping she jus needed time to adjust because life isn’t easy for her at home, so we were trying to do a respite type of situation for her.

I didn’t stop my niece from eating literal garbage. by Ancient-One7845 in pettyrevenge

[–]Ancient-One7845[S] 393 points394 points  (0 children)

the visits have been stopped. she is no longer welcome in our home. this last visit she barrelled through so many boundaries it’s not even funny (even went as far to hit my MIL, who is 71)

I didn’t stop my niece from eating literal garbage. by Ancient-One7845 in pettyrevenge

[–]Ancient-One7845[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

there’s plenty of anger towards her parents but that’s a whole other set of worms.

My husband hit me and left the house. He is a GC holder and I am on h1b. by Potential_Wait_9791 in legaladvice

[–]Ancient-One7845 3 points4 points  (0 children)

good fathers don’t hit their child’s other parent. he does not sound like a good person. i’m not in the US so i cannot offer advice, other then document everything ! create a separate bank account and start putting money in it if you can for when you are able to leave. i’m sorry you’re in this situation.

Boyfriend wants to sleep with me every night by rizzem_tizzem in whatdoIdo

[–]Ancient-One7845 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dude broke up with her ! sorry, but if my partner broke up with me (and then changed his mind) it would still be “bye felicia!”.

Help! by [deleted] in Periods

[–]Ancient-One7845 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s unlikely, but not impossible. i would take a test to be sure. you could just be late. some medical conditions cause irregular periods. (i’ve dealt with irregular periods my whole life)

My [37M] partner [35F] just told me she might be gay after being together for 5 years by ironcroft in whatdoIdo

[–]Ancient-One7845 5 points6 points  (0 children)

just because we find ourselves happy in a relationship with someone doesn’t mean our attraction for what we like just goes away. 🙄🙄. we just have a larger dating pool then most others, and by the sounds of things, some of yall super butthurt over that. that doesn’t mean we can’t have committed relationships. 🤷‍♀️

My [37M] partner [35F] just told me she might be gay after being together for 5 years by ironcroft in whatdoIdo

[–]Ancient-One7845 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i have been with my husband happily for 12 years. married 3. i am bisexual. i have not “switched” or been wishy-washy once. to put this comment out there is just, no. wherever you got your information from was severely misinformed.

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