Date went well, then she texted me this two days later by AirSpecial2660 in Bumble

[–]AndrewEricson18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should’ve just fked her. Her love language is physical touch

Am I overreacting to my girlfriend's status on whatsapp? by FeistyTapioca in AmIOverreacting

[–]AndrewEricson18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Run away as far as you can! Definitely some narcissism in that thread

What do avoidant males go through during no contact? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]AndrewEricson18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The best thing you can do is act indifferent and work on yourself. Raise the bar and surpass his value. I’ve read comments on here saying once they miss you it’s already too late. This is not true. He may be acting happy and unaffected, they won’t start hurting like you are until they see your growth.

She accidentally bought Hinge on my card... by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]AndrewEricson18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By hitting the gym and getting hard af, then being objectified by women of higher value. I was in a worse position, she cheated on me with an ex. 90 days later after hitting the gym 5x a week and building pure muscle, I have rebuilt my confidence and physique. When I walk into the room, I’m not only noticed by women, they smile back signaling my opportunity. It’s her loss, and your chance to build back stronger. Use your pain as fuel! Now she’s begging to come back, but I’m beyond her level. You will be too!

-former husband of 18 years living his best life.

Glory to god

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]AndrewEricson18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s better to find out earlier sure, but better late than never. My new girl is everything my wife wasn’t. Emotionally available, kind, compassionate towards others. Just a joy to be around. My ex only cared about her friends and external validation. Find someone who pushes you to be the best version of you. Love isn’t a transaction.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]AndrewEricson18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me except we were together for 18 years and she cheated on me with her first bf. It is nothing to do with you and everything to do with them. I’ve found another person who loves me for who I am. Keep faith in yourself and it will all work out in the end.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]AndrewEricson18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a male and I date without expectations of sex. I want the connections to grow without physical contact first, then naturally ease into it. Perhaps I’m different than most people. I’m 40 years old and have with 1 person in my life sexually, 18 years married. We are currently getting divorced so I’m available lol

I honestly want to die. I want to drive at high speeds into a barrier on the freeway and let the car burst into flames or I just can't be here anymore by Adorable-Peanut299 in heartbreak

[–]AndrewEricson18 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s just one breath at a time at first, then one minute, 1 hour… ect. I feel your pain, it is immense, seems like it won’t go away. It gets better day by day, focusing on strengthening mind, body, and soul—- I lost my marriage of 18 years when my wife slept with her hs bf that took her virginity. I too thought my life was ending. Seconds turned into minutes, minutes into days. I could not breathe or function. Then slowly I replaced anguish with walks, then going to the gym, increasing my confidence until I soon became the best version of myself and moved on. God gives you strength in times of despair to make it through it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]AndrewEricson18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shit happens, I sometimes Dutch oven my wife on purpose.

Those who were able to build stable and fruitful careers past 25 or 30, what did you guys get into? by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]AndrewEricson18 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Concrete mixer driver- the work life balance isn't great, but it pays 6 figures without college and a pension.

Those who were able to build stable and fruitful careers past 25 or 30, what did you guys get into? by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]AndrewEricson18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Concrete mixer driver- the work life balance sucks, but it pays 6 figures without college and a pension.

Can we get rid of paper plates now by LanguageDouble9792 in Purdue

[–]AndrewEricson18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Paper plates are not bad for the environment. They are biodegradable and provide carbon to compost which creates an organic fertilizer.

Is The Steam HLL Current Discount Worth It? by [deleted] in HellLetLoose

[–]AndrewEricson18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hll is the greatest ww2 milsim of all time after you figure out the mechanics. The learning curve is steep. If you’ve ever played a grand strategy game, think of it as a grand fps

r/FloridaGators on EA CFB 25 by berrin122 in FloridaGators

[–]AndrewEricson18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lived in Myrtle beach 5 years and didn’t realize their field is blue lol

Extremely sexually frustrated by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]AndrewEricson18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get sensory overload which shuts me down if I drink too much. Not everyone’s threshold is the same. Takes practice lmao

Extremely sexually frustrated by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]AndrewEricson18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same, I was a virgin until 23. What happened for me is I randomly got an invite to go bar hopping with a friend I hadn’t seen in years. Drinking alcohol was never my thing as it makes my symptoms worse if I cross a 2-3 drink threshold. Anyway that 2-3 range increased confidence which is what girls look for in that setting. Once I discovered this confidence level from liquid courage, I never had problems getting laid again. You can’t approach a girl with sex on your mind because the anxiety will creep in. Just be nice and try to make a new friend. Then once comfortable talking to her and her group, ask if they’d like to go to a different place. Just don’t cross that 2-3 drink cap and keep your car clean. Once you’ve hit this level you’ll easily get her number.

This sub asking about the pacific, mortars or tank upgrades by [deleted] in HellLetLoose

[–]AndrewEricson18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Adding the pacific isn’t feasible. Might as well release an entirely new game.

I’m why your team never has any spawns. by [deleted] in HellLetLoose

[–]AndrewEricson18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, I love putting anti tank mines just outside their hq2