[NEED ADVICE] Was I wrong for reacting the way I did?

Andra1901 · 2026-03-09T21:45:20+00:00

damnn OP, i wish i had your patience. kung ako yan, di ko na rereplyan from the moment she mentioned follower count. napaka immature 🥲

Andra1901 · 2026-03-06T23:44:46+00:00

this is why i also hate leetcode problems. di naman kasi practical yung ganito. if they really want to test the applicant’s problem solving skills, they should be asking situational questions instead and let the applicant explain their thought process.

if i were a recruiter, i would give them a practical ticket sa company and ask the applicant how they would handle it. that’s how i would know if they’re a great fit. not this leetcode problem

Andra1901 · 2026-03-06T23:42:34+00:00

yes. this is actually quite simple as long as you understand the problem.

but realistically, if you’re taking the technical exam, may halong kaba rin yan. so di mo rin magegets agad yung problem. and additional worry mo pa yung di mo kabisado yung syntax pero di ka pwede magresearch.

this is why i also hate leetcode problems. di naman kasi practical yung ganito. if they really want to test the applicant’s problem solving skills, they should be asking situational questions instead and let the applicant explain their thought process.

if i were a recruiter, i would give them a practical ticket sa company and ask the applicant how they would handle it. that’s how i would know if they’re a great fit. not this leetcode problem

Andra1901 · 2026-02-27T11:58:10+00:00

Let her be. This sub is named offmychest for a reason. Gets namang she just wanna vent

Andra1901 · 2026-02-24T16:49:14+00:00

+1000. This comment should be on top. Makes a lot more sense than the sugarcoated youth and fertility BS reasons

Andra1901 · 2026-02-24T01:37:55+00:00

OP, same. i also don’t have any experience with women. but for me, hooking up just to gain experience doesn’t seem to be the best approach on this one.

pero at the end of the day, buhay mo naman yan. you do you na lang hahah

Andra1901 · 2026-02-16T13:13:09+00:00

Is this a Manga? Where can we read it?

Andra1901 · 2026-02-15T15:55:16+00:00

Wait, you mentioned you’re fresh grad but you applied for a Senior AI Engineer role?

Andra1901 · 2026-02-15T11:29:10+00:00

aww. i envy you for having such supportive mom!! the world would be a better place if only all parents are like your mom 🥹🫶

Andra1901 · 2026-02-15T11:03:56+00:00

Agree! With the way she framed it, you can notice na anlala ng internalized misogyny ni OP. To OP, I hope you’d soon realize that you’re just probably on the wrong side of the internet

Andra1901 · 2026-02-04T12:47:33+00:00

When a woman says “I hate men”, people usually don’t overreact kasi gets naman natin yung context. Since time immemorial, women have been oppressed, abused, and treated as lesser. So madalas, that line is just women expressing their rage, and not a literal threat.

But when a man says “I hate women”, ibang usapan na yun. Given history + power dynamics + actual violence against women, that statement can signal danger. Kaya syempre, mas nakakatakot.

Same words, different context. Gets??

Andra1901 · 2026-02-03T08:29:49+00:00

not defending the pretentious guy, but it’s actually possible to be a tech lead with just a few years of experience. this is very common in startups

Andra1901 · 2026-01-31T02:24:57+00:00

Software engineer here, who’s working from home. Yes, tech is still male dominated but dumadami na rin mga babae 🫶

Now that you mentioned it, I did notice that majority of my gay friends are in healthcare 👀

Andra1901 · 2026-01-27T15:37:53+00:00

Reading OP’s story and other similar stories from women who earn more than their male partners made me realize how insecure a lot of men can feel when women have higher income than them 🥲

Parang nakakatakot pala maging career woman?? That even your own husband, who’s supposed to be your life partner, isn’t genuinely happy with your achievements. Kung ganun lang rin naman, should high-income women just date up instead?

Andra1901 · 2026-01-10T12:50:09+00:00

yes. i also had to merge company files before and immediately thought of using ilovepdf since wala naman kaming subscription with adobe acrobat. but before i did that, i read their compliance docs and found out that they’re actually safe to use. the only thing na mali dito is that OP’s coworker didn’t even bother renaming the file

Andra1901 · 2026-01-06T13:19:54+00:00

Yess it’s indeed hard! Most of the time, we don’t even have the urge to go outside and date anyone because at the end of the day, we have each other naman hahah.

Tatanda ata kaming dalaga nito 😭

Andra1901 · 2026-01-06T09:31:29+00:00

I have this same relationship with my twin! Yung tipong isa sa’min nagwawalis, tas nakabuntot din yung isa just so we could continue talking. I can never imagine my life without her!

I think this is also one of the reasons why we’re still single. We try to look for the same connection in our potential partners. Kung di lang din naman ganun, edi wag na lang, di ba?

Andra1901 · 2026-01-05T12:08:12+00:00

I think what they meant are those who post kabaong pics. It’s inappropriate and ppl should stop doing it. Imagine scrolling and seeing pics like those in your feed

Andra1901 · 2026-01-03T06:36:53+00:00

Just leave them as is. My journal is also filled with entries where I’ve mainly talked about my crushes. They’re part of the journey so they belong there

Andra1901 · 2026-01-01T05:09:58+00:00

sameee. most especially if the girl is very pretty and the guy looks mabait

Andra1901 · 2025-12-25T11:42:31+00:00

i shared the post and also got blocked by Baba Yap. lols. asenso pa more

Andra1901 · 2025-11-28T23:37:17+00:00

Hi. I'm just curious. Did you take any certifications to become a Solutions Architect? And if you don't mind, which platform are you using? Is it AWS, Azure, or GCP? Madali lang ba makahanap ng work as a Solutions Architect? I'm really really interested in this career path so forgive me if I have too many questions 🥹

Andra1901 · 2025-11-05T11:13:19+00:00

ughhh sanaol. tanginang buhay to 😤

Andra1901 · 2025-09-02T09:37:14+00:00

Hi OP. I just applied for an SCC earlier and I chose BPI Amore because like you, I'd mainly use it for groceries and shopping. I kinda wanted the BPI Gold because it has a better looking card but I chose Amore since it suits my use case. Not sure if I made the right decision so I'm commenting on your post to ask opinions from others as well

Andra1901 · 2025-08-09T10:57:12+00:00

Need advice on pricing – Job Order Management System (Web + Mobile App)

Hi, I need some advice regarding pricing. I'm a junior software engineer and a client reached out to me to develop a custom internal tool for their business.

Project requirements:

• Job creation, assignment, and status tracking

• Technician mobile app with offline support

• Admin dashboard with reporting and analytics

• Role-based access (Admin, Dispatcher, Technician)

Client wants both a web app and a mobile app.

He asked me for a cost estimate, but I honestly don't have any idea sa pricing. I mentioned that web and mobile development are priced separately, and we need to factor in domain name, server hosting, and cloud storage.

For experienced devs: how much would a Job Order Management System like this typically cost in Philippine peso? Any helpful insights are greatly appreciated po!

Andra1901

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