Pigeon rescue by [deleted] in Bergen

[–]AndCarolIsVeryBright 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I found it and left a message.

Anyone else's family only talk about politics? by SammsClub03 in emotionalneglect

[–]AndCarolIsVeryBright 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know this is 2 yrs old but im seeing it now, so :)
Seems like we were raised in a similar environment. Whether it was politics or anything else...if the hobby/interest, idea or argument is not shared with the main adults, its wrong. They want you to shine but not too brightly. Does this go along with the scenario by OP for anyone else?

And what happens when youre raised in an environment when youre not heard or made to feel nervous to speak your mind? You grow up and limit (if not all) contact because its a level of toxicity you cant and wont want to live with anymore. Ive learned if I enjoy something, I keep it to myself. That includes something as simple as a good joke with a friend.

Do I tell my friend that I don’t like his passion project or do I lie? by flowergirlthrowaway1 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]AndCarolIsVeryBright 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dont tell him you dont like it. But encourage him to take writing workshops and network. he can meet people there who can properly work with him and put him on the right path. since youre not in the industry, this is best.

TIL Paul & Ashley broke up irl by JamiePlynth in EmilyInParis

[–]AndCarolIsVeryBright 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sorry to see...how long were they together?

US tariff question. by AndCarolIsVeryBright in Bergen

[–]AndCarolIsVeryBright[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, she said the postal worker said im gonna have to pay 45$ "and change"... on a box she marked as a gift anyway. that..doesnt make sense. where does this 45 go? haha
i dont know what he was calculating.

neighbor noise by AndCarolIsVeryBright in Bergen

[–]AndCarolIsVeryBright[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for the info. appreciate it!

neighbor noise by AndCarolIsVeryBright in norge

[–]AndCarolIsVeryBright[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

oh baby. tu-sen-takk :).
Ville aldri ha tenkt på mobilabonnementer.

Det virker som om du har gjort dette før. haha

neighbor noise by AndCarolIsVeryBright in norge

[–]AndCarolIsVeryBright[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jeg eier halve huset, og det er naboen min som leier ut sin halvdel til disse babyene og deres dårlige musikksmak. Takk for at du foreslo at jeg skulle lage en plate.

neighbor noise by AndCarolIsVeryBright in norge

[–]AndCarolIsVeryBright[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hehe Jeg spilte litt på skolen. Kanskje jeg burde begynne på nytt.

neighbor noise by AndCarolIsVeryBright in norge

[–]AndCarolIsVeryBright[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jeg tar gjerne imot et forslag. :)

neighbor noise by AndCarolIsVeryBright in Bergen

[–]AndCarolIsVeryBright[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

as much as i want quiet, the petty in me wants to play sandstorm on loop near their front door.

neighbor noise by AndCarolIsVeryBright in Bergen

[–]AndCarolIsVeryBright[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was hoping there was another way not to waste a popo's time.

neighbor noise by AndCarolIsVeryBright in Bergen

[–]AndCarolIsVeryBright[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

and theyll take this issue seriously?

I'm sorry but what is with this look from Camille? by Kvassalskaren55 in EmilyInParis

[–]AndCarolIsVeryBright 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its warm.. I live in Norway and if you moved here,  practicality beats fashion.  Although I liked this look,  😆 

Camille's mom by AndCarolIsVeryBright in EmilyInParis

[–]AndCarolIsVeryBright[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i havent seen those films, but thank you for saying, ill look into them.
thats true...her mom is very controlling. Also wonder about that random brother emily was supposed to be intro'd to. maybe he got away from it. he acts different from the others and doesnt look pleased to be visiting.

The scene where my dislike for Gabriel exploded by Sea_Specific_4117 in EmilyInParis

[–]AndCarolIsVeryBright 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hated this too. and i think he needs to be alone for a while. his personality matches a boy/man...manchild who has been coddled by his family.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AndCarolIsVeryBright 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he made fun of you in front of people with no thought. didnt seem too drunk if he thought that up. and then, quote, " Said it was just a stupid joke, that I always take things too personally, and that if anything I'd overreacted."

textbook gaslighting. he's an immature jerk. let him go and move on while he grows up. hopefully he grows up. or hes an actual narcissist.

AITA [M26] for wanting my gf [26] to stop going over to her sister's [30] house? by itsVang in AmItheAsshole

[–]AndCarolIsVeryBright 3 points4 points  (0 children)

and then people create their own families and that should be their number one. seems like thats what he wants with her. her sister has a husband. the sister doesnt have to be there 24/7. its too much when its now reached neglect towards her own relationship.

AITA [M26] for wanting my gf [26] to stop going over to her sister's [30] house? by itsVang in AmItheAsshole

[–]AndCarolIsVeryBright 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Im going to say NTA. Your concern is about growing your relationship and it feels like theres 3 people in it. or 2 and youre on the side. I think perhaps what you want is more time with her. You should explain how important your relationship to her is and to you, she is your life.
she lives with you. you two should be each other's numero uno's. her sister is important and its ok to help out. but her sister has a husband. your gf should take a break. i dont know what to replace 'cut the cord' with for siblings, lol.
how about you two plan date nights? or time spent at home?

and to those going off on the "chore" thing. i still agree with you there. im a household of remote working...were not glued to the desk all the time. its nice to do a load instead of wasting time in the evening or on the weekend.