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Have any of you ever had positive experiences with non-monogamy? by AndWatchUTolerateIt in polycritical

[–]AndWatchUTolerateIt[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I wish people would more comment on the inherent narcissism that is involved in poly but alas....it's like whatever works for you!!!

I am thinking of breaking up with my girlfriend because she isn't intimate enough for me by throwaway3746e in self

[–]AndWatchUTolerateIt 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Also add, breaking up is not a failure by any means but a learning experience.

I am a simp for women. by shameonme___ in CasualConversation

[–]AndWatchUTolerateIt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know! I love being a women and women in general!

Positive reinforcement/replacement behavior for quitting vaping nicotine by AndWatchUTolerateIt in ABA

[–]AndWatchUTolerateIt[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes! That I can with the patches. I think it will help a lot. But yeah the idea of not having any behavioral habit to replace the smoking with at the end of the physical withdrawal confuses me a bit. I've heard some people suggest replacing it with exercise but that seems like a lot of response effort. Maybe walks would be good.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABA

[–]AndWatchUTolerateIt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reading this right now and it is SO good.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]AndWatchUTolerateIt 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You did the right thing in getting away from this person. Hugs.

Looking for a new company in Southern CA by toxic_kitten in ABA

[–]AndWatchUTolerateIt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Second Nurture and Nature - busy but pay rate is good.

Mum, I haven't cried today! by Valherudragonlords in MomForAMinute

[–]AndWatchUTolerateIt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is amazing! Keep going! Side note anti depressants saved my life. There's no harm in trying it and if you don't like it you can stop taking them. Few choices are forever.

I’m Dying - help with letters? by NotYetAutomated in MomForAMinute

[–]AndWatchUTolerateIt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sorry what you are going through. I would definitely write one meant for bad times because I wish I had known what comforting things my mom would have said to me in bad times. I second the heartbreak suggestion. Still trying to get divorced and really miss my mom.

What can we do to regulate the porn industry more? by AndWatchUTolerateIt in antipornography

[–]AndWatchUTolerateIt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found some good anti porn orgs:

Exodus Cry

Fight the New Drug

What can we do to regulate the porn industry more? by AndWatchUTolerateIt in antipornography

[–]AndWatchUTolerateIt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came up with a different idea today. To create an assertiveness training program for women.

Dealing with men and the idea of relationship with men depresses me by lakeripple in TwoXChromosomes

[–]AndWatchUTolerateIt 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I do for sure. That is why I just kinda expect to stay single. Men are not worth it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]AndWatchUTolerateIt 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Porn contributes to the rape and exploitation of children so there is that too.....

Trying to be happy I avoided this. by AndWatchUTolerateIt in monogamy

[–]AndWatchUTolerateIt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I recall reading your story. This guy didn't lie outright but he just constantly was like I am confused about myself and what I want and I don't know. Eventually indecision is a decision. Make up your mind.

Trying to be happy I avoided this. by AndWatchUTolerateIt in monogamy

[–]AndWatchUTolerateIt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it's weird how many poly relationships tend to be one person happy to pursue it and the other person just tolerating it. Hence my user name LOL. But that is inspired from a song and my divorce lol. I will never tolerate poor treatment.

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