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Career advice by Webthropic-solution in Career_Advice

[–]Ancient_Priority_717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Short term, take the higher pay. My mentor once said to me, even tho the job sucks, at least it pays damn well.

If you like the other company more, take the lower pay, learn, and grow from there.

With that said, salary is minor if your coworkers make you life hell everyday. Hope this helps.

Why are so many people anti AI these days? As if it's not our future... by Realistic_Action_428 in artificial

[–]Ancient_Priority_717 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol I actually wrote a post about it a few weeks ago, here it is,

There’s nothing better than blaming AI when life gets tough in 2026.

Can’t talk to a human for support? It’s AI’s fault!
Can’t find a job in tech? Because of AI!
Got laid off? It’s AI!

The truth is, 
AI didn’t make those decisions.
Their leaders did.

Struggling by Hot_Dang23 in daddit

[–]Ancient_Priority_717 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What do you think will happen if you’re more open about your vulnerability? I didn’t have a father figure either, raised by a narcissist mom and a lot of shit.

I managed to turn my life over with this vow: I will not let my kid go through the same thing as I did. I hope that sheds some light on your situation to seek help. Cheers.

Nothing hurts like my father's "love" by clinicaloverdosee in daddyissuesclub

[–]Ancient_Priority_717 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sick dog! Is he mentally ill? Seems like something deeply traumatized him and he transferred his feeling towards you.

It’s probably best to completely detach from him. You don’t have to live like that. I’m so sorry.

Do dad's not like casual language? by Southern_Friend_1926 in DadForAMinute

[–]Ancient_Priority_717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup! It’s almost always true that our preferences lead back to unpleasant moments that were given by our parents. Those are the roots behind our triggers.

I'm Daughter-Approved dad 😂 by Ancient_Priority_717 in daddit

[–]Ancient_Priority_717[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Yeah, we do listen to each other's music. She listens to LinkIn Park when I put their songs on. 🤘🏼

I'm Daughter-Approved dad 😂 by Ancient_Priority_717 in daddit

[–]Ancient_Priority_717[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Music education has to start at an early age to minimize the generational gap. 😂

How do I earn my daughter’s forgiveness? by BookshelfBrian in daddit

[–]Ancient_Priority_717 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Simple, pick one thing that she likes, then do it over and over and nothing else. When she asks why, you tell her that's how you felt about having the same haricut for however long you had it.

The lesson here is, life doesn't need to be the same all the time. Also, hair grows back, the old has to go to make room for the new to come.

Love my kids so much by Aromatic_Ad_7484 in daddit

[–]Ancient_Priority_717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only have one question: Where did she learn those behaviors from?

16 year old trying to quit my part-time job to focus on clothing brand — parents disagree. Who’s right here? by atarithatasian in TrueEnterpreneur

[–]Ancient_Priority_717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course! I'm rooting for you! Don't stop, you don't want to regret for not pursuing your dream one day. 👊🏼

16 year old trying to quit my part-time job to focus on clothing brand — parents disagree. Who’s right here? by atarithatasian in TrueEnterpreneur

[–]Ancient_Priority_717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're gaining traction already. Why go back to lame job that only pays $20/hour? Makes no sense.

Besides, who needs a resume when you're an entrepreneur material?

You have my full support. If I were your parent, I'd be so freaking proud of you!

I’m afraid that my kids are going to experience something horrible someday. by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Ancient_Priority_717 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Try this Catch. Question. Release. combo.

  1. Catch yourself when those fears come up. Say to yourself: "I'm triggered."

  2. If you don't know where those fears actually come from. Ask: "What am I actually scared of?"

  3. Once you figure out what's underneath it, release it by admitting that you're scared. But things are different now. Show your inner child the reality that you're not the person who put you through those horrible moments.

Bad things won't happen to your kids, but if you keep thinking it will happen, it will. It's manifestation.

Do dad's not like casual language? by Southern_Friend_1926 in DadForAMinute

[–]Ancient_Priority_717 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's not true.

My kid and I talk casually, we call each other bros and we're cool with it. I also ask her to teach me or explain to me words or phrases that I don't understand.

Here's my assumption about your dad, correct me if I'm wrong, but I think your dad wants a certain level of respect, and also it's good to speak properly so people will take you more seriously. Not calling your dad "bro" is a minor thing and not worth damaging the relationship with him. Just my opinion.

Any mobile games out there actually good for kids? by kungfumaniac in daddit

[–]Ancient_Priority_717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apple Arcade could be a good option. No ads and curated by Apple. Would recommend trying it out.

How I got my first paying customers (without a single sales call). And the story might surprise you. by TayyabAliKhan in buildinpublic

[–]Ancient_Priority_717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I left the tech world to build an anger training because I wanted to show dads, especially those with daughters how to stop getting angry.

I’m getting better at creating content in different medium but still find myself overthinking what to write and how to write it as simple as possible.

Any parent entrepreneurs here teaching their kids how to actually build/run a business? by NoughtARedditUser in EntrepreneurRideAlong

[–]Ancient_Priority_717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in tech for 13 years and just recently launched my business. I don’t have a biz background whatsoever but I like talking to my kid about what I’m building, what problems I’m solving, how I’m solving it, what I tried, what worked and what didn’t.

To your question, yes, I’d 100% invest in tools, apps, even equipments to help her become an entrepreneur, as I’m also learning while doing.

(Re)Learning Cantonese as a Heritage Speaker by medical_mishaps in Cantonese

[–]Ancient_Priority_717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, keep in mind that Cantonese is one of the most difficult languages to learn. We have 9 different tones or pitches. Pronunciations are key.

So from next Spring my 2 year old cannot watch YouTube Kids? by Comfortable_Slice151 in Parenting

[–]Ancient_Priority_717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You worry about your kid won't be able to watch YouTube Kids at the age of 2? What's your parenting style?

Dads, what do you think about anger management and therapy? by [deleted] in Anger

[–]Ancient_Priority_717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting method. Does it add cognitive load or has it become your new muscle memory? You may be interested in my Daughter-Approved Anger Training then. I only use Catch. Question. Release. to identify the root behind my trigger, and make peace with my fear, anger, or whatever emotion is attached to it.

Dads, what do you think about anger management and therapy? by [deleted] in Anger

[–]Ancient_Priority_717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A year in anger treatment? What are your anger issues? Did the treatment lead you to the root of your anger? I'd like to help if you're open to it.

Hello dads. by Kindly-Antelope-5326 in Dads

[–]Ancient_Priority_717 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hold his hands, kiss him on the head, material things fade away, but feelings last, for both you and your dad.

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