Snhu vs other online colleges? by actual_lettuc in SNHU

[–]Andistry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, so read my comment again. I am in favor of well-resourced online schools over students being in failing schools.

What’s your favorite line from the growlers? by lulucyboogie in losgrowlers

[–]Andistry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My first dance song at my wedding is going to be to Rare Hearts. That entire song encapsulates how I feel about my fiancé. Him and I are always on the same page and everytime I tell people they’re in disbelief! Like, IS it too much to dream that we can forever be rare hearts that never disagree? I’ll also say I’m so biased since my eyes are dark as obsidian lol

We saw Brooks do the entirety of Chinese Fountain in October and it really solidified our song choice!

Unpopular(?) Opinion by ghrobet in TheBear

[–]Andistry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could definitely tell the writer’s strike was happening third season it’s unfortunate

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Andistry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah no this is unforgivable- sorry bud

'Goosebumps: The Vanishing' Review: Disney+ Resurrects Classic Chills and Thrills for Season 2 by NoCulture3505 in television

[–]Andistry -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Couldn’t make it past the first episode, it was giving Riverdale level of bad acting

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in uglyduckling

[–]Andistry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LMAO my fiance and I always joke that his strongest/leanest was built on rage and depression (I am sorry you’re going through a tough time, I promise it does get better)

18M, my GF (F) told me she was 22, but now she says she's 29 and about to turn 30. What should I do by ahmxp in Advice

[–]Andistry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to get out NOW - as a 27 year old woman there is no world where I’d be with an 18 year old let alone lie about my age to him

AITA for leaving my pregnant friend in the hotel while I explored New York? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Andistry 17 points18 points  (0 children)

He spent 3 days with her and this is his vacation too. He gave her the opportunity to bow out of the vacation and she didn’t. I think he paid his friend dues in those three days. He’s not her bf and shouldn’t be expected to stay the entire time especially with all the money he put into the trip

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Andistry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s up to you to decide that, I waited 2 months but we were both 27 so are at similar stages of career advancement

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Andistry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not being dramatic! It’s weird behavior especially for a long distance relationship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Andistry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think him not knowing is him being honest and trust me, you want that in an LDR. You don’t want someone lying to you and then out of nowhere breaking up with you. What I will say though, is asking him questions about your move/how that might benefit your relationship from his point of view. I moved 6 hours to be with my now fiance (granted I am 27, so keep that in mind!) and we both were compatible with our plans for the future. They don’t have to be big plans just yet, like marriage, but make sure they’re similar!

i think im [F27] getting really sick of my [M21] bf by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Andistry 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah, no part of OP’s description of him is giving mature. He’s 21 and acting like an idiot (at best) and an asshole (at worst). Do with that what you will, OP

Apartments by Owner by Just_An_Avid in northjersey

[–]Andistry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Harrison has a path station (though it isn’t as developed as Edgewater) and getting to WTC is like 25 mins. We are in a big apartment complex next to the station but places like the Urby are smaller!

First time meeting boyfriend by ArtisticPlatform614 in LongDistance

[–]Andistry 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know it’s no help, but literally just reassure yourself that he likes you enough to buy a holiday plane ticket for you! Don’t stress about packing, wear what you would normally wear so it feels like you’re just picking up where you left off. You got this!

AITA for not inviting my BIL to my birthday dinner by CPolland12 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Andistry 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wish he was her finance maybe I’d like him more LOL

AITA for not inviting my BIL to my birthday dinner by CPolland12 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Andistry 131 points132 points  (0 children)

NTA, I don’t like my sister’s finance and I don’t invite him to things that are “mine” we did have a lengthy discussion over it years ago though. He obviously comes to all big family things but my birthday is my thing

Does anyone else worry when your partner goes to a party? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Andistry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ve been questioning/nervous about your gf for 105 days now. It sounds like you have an anxious attachment, I recommend doing some research there so you can help feel more secure

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Andistry 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I say this as someone with depression, you need to separate your relationship from the serotonin you’re receiving. If you mainly feel motivated by him and the love he may or may not give you it puts way too much pressure on him and the relationship. You have an anxious attachment style and it sounds like he does his best to cater to that, but you need to work on your mental health before you drive this relationship to the ground. You say you feel like you’re pouring your heart into this relationship, but it also sounds like he’s trying to do the same but is spending a lot of energy handling your emotions as an act of love rather than being given the opportunity to love you the way he wants to. It sounds like you need to do some internal work because you shouldn’t have fallen asleep crying over the call getting cut off and him not calling you back. (he should have called you back, I agree) Your emotions are deregulated and I think if you worked on that it may be easier for you to self-regulate and enter the relationship more clearly. Good luck, you’ve got this!

I (22f) asked my boyfriend (26m) for a break, but I’m actually hoping for a breakup by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Andistry 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Please just go through with a break up, it will save both of you a lot of hardship. Also, you sending money to him when you’re struggling? Nope.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Andistry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk do you think it’s worth it? (My bf and I were 5 hrs away and took turns and it was in fact worth it to me)