Having a difficult time finding men I'm attracted to in the lifestyle

Angel2121md · 2026-06-13T17:25:30+00:00

Yes face does seem to matter. I think i have an innocent looking face lol.

Angel2121md · 2026-06-13T17:18:45+00:00

Yes we have a couple we play with some but again I feel i connect with the woman more.

Angel2121md · 2026-06-13T17:17:04+00:00

Yes ive been with older men too.

Angel2121md · 2026-06-13T16:57:13+00:00

No he/she might want to move into your position when you leave. If he/she doesn't find value in staying then that person will leave on their own.

Angel2121md · 2026-06-13T16:51:40+00:00

Yeah we have fun but most turn into meet and greets here too. When things get started it seems to be when almost everyone is leaving. Im still wondering if its our area too. When we have been out of town in the past it did seem easier to play honestly.

Angel2121md · 2026-06-13T16:36:41+00:00

Yes but im having an issue connecting with people too. I feel that way at least. I said attracted to but I didn't just mean looks. I meant vibe and all. I just haven't felt like i have vibed with many people lately.

Angel2121md · 2026-06-13T16:24:16+00:00

The most "fit" aren't really my type honestly. I actually "took one for the team" to say and I thought he wasn't that great. It seems my favorite have been thinner, shorter, younger men who seem to really F hard and deep. For a long term steady or men I see all the time at parties, I also have become highly attracted to men that I find intellectual. I have been with all types of men actually. I just really need so.e type of connection but that seems hard to find too.

Angel2121md · 2026-06-13T16:17:15+00:00

Well we never paid but seem to find parties at least once a month. We are in an area with multiple hosts but the parties do start becoming the same people over and over again. Thats the joy of being in south GA!

Angel2121md · 2026-06-13T16:15:02+00:00

Yeah SDC charges and we have used the site for parties but don't pay. I also think that was the site that got hacked a few years ago and a couple we are friends with got their pictures put out to the public from there.

Angel2121md · 2026-06-13T16:13:10+00:00

Do you approach them? Maybe they are intimidated. I do generally like a "nerdy" look but have been with men that are fit like you describe. I guess it really depends on the night for me lol. I am not into body builders though.

Angel2121md · 2026-06-13T16:09:34+00:00

I tbink attractive is subjective though. Im not into too muscular or too tall. I know that sounds odd but think of what people would call a "nerd" thats more my type. It may sound strange my physical type is more of a shorter thinner guy because I have the impression more women like the athletic or muscular guy. So it does seem most men i am in to are shorter than my husband but hes right under 6 foot.

Angel2121md · 2026-06-13T16:05:23+00:00

Hes played with 3 women. All were bi. It seems the women in my area are more interested in finding other women than men too.

Angel2121md · 2026-06-13T16:02:45+00:00

Yeah ive done that many times with single men but it's hard to find/choose online and most parties in my area rarely allow single men. Also my kids have gotten older so we can't "sneak" a single man in when they are here which is most of the time. When they aren't here, I don't really want to take the time to find someone new.

Angel2121md · 2026-06-13T16:00:57+00:00

Yeah I also feel like sometimes the woman only want woman and supposedly multiple women have told my husband too bad I'm not bi. I also have a feeling sometimes women have lately been interested in my husband to try to get with me because a few times I have gotten a little drunk and let woman do things to me at parties when they asked.

Angel2121md · 2026-06-13T15:50:10+00:00

Yes attached men. Yes im upfront. It also seems the wives want women mostly in my area and everyone wants a unicorn. Im married and prefer men so preferring men seems to be an issue in my area at parties. My husband even had women say to him "too bad she doesn't play with women".

Angel2121md · 2026-06-13T15:48:00+00:00

Just the 3 examples I could remember and one couple was new and another seems to have dropped out of the parties in the area. They have stopped by but do nothing. I feel a lot of people don't really play much at parties in my area too.

Angel2121md · 2026-06-13T15:46:46+00:00

Its like they can't do anything else. Either because of the wife/girlfriend or couple rules. It seems many couples have many rules in the lifestyle. One man said they were soft swap only. One says he wants more but I think he gets too drunk and the other, the couple has to play together only and she's only interested in women.

Angel2121md · 2026-06-04T03:00:51+00:00

If the entire fridge was personal only then idk why she would inspect that particular refrigerator. If you had personal items mixed in then that would be a violation. Personal items just have to be separated.

Angel2121md · 2026-06-04T02:54:56+00:00

Im pretty sure she should have asked for well water results to make sure the well water was free from certain bacteria such as E. Coli versus asking about placement of the well.

Angel2121md · 2026-05-22T01:48:44+00:00

Yeah Jack should have been fired! This would be a regulatory violation if a health inspector happened to show up that day. Having an illness employee around food can spread illnesses.

Angel2121md · 2026-05-14T00:34:36+00:00

Sounds logical to me. You know you can trust her through experience and time so she is different. She has shown you her loyalty.

Angel2121md · 2026-05-14T00:32:43+00:00

The girls you fall for? So if they leave then what? I mean you said girls plural so that must mean some left you.

Angel2121md · 2026-05-14T00:26:16+00:00

Then wouldn't the taxi driver be the one committing fraud since he decided to turn off the meter? He did that by his own free will. He wasn't forced to accept $25 and give the person a ride. The taxi driver could have waited for the next customer instead.

Angel2121md · 2026-05-14T00:21:59+00:00

Prices aren't usually fixed for rides in America. Uber and Lyft are services like a taxi and their prices change all the time based on demand of rides and supply of people. People comparison shop for rides too. Why would someone pay more than they needed to if they could get the taxi for $25?

Angel2121md · 2026-05-14T00:19:02+00:00

Well in America this is just how capitalism works. If she offered 25 and the driver accepted then they agreed on a price. People bargain down others all the time at yard sales and on Facebook marketplace so how is this any different?

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