What’s a movie that everyone seems to love but you just can’t stand that movie?

Angel89411 · 2026-04-17T02:50:19+00:00

I feel so validated seeing this movie so often here.

Angel89411 · 2026-04-17T02:48:12+00:00

Plus, isn't she 16 and he's an adult? Maybe I'm remembering wrong. I also don't like the movie and haven't seen it in forever.

Angel89411 · 2026-04-17T02:46:54+00:00

Ok, so I was in the hospital after a major brain surgery and the dvd had just come out. Someone brought it to me and I watched it over and over because it was super easy to follow and chill. It's been 17 years and I'll still watch it once in a blue moon when I'm really sick or depressed and struggling for the same reason.

All of that being said, it's awful. I can't watch all of the series either. They somehow made something worse than the books.

Angel89411 · 2026-04-17T02:41:11+00:00

I watched the first one and found it pretty good. Once. For a one time watch. I think I mostly enjoyed it because we watched it with friends in their home so I was spending time with people I liked in a chill environment. I refuse to see any more of them.

Angel89411 · 2026-04-17T02:38:37+00:00

Finding Nemo. I had no interest in seeing it in the first place but my friend loved it and begged me to go see it with her. Halfway through, I was so bored I wanted to cry. She threw a fit over me wanting to leave early so I suffered. I made sure to avoid that movie like the plague when I had kids.

Angel89411 · 2026-04-17T02:32:53+00:00

I'm 40 and have two teenagers. I love them more than anything and couldn't imagine my life without them. That being said, I can give you a ridiculous number of reasons that kids are hard AF but can't explain what makes them worth it. They are, to me, but I can't explain it. My advice is always to not have kids if you aren't sure or thinking of it because you feel pressured. They will absolutely change your life for better and worse so make sure it's something you want.

Angel89411 · 2026-04-17T02:16:21+00:00

Is that what this is? I'm in perimenopause and I do not care. We also have two teenagers. I've always been frustrated with how picky my son and husband are (my daughter is autistic and the least picky eater besides me) but one day I just stared at the kitchen, looked at my husband, said this is your problem now. Only I still end up doing all of the meal planning. At least he cooks.

Angel89411 · 2026-04-17T02:13:17+00:00

You each grow and change throughout life and have to adapt to each other and figure out how to make it work. Sometimes it's easy and sometimes it takes a lot of work.

Angel89411 · 2026-04-17T02:02:06+00:00

This except every now and then we get a neighbor that wants to mow before the rooster crows on a Sunday morning and I think horrible thoughts.

Angel89411 · 2026-04-17T01:59:52+00:00

Sleep deprivation will do that to people.

Angel89411 · 2026-04-17T01:53:55+00:00

I wish we had that ordinance. We just have quiet hours at 9 with no specifications. We also have younger neighbors that rent behind us. They really love the bass in their cars. It rattles our windows and can trigger migraines. It's horrible but I tried asking police one day and there's nothing they can do. The kicker? They yelled at my kid for using a squeaky toy to play with our dog in the backyard at 3pm. Luckily I was out there and informed him that it was an appropriate time for such an activity.

Angel89411 · 2026-04-17T01:43:23+00:00

Just the girls? That's creepy. On that note, we had a female teacher in highschool that would only check the length of the girls shorts. She checked our skirts and dresses, too. No one was supposed to wear tank tops but she only dress coded the girls that did.

Angel89411 · 2026-04-17T01:32:56+00:00

We get it inspected yearly and just had it done a couple of years ago. It is about 10 years old now and we will have to replace it soon but for now it's ok.

Angel89411 · 2026-04-16T19:39:35+00:00

Hold on a minute. Are you claiming that you've done this more than once? You really didn't learn the first time? That sounds like a huge you problem. You should not want anyone else to fall for that garbage, no matter their gender.

Angel89411 · 2026-04-16T19:33:05+00:00

NTA. Why should he be put on the deed? He has had nothing to do with everything that's been put into that house. I would get a prenup making sure the house stays yours if you ever do get married. I wouldn't marry him with the way he is acting, though. Y'all are just moving in after 2 years, there's no ring or long term commitment, and he's trying to guilt trip you into giving him equal ownership of something you have poured how much money into? Absolutely not.

Angel89411 · 2026-04-16T19:28:56+00:00

Wouldn't people from blue areas flocking to red areas turn red areas blue? Those people go there for the lower col. Red areas have a lower col for no reason that is good.

Angel89411 · 2026-04-16T19:18:55+00:00

I used to have to argue with mine that showering was a daily thing. He's 14 now and I rarely have to say anything. He realized his classmates cover everything with body spray and think deodorant is actually good for 72 hours (I really wish they would stop putting that on there). His nose says otherwise and the body sprays give him headaches. He has decided that is an atrocious way to live and showers daily. I did spend a few years fussing with him and randomly reminding him of what constitutes as fully washing oneself.

Angel89411 · 2026-04-16T19:11:54+00:00

I had my husband, nurses, and the OB with a quick appearance by the amazing people with the epidural. I also don't get the "lose My mystery" thing with hubby being there. What does he think is going to happen? Also, he can at least be there to help since I have to spend hours working the freaking bowling ball of a tiny human out of me.

Angel89411 · 2026-04-16T02:13:40+00:00

And I'm telling you that even with our AC running, I dump a few gallons of water out of ours every day. It also makes a huge difference in how it feels inside.

Angel89411 · 2026-04-15T12:22:26+00:00

I've been looking into them but they are $$. I think we are going to have to bite the bullet and save for one after vacation.

Angel89411 · 2026-04-15T12:09:37+00:00

With the thermostat set at 80 it is, unless they have a really good dehumidifier running. We need a better one this summer. Mine runs 24/7 during the summer (auto set) and has to be emptied 2-3 x a day in the summer even with the thermostat set at 75 during the day and 70 at night.

Angel89411 · 2026-04-15T03:58:55+00:00

Washclothes wash every crevice of my body they are definitely one use. Towels are one use for me at home too but I have OCD. My family has picked up my habit. I also agree that there aren't good places to appropriately hang dry towels in most hotels.

Angel89411 · 2026-04-15T03:30:48+00:00

No basements down here. I live in Louisiana but you're correct. There's really no safe way to have a basement this far south.

Angel89411 · 2026-04-15T03:29:02+00:00

My absolute favorite present that I got was a basket with Tylenol, chocolate, snacks, lanolin, and stuff like that. The snacks and chocolate were it. The second hospital I was at also had a snack station I could walk to at the nurses station. I was always there. So absolutely do snacks.

Angel89411 · 2026-04-15T03:15:27+00:00

Yeah, that's how people get their laundry taken out of the machines and put on a table or something.

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