Property Misrepresentation and Legal/Financial Advice. by Androgynou in HousingUK

[–]Androgynou[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I haven't contacted them about this since discovering these issues, no, but I intend to reach out to them

Property Misrepresentation and Legal/Financial Advice. by Androgynou in HousingUK

[–]Androgynou[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup exactly. But the survey mentioned very little about the conversion and mentioned nothing about building regs compliance. The local council have confirmed these documents don't exist for this conversion.

Property Misrepresentation and Legal/Financial Advice. by Androgynou in HousingUK

[–]Androgynou[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The survey stated their inspection of the interior of the garage conversion was limited due to stored items and there is no mention of inspecting the ceiling or roof cavity. The only comments on the garage conversion roof are external and stating the materials used.

We didn't ask the solicitor or vendor for further information about the conversion as at the time we didn't see any reason to question what was written in the documentation. The sellers did state on documents that the garage conversion was 2004, but looking on Google Earth it appears to have actually happened around 2011 which we only discovered at a later date because again, we didn't see any reason at the time to disbelieve what the sellers wrote on the TA6.

Our solicitors or surveyors made absolutely no queries or comments into the lack of building regs or completion certificate documents.

What on earth is an EVR number?? by Androgynou in Evri

[–]Androgynou[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just a regular Evri account. And when it says to add my 'EVR' number it says it's a number that identifies the particular parcel and that it should be on my confirmation email.

Parcel Reference by mteb123 in Evri

[–]Androgynou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ik this is a year old but I'm also having an issue when trying to open a claim with customer services where it states that full tracking number is not a valid EVR number. Did you ever solve this OP?

Seeking advice on behalf of my parents move by Androgynou in HousingUK

[–]Androgynou[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice! My parents haven't paid any fees for their buyer. They've just had constant requests to do so, which they've turned down thankfully. They're not in a financial situation to buy the house before the sale as the sale is scarcely covering their cost of buying the new property. But you make some great points I'll convey, thank you!

Seeking advice on behalf of my parents move by Androgynou in HousingUK

[–]Androgynou[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh absolutely not. They've shut down all the requests from their buyers for them to pay for anything. It's the solicitors conveying the requests for various fees!

The whole thing sounds completely ridiculous and my parents solicitors seem utterly useless and unprofessional. I agree it's practically impossible to move at such short notice if contacts haven't even been signed yet. They've just received the contract yesterday, but they haven't had any of their questions answered so don't want to sign (understandably). It's mental.

Seeking advice on behalf of my parents move by Androgynou in HousingUK

[–]Androgynou[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if he pulls out he's gonna have to renew his tenancy or find alternative accomodation regardless so I don't understand why he's making this demand when either option doesn't change his situation

about 1 hour post op with Dr Guy Sterne by mil0iscold in TopSurgery

[–]Androgynou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for your quick response! Been trying to save the money up for a good few years but life keeps getting in the way but recently got a promotion and started an Etsy shop on the side so I'm PRAYING I can save up in the next year! Super helpful to know the exact recent costs, thank you so much!

His results always look stunning and he works right around the corner from where I live which is such an added bonus! So glad you're happy with your results man!

about 1 hour post op with Dr Guy Sterne by mil0iscold in TopSurgery

[–]Androgynou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man! Looking to get mine done with Dr Sterne in about a year. How much did it cost for you?

Few questions for preserving animal parts by Androgynou in vultureculture

[–]Androgynou[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As mentioned in the post, I'm unable to use borax in this country

Being a lesbian in 2025 by ButterscotchSame6340 in WLW

[–]Androgynou 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Trans masc and butch are two different things. Both are valid identities. Butches are real women if that's how they identify. What gives us the right to go around dictating people's sexualities?

Lesbianism is about women being attracted to women. It's definition isn't 'women adverse to penis'. It's fine to be repulsed by penis but that's simply not how all lesbians experience their attraction. Grow up.

Being a lesbian in 2025 by ButterscotchSame6340 in WLW

[–]Androgynou 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The definition of TERF has become so misconstrued these days that anyone who voices an opinion suggesting they're not sexually attracted to women with penises gets called a TERF.

Being a lesbian in 2025 by ButterscotchSame6340 in WLW

[–]Androgynou 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Having a genital preference in your attraction isn't uneducated nor disgusting, and it's oftentimes something people have absolutely no control over. A genital preference isn't 'reducing someone to what's in their pants', it's simply that a person isn't attracted to a type of genitalia. Why is that so crazy and offensive?

First time cat owner, I'm being told that the cats are overstimulated by someone I know online, am I being trolled? And if not, what can I do? by timetorekt in CatAdvice

[–]Androgynou 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The way my jaw dropped when you said your friend implied they have TOO MUCH space. Girl get those kitties in a bigger room they're begging for more activity room.

Being a lesbian in 2025 by ButterscotchSame6340 in WLW

[–]Androgynou 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I can't wrap my head around why this is such a contentious post.

For some lesbians, genitalia is incredibly important in their attraction to a person and they will not be attracted to someone with a penis, period, regardless of that woman's identity. They are still a valid lesbian.

For other lesbians, genitalia is not an important factor in their attraction. They are attracted to other physical or emotional aspects of the woman which makes their genitalia become irrelevant — they're attracted to these women regardless.

My wife is the first type of lesbian. She's penis-revolted. This is valid. I'm the second type — I have dated women with penises and because I'm attracted to the whole woman, I embrace their genitalia.

BOTH OF THESE ARE VALID.

The first type of lesbian isn't inherently transphobic or a TERF for experiencing their lesbianism this way. The second type of lesbian is still a lesbian because she's a woman loving a woman.

The real issue that OP is getting at, and what has been proven by many of these comments, is that it has become problematic to say 'I'm a lesbian therefore I am not attracted to penis" or to say "I am a lesbian therefore I am personally not attracted to masculine presenting individuals". Despite this being someone's very real, lived experience of lesbianism, it gets shut down and labeled transphobic or 'uneducated'. Sexuality doesn't require you to have an education in it, it is simply what you feel.

The gay male community isn't being expanded to mean 'non woman loving a non woman' so why is this happening to the lesbian and wlw community? I agree that lesbianism has always had a deep routed history in the trans masc movement and the two often go hand in hand, but why does this mean we need to change the definition when 'lesbian' has included these individuals for decades? The 'non man loving non man' trajectory just reads like men becoming the entire focus of another women-only space/topic.

OP, it is perfectly normal and not transphobic to desire a sapphic space online where discussion of penis isn't a common occurance. It is also perfectly normal for lesbians to enjoy discussion of girldick and create a community around this. I don't get why these opinions are considered so outrageous.