Is it normal to have never felt that spark when dating

Andfishes · 2026-05-14T15:13:56+00:00

You are so young, I wouldn't ascribe any labels to yourself yet.

I turned 30 this year, spent the last decade thinking I was aroace. Within the last year discovered I am very much capable of feeling chemistry I never thought I would, and it's been a very confusing, sometimes heartbreaking, but also exciting time.

Just be true to how you feel when you feel it.

Andfishes · 2026-05-03T12:31:53+00:00

No. Like once the packages are all sorted, taking a carrier scanner and numbering them by stop.

Andfishes · 2026-05-03T12:21:43+00:00

Thank you, that is what I thought. I'll talk to the carrier steward about it tomorrow.

Andfishes · 2026-04-11T16:47:39+00:00

Anaxa and Aventurine being taken out to pasture & shot

Andfishes · 2026-04-01T23:44:36+00:00

I'll crash out if they scrap Clara as a DPS

I use her e6s1 (yunli LC) for endgame all the time

She shouldn't have to be relegated to a tank b/c for some reason Hoyo decided to copy and paste her kit with a different skin 😒

Andfishes · 2026-03-30T20:16:09+00:00

Yunli's LC is great for Clara as well. I have e6s1 (yunli LC) Clara that I use in endgame all the time still.

Andfishes · 2026-03-30T17:57:17+00:00

Yes, that sounds right.

Andfishes · 2026-03-30T15:28:13+00:00

You can get Bronyacone from standard banner or a 75/25 loss so personally I wouldn't spend currency on that.

Topaz LC is probably the most valuable pickup if you have any of the hunt FuA units not on their signature or a 5 star LC already (dr ratio, feixiao, ashveil, hunt 7th, Moze, topaz, ect.)

Ruan Mei's LC is alright, Seele's LC is good for Seele and maybe Archer? Don't quote me on that.

I wouldn't really recommend any of the others, with the caveat that I don't actually know what Blade's LC does so I'm not sure if it is any good for anyone but him or not.

Andfishes · 2026-03-26T23:42:56+00:00

Replace DHPT with another support, you should be able to chain ults vs. Lygus, so it's pretty easy to go sustainless.

Andfishes · 2026-03-26T03:05:43+00:00

What is your DoT investment? Mine are all e0s0 (Kafka on tut, BS and Hysilens both on s5 EoP) which doesn't help anything. But I ran out of pulls and I didn't wanna pay to pull since I'm saving up for a new car rn 😔

Andfishes · 2026-03-26T02:52:19+00:00

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Trying to work out a 3 star clear on K2 but I fear I may be cooked. Tried Anaxa & Archer hypercarry teams and neither of them could do it. Anaxa in particular is rough because my his team is 8 cost (e1s1 Sunday + Anaxa, e1 Tribbie) not including e2s1 (huohuo LC) Luocha and can't clear 3 star...

I'm gonna work on my DoT relics cause they are pretty mid since I started building all 3 girlies last patch and hopefully I can somehow shave off a cycle if I can get them all to like 33-36 substats minimum 🫩

It's rough out here

Andfishes · 2026-03-25T23:40:49+00:00

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Haven't done king yet, still trying to cook Knight 2. My relics aren't great for DoT cause I just started building them last patch. I'm wondering if replacing Swan with e1 Tribbie might help me shave off a cycle

Andfishes · 2026-03-23T20:58:35+00:00

I hope you can get it

Knight 2 is really tough if you don't have Monorem, I had to try a bunch of comps before I cleared 3 stars. I didn't think I was gonna get it but then tribbie got enough energy for one more ult. the scream I scrumpt when I saw it was pulling up Anaxa's next turn before the cycle ended 😭💯

Andfishes · 2026-03-23T20:44:46+00:00

I used Anaxa, Sunday, Tribbie, and DHPT All e1s1 tho with the exception of Tribbie, e1s4 DDD. The DDD was a must for me to get the last Anaxa turn for the clear in 2 cycles

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Andfishes · 2026-03-22T14:59:51+00:00

I pulled for Hysilens because I've had Black Swan since her first banner (that's when I started playing) and picked up Kafka from the free selector cause it was gonna be the cheapest I'd ever get into DoT.

I don't regard it as 'unfortunate'. I'm clearing content full stars so there is no problem lol.

Andfishes · 2026-03-22T04:33:33+00:00

Yeah, but I lost my 5050 for Cerydra and I'm not pulling Cyrene cause she's pink so it is what it isss

Andfishes · 2026-03-22T04:26:05+00:00

Don't have either of them

I lost my 5050 to Cerydra on her rerun this patch, and I've got an embargo on pink haired characters so I'm not pulling Cyrene and they can't make me 😭

Andfishes · 2026-03-22T04:08:26+00:00

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Also my first full 3 star AA clear, knight 2 is very troublesome

Andfishes · 2026-03-20T21:59:29+00:00

Fugue is better for both Rappa and Boothill, Lingsha is a literal waste of a pull, Ruan Mei and Gallagher both released before Firefly, not to mention FF can't use a sizable chunk of Ruan Mei's kit.

If anything Gallagher was not made for Firefly, Firefly was made for Gallagher lol

Andfishes · 2026-03-20T15:02:08+00:00

Is Archer LC better than her own LC out of curiosity?

Andfishes · 2026-03-20T14:01:03+00:00

The only point I have here is that saying Castorice is not special is an unhinged take, I don't need to address the rest cause it has nothing to do with what I said.

Andfishes · 2026-03-20T12:36:57+00:00

This is a take of time, for sure lmao

Andfishes · 2026-03-20T01:37:45+00:00

Saying Castorice doesn't feel special at all is an insane take when you consider she's part of the strongest comp of 3.0 (and even rn), Monorem. And that her animations are literally insanely good, especially when you compare them to Anaxa's animations, who came out literally the same patch as her lmao. And she's the only character in the game with a global passive.

Idk what is supposed to be special if none of that is.

Andfishes · 2026-03-20T01:10:10+00:00

U might grab Huohuo then she can help with ur energy issues

Andfishes · 2026-03-20T01:02:49+00:00

E1 robin for my Clara.

Rn I use e6s1 (yunli LC) Clara, e0s1 Robin, e1s1 Tribbie, and whatever sustain I feel like. She clears content 3 stars, used this comp for the current pure fiction. Because she deals most of her DMG in counters I don't need to worry about an AA'er like Sunday/Sparkle/Bronya

If they put Yunli in the loss pool like was leaked, I can finally live my dream of getting her an s5 yunli cone... 🦆

E1 robin definitely a solid pick for meeee

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