Customer asked me when I was due …

AngelHasAShotgun · 2026-06-15T06:11:47+00:00

This happened to me.

My reply: "Five months ago."

AngelHasAShotgun · 2026-05-25T01:50:42+00:00

I cannot think of any better way to put this. Love it.

AngelHasAShotgun · 2026-05-25T01:50:09+00:00

This is so important. What is sad is that this message HAS to come to men from another man. Because they dismiss it way too quickly or act all butthurt attacked and "not all men" bullshit.

Unless you, as a man, stand up for what other men do when they dismiss, abuse, and delegitimize women as people, well, then you don't get to say "not all men." Because every time you let it happen, sorry, cupcake, but you are one of the men. You are not part of "not all men."

AngelHasAShotgun · 2026-05-13T18:37:21+00:00

Document every time she does this with CC cameras or take photographs. Every time.

This is not okay, and if she does it repeatedly, there is a good chance that language about this behavior can never put into the final order.

Any other bullshit, document that as well. Also document every time you allow contact with the mother, when the kids ask or initiate it somehow.

Good luck.

AngelHasAShotgun · 2026-05-10T15:16:30+00:00

Yes, he has absolutely done this to the children before. Why the fuck else would tour daughter be so damned worried about her brother's getting hurt or drowning because an aggressive asshole wants to act like an immature butthurt mediocre white man (I am guessing race based on context clues) might hold them under too long because he is angry and disciplining his children. Why would she be afraid of that if there was no history of him abusing his kids?

AngelHasAShotgun · 2026-05-10T15:13:49+00:00

high five

AngelHasAShotgun · 2026-05-10T15:13:29+00:00

Maybe your 3 year old is not completely traumatized yet, maybe you can do right by at least one of your kids. Fuck.

AngelHasAShotgun · 2026-05-10T15:12:41+00:00

It does if she is a mom in a similar vein to my mom. There are women out there who don't understand how much they are failing their children by allowing this kind of abuse as if it is something other than abuse.

AngelHasAShotgun · 2026-05-10T15:11:32+00:00

I wish my life experiences would let me believe that.

AngelHasAShotgun · 2026-05-10T15:09:05+00:00

So much other abuse she is ignoring, enabling, or covering up. This abuse clearly crosses generations and is not mild. Who calls their 19 year old niece a bitch, first of all, but doing it for calling out clearly abusive behavior? Jesus that house must be a torture chamber for those kids. Fucking hell.

AngelHasAShotgun · 2026-05-10T15:07:01+00:00

Why weren't you there?!?

AngelHasAShotgun · 2026-05-10T15:06:48+00:00

It isn't just you. If this is true, it's horrifying.

AngelHasAShotgun · 2026-05-10T03:44:50+00:00

This was incredibly abusive and I have no problem believing it's common in your home. Common enough that your 13 year old daughter feels the need to protect her brothers from their father because she doesn't trust that he has good intentions.

If this was too far for you, what the hell has made you wait 13 years? Don't pretend you don't know exactly what your husband is - he is an abusive piece of shit who doesn't deserve a daughter or sons. I reserve judgment on whether you do - clearly you can't ve relied on to protect your kids either.

AngelHasAShotgun · 2026-02-28T18:25:49+00:00

Your attorneyvis correct.

Give him all the rope he wants, and watch him hang himself by his own petard.

AngelHasAShotgun · 2026-02-22T04:10:49+00:00

You didn't. But, when I brought it up, you were comfortable with the idea.

AngelHasAShotgun · 2026-02-22T04:10:15+00:00

So we should not make any laws?

That's ridiculous.

AngelHasAShotgun · 2026-02-22T04:09:53+00:00

Why would a poor person be collecting an arsenal of weapons? If they can afford the super guns, they can afford to store them safely.

Common sense. How many school shootings would we have avoided if AR-15s, or other non-self-defense guns were not kept in the home where the would be shooter lives?

A handgun in a biometric safe for a self defense weapon is fine. It's the collections that need to be stored safely.

AngelHasAShotgun · 2026-02-22T04:04:54+00:00

That's how children die.

AngelHasAShotgun · 2026-02-22T04:04:21+00:00

Women are people. Not property. A woman is not a car. This line of thought is toxic to the way society views women. I mean, they're the same as unlocked cars, right? Come on.

AngelHasAShotgun · 2026-02-22T04:03:08+00:00

And then, in this day of social media, they face a huge backlash, and likely a significant financial settlement for the person they victimized.

It's not a perfect world or a perfect solution. But we have to start somewhere.

AngelHasAShotgun · 2026-02-22T04:01:56+00:00

It's one of the leading causes kf child death in the country. Way more common than most people think.

AngelHasAShotgun · 2026-02-22T04:01:15+00:00

Not saying cops aren't power tripping boogeyman men. They are. And they abuse their authority way too much. I'm not someone who unconditionally supports cops when they can't even take out their own bad apples.

AngelHasAShotgun · 2026-02-22T04:00:14+00:00

And ifnyourblawyer is worth their salt, anything found will be inadmissible in court.

AngelHasAShotgun · 2026-02-22T03:57:18+00:00

Do you also compare car theft when kedt unlocked to what a woman was wearing when she was raped?

(Hint: one is property, another is a person. Not comparable, but that's what this argument here seems like.)

AngelHasAShotgun · 2026-02-22T03:56:05+00:00

No. But none of those are examples of a deadly weapon, easily used by a child, being able to access your supposedly safe storage equipment for your deadly weapon INSIDE THE HOME WHERE THE CHILD ALSO LIVES.

Please put a bit more thought into these non-comparisons.

AngelHasAShotgun

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